Isinyathelo sokuqala sokuxazulula inkinga ukuqaphela inkinga. Masikhulume iqiniso, nakuba izimangaliso zenzeka ezimpilweni zethu, ziyivelakancane (yingakho ziyizimangaliso). Ngakho-ke, ezimweni eziningi, ukuze uzuze okuthile, udinga ukwenza umzamo wangempela futhi uqhubekele emgomweni wakho. Kuhlanganisa uma umsebenzi uwukunqoba amahloni amaningi namahloni, okungaba nomthelela empumelelweni nasentuthukweni. Yini ehlukanisa umuntu oqiniseka ngokugcwele emandleni nasemakhonweni kumuntu ohlale ezingabaza? Laba bamuva, ngokuphambene nalokho, bafuna ukuzibiyela emisebenzini eyesabisayo, ngisho ezithakazelisayo, namathuba, bavumelane nokuncane kunalokho abakwaziyo. Nokho, ukwakha nokuthuthukisa ukuzethemba ngezinye izikhathi kungaba umsebenzi onzima. Kuyinto eyodwa ukwazi ukubaluleka kokuzethemba ngamakhono akho, kodwa kungenye into ukuba yilowo muntu, ikakhulukazi uma unamahloni okumemezela isitobhi sebhasi noma ushayele isevisi yokulethwa ukuze u-ode i-pizza. Umbuzo ongenakugwenywa uphakama: yini okufanele uyenze futhi ubani okufanele asolwe? Impendulo ingamanga. Abantu abazethembayo abawangabazi amandla abo okubhekana nenkinga (umsebenzi) noma ngabe izimo zinjani. Njengoba bebhekene nobunzima, bayazi ukuthi bangasiguqula isimo sibe isiqondiso esibazuzisayo. Esikhundleni sokugxila kakhulu noma ngokuhlala besaba inkinga, bafunda kokuhlangenwe nakho, "bampompa" amakhono abo futhi bathuthukise indlela yokuziphatha ezoholela empumelelweni. Lokhu akusho nakancane ukuthi umuntu ozethembayo akazwani nobuhlungu bokudumazeka noma bokwenqatshwa okuthile, kodwa uyazi ukuthi angabhekana kanjani nakho ngesizotha, angavumeli isimo sibe nomthelela omubi esikhathini esizayo. Kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa ikhono lokululama ngokushesha ekuhlulekeni futhi hhayi ngokuya ngezici zangaphandle zokwandisa ukuzethemba. Impela, kuhle ukuthola udumo oluvela kumphathi wakho noma umklomelo ovelele embonini yakho, kodwa ngokuthembela kuphela ekuqashelweni abanye, unciphisa amandla akho kanye nezinga ongathonya ngalo ikusasa. Ukuzethemba okujulile kuvela ezintweni ezimbili: . Ukuqaphela okunjalo kuthatha isikhathi. Siphakamisa ukuthi kucutshungulwe inani lezincomo ezisebenzayo zesikhathi esifushane. Lona kanye iqiniso lokuthola nokwazi amathalente akho emvelo, izimo kanye nezinto ozithandayo kukhulisa ukuzethemba kwakho nokuzihlonipha kwakho. Qala ngokucabanga ngalokho okuhlaba umxhwele, yimuphi umgomo obamba umoya wakho. Mhlawumbe ingxenye yakho izohleba "Awukwazi lokhu", yiba nenkani, bhala izimfanelo zakho ezinhle ephepheni elizokusiza ukufeza lokho okufunayo. Isibonelo, uthole isifiso sakho - ukubhala imibhalo yefilimu. Ekuboneni kokuqala, lokhu kubonakala kungenakwenzeka, kodwa uma ubeka yonke into emashalofini, njengoba uqonda: konke okudingekayo kuwe kuyisifiso se-cinema, i-streak yokudala kanye nekhono lokubhala izindaba, konke onakho. Sithambekele ekubukeleni phansi amakhono ethu, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi lokhu akunakwenzeka futhi ngokuvamile akulungile. Cabanga ngokufezwa okuthile, njengokuthola umsebenzi wakho wokuqala noma ukuphumelela ukuhlolwa okunzima. Hlaziya okwenzile ukuze kwenzeke? Ingabe bekuwukuphikelela kwakho, ikhono elithile elikhethekile noma indlela osondela ngayo? Amakhono nezimfanelo zakho ngokuqinisekile zingasetshenziswa ekufinyeleleni le migomo elandelayo. Umkhuba obulala abantu abaningi uwukuziqhathanisa njalo nabanye. Uwena, ngakho yeka ukuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu uze ulahlekelwe ukuzihlonipha. Isinyathelo sokuqala sokususa amahloni ukuzamukela ngokuphelele njengoba unjalo, ngezimfanelo ezinhle hhayi kanjalo. Phusha imingcele yakho kanye nemikhawulo kancane kancane, isinyathelo ngesinyathelo. Uzomangala ngekhono lomuntu lokuzivumelanisa nezimo ezintsha ezahlukene! Iya ezindaweni zomphakathi, imibukiso, imihlangano, imikhosi kanye nemicimbi, yenze kube yingxenye yempilo. Ngenxa yalokho, uzoqala ukuqaphela ukuthi ukhululeka kanjani, futhi amahloni aya endaweni ethile. Khumbula, ukuhlala endaweni yakho yokunethezeka kusho ukuthi awushintshi, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukuba namahloni ngeke kuphele. Ukwenqatshwa kuyingxenye evamile yokuphila. Ngandlela thize, kukho konke ukuphila sihlangana nabantu abanentshisekelo namagugu angahlangani nezethu, noma abaqashi abangasiboni njengengxenye yeqembu labo. Futhi lokhu, futhi, kuyinto evamile. Funda ukungazithathi izimo ezinjalo njengokweyisa komuntu siqu, kodwa njengethuba lokukhula kuphela. Ulimi lomzimba lunokuhlobana okuqondile nendlela esizizwa ngayo. Uma umile ugobile, ushwaqeka emahlombe akho futhi ikhanda lakho libheke phansi, uzozizwa ungalondekile ngokuzenzakalelayo futhi, njengokungathi, unamahloni ngawe. Kodwa zama ukuqondisa umhlane wakho, uqondise amahlombe akho, uphakamise ikhala lakho ngokuziqhenya futhi uhambe ngokuzethemba, njengoba wena ngokwakho ngeke uqaphele ukuthi uzizwa ungumuntu ofaneleka kakhulu futhi onesibindi. Kuthatha futhi isikhathi, kodwa, qiniseka, yisikhathi.
2022-11-11