Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule, izinkundla zokuxhumana zikhukhulwe igagasi lelinye isixuku esikhanyayo. Abasebenzisi baxoxa izindaba zokwehluleka nokuhlulwa kwabo, okuhambisana nethegi ethi #mewas not hired. Kusho ukuthini konke lokhu mayelana nokwelashwa kwengqondo? Isazi sethu u-Vladimir Dashevsky siyingxenye: lokhu ukukhala okuvela emphefumulweni wabantu abacasuliwe, futhi isixuku se-flash ngokwaso sinobugovu futhi siyizinsana.
Ku-psychotherapy, into eyinhloko ukulalela. Uma ungeyena u-Sherlock Holmes hhayi uDkt House, uma ungenalo iso lesithathu futhi awukwazi "ukubheka emphefumulweni" futhi uhlole imicabango, amehlo nezindlebe zomuntu kanye nesipiliyoni kuzokwenza. Abantu bakhuluma ngabo. Ngokuqondile, ebunzini, ngokuphikelela futhi okuningi.
Ukuthi nje abakhulumi ngamagama, kodwa nalokho okuphakathi: ukunganaki, ukusikisela, okushiwo. Ngokwesayensi, lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi «incazelo». Noma yiliphi ibinzana lisho okuthile, futhi ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu kwakhiwe ngosizo lwemiyalezo enjalo. Kwenzeka okufanayo emibhalweni. Ikakhulukazi emibhalweni yezokuxhumana nabantu. Ikakhulukazi ku-Facebook (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia).
Isibonelo, uma ufunde kuze kufike kule migqa, isiphi isiphetho ongafinyelela ngaso ngami njengombhali? Ngokwesibonelo, umlobi uyisnob, i-nerd kanye «nerd» owanquma ukugibela ethosiwe, ngokwesaba wanquma ukuthi angakwazi ukulayisha abafundi ngencazelo ewubuphukuphuku, «amahhanisi isikhathi eside lapho isixuku se-flash. iqala." Futhi njalo njalo njalo. Yikho konke okufundayo phakathi kwemigqa yombhalo.
Ngakho-ke, akukhona lokho abantu abakushoyo noma abakubhalayo okuthakazelisayo, kodwa lokho abakushoyo ngemiyalezo yabo. Phela, yilokhu umuntu akuzwayo ngempela, ezingeni lokuquleka, into angenakuyilawula.
Namuhla kuyihlazo ukungaphumeleli. Ikakhulukazi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana
Ngakho-ke, mayelana ne-flash mob, #abazange bangithathe. Kuyamangaza ukuthi washeshe wayinqoba kanjani i-Facebook (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia). Amandla okutheleleka angakholeki! Izinsuku ezimbili - izinkulungwane, amashumi ezinkulungwane zama-athikili, izincwadi, amahlaya, izixhumanisi, izingcaphuno nokuthunyelwe kabusha. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi abacwaningi sebevele bazalwa abazochaza imithetho emisha yesayikholoji yenkundla yezokuxhumana besebenzisa isibonelo sokuziphatha kwabantu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
Kuyini okusobala kanye nalokho abaningi asebebhale ngakho: i-flash mob # abazange bangithathe — u-90% walezi zindaba zempumelelo. “Mangingaqashwa inkampani X, kodwa manje ngisenkampanini engu-Y (“ngisungule ibhizinisi lami” / “ngifudumeza isisu sami e-Bali”) futhi ngikushokoledi ogcwele.” Ake sikubize ngobuzenzisi bomphakathi.
Namuhla kuyihlazo ukungaphumeleli. Ikakhulukazi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Ukhilimu womhlaba wansuku zonke kuphela oshicilelwe lapha. Ihanjelwa izintatheli, ababhali besikrini, ababhali, labo abavame ukubizwa ngesigaba sokudala. Futhi-ke, ngesisekelo salokhu okuthunyelwe, akunakwenzeka ukwenza iziphetho mayelana nezizathu zokuhluleka. Kukhona into enjalo — «iphutha osindile», lapho, ngokusho iminonjana yezinhlamvu on the fuselage indiza ebuyela esisekelweni, bazama ukufinyelela iziphetho mayelana nezizathu eziphansi «survivability» of indiza. Izindiza ezishayiswe injini noma ithangi legesi ziyahluleka futhi azibuyi. Akwaziwa lutho ngabo.
Labo #abangabambi iqhaza ngempela ku-flash mob. Kuphakathi kokuthi kubuhlungu noma asikho isikhathi.
I-ego yombhali ithatha ama-laudatory juices, ukuzethemba kuyakhula, umgomo ufinyelelwa.
Manje mayelana nokuthi yini efihliwe, mayelana nencazelo.
Izinyembezi zababhali zomile, kodwa amagqubu asala. Amagqubu ngalaba #samifools, #angithathanga muhle, #luma ngendololwane, #nuisabogus musani ukubamba iqhaza kulento. Amazwana avela ngokushesha ngaphansi kokuthunyelwe: "bavumele babe nomona manje", "banecala", "upholile". I-ego yababhali ithatha ama-laudatory juices, ukuzethemba kukhula, umgomo ufinyelelwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengomthetho, izimo zindala, ukucasuka kuwubuntwana, futhi ukucasuka kobuntwana yikho okucasula kakhulu.
Ukucasuka okuningi. Kusukela ku-snowball encane eyethulwe ezinsukwini ezimbili ezedlule, inqwaba yezikhalazo ezicindezelwe yehla entabeni ye-Facebook (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia). Ziyanda izendlalelo ezinamathela kukho, abezindaba abahlukahlukene bacosha izinduku, manje i-avalanche enkulu ishanela ku-inthanethi, ishanela abafundi, ishanela izindaba nezinye izihloko. Kulula, kuphephile futhi kusebenza ngempumelelo. Kubonakala sengathi ngihlanganyela esixukwini esijabulisayo, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ngithola ukwelashwa.
Yeka ukuhlambalaza, isixuku esinje - esinobugovu kanye nezinsana. Lona kanye igama elithi “Angithathwanga” lisikisela ukuthi ngiyinto umuntu onamandla, ophiwe amandla, akhululekile ukuthi ayithathe noma angayithatha. Umbhali uthatha ngokuzenzakalelayo isimo somuntu ohlukunyeziwe futhi akakwazi «ngendlela yabantu abadala», ukuqaphela isimo.
Ukuqhuma kwentukuthelo kuhle, njengokuphuma kobovu esilondeni. Kodwa ngincamela ukuma eceleni ngalesi sikhathi, ukuze ngingalinyazwa igagasi lokuqhuma.
Isivinini sokusabalalisa kanye nemvelo yobuningi benqubo ingase ibonise ukuthi iyasebenza. Ngiqaphele ukuthi izixuku ezinkulu zenkundla yezokuxhumana (njengeyakamuva ethi #Ngesaba ukusho) zihlale ziyi-psychotherapeutic. Njengomthetho, ekupheleni kwe-flash mob, imiphumela ye-narcissistic ixutshwe lapha.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela lokhu, njengoba sibheka isibani esikhanyayo - kusukela ngaphansi kwamajwabu amehlo avaliwe, ukuze uvumele amagama adlule, futhi agxile kulokho okwenzeka ngempela.