Okuqukethwe
Ngemva kwalomhlangano wokuqala uqala ke isikhathi "sokubamba okulinganayo", sokulungiswa kancane kancane. Wonke umuntu uthola ukwazana, lokho okunciphayo okukubiza ngokuthi “ukusebenzelana kwasekuqaleni”: umama nosana lwakhe olusanda kuzalwa “bayadala” omunye nomunye, bajwayelane ngokunakekela. , ukudlala, ukuncelisa ibele noma ukuncelisa ibhodlela!) kanye… nakho konke okunye! Isikhathi esimnandi kakhulu, "i-cocoon" kakhulu, ngisho nokuhoxiswa kancane, kodwa kudingekile, lapho ilungu ngalinye lomndeni lakha indawo yalo entsha ngokushiya ingxenye enhle kumuntu omusha (ngisho noma kungenjalo. Kulula kwansuku zonke).
Iseluleko : izinyanga eziyisithupha zokuqala, zisebenzise! Gcwalisa ingane yakho, ihamba ngokushesha ... Yiphathe, uyinyakazise, uyinuke, yigone, yinikeze uthando lwakho “oluluhlaza,” vumela izifiso zakho zizikhulumele. Abanye omama bakwenza ngokwezinhliziyo zabo, abazithola bengomama ngokweqile, njengoba uJuliette waseRennes esitshela: “UMatthis ungishintshe ngokuphelele! Kodwa kwadingeka ngizithathele mina (futhi ubaba wangisiza kakhulu) ukuze ngimelane nesilingo sokuzivalela kuleli qembu… ”.
Qaphela, "ukuzwana" noBaby akusona neze isibopho enhlalakahleni yakhe! Futhi kungase kuvele ukuthi i-sclerosing ngemva kwalokho. Into esemqoka: ukulalela ingane yakho ngenkathi uhlala wena. Ukuze uthole ibhalansi yomuntu ngamunye kanye nomndeni uwonke, kuyalulekwa ukuthi uzilalele, ukuze ungazikhohlwa ...
Vikela umntwana ngaphandle kokumvikela ngokweqile
Kancane kancane, inyoni encane iyakhula ... futhi kuphakama isifiso sokwelula amaphiko ayo ukuze ivule isidleke sayo kancane, ulwazi lwayo kanjalo nokuhlola umhlaba ongaphandle. Ngoba lokho nakho kuyingxenye yendoda encane: nangu umhloli wamazwe owazalwa enelukuluku lokwazi ngayo yonke into!
Ngisho noma izingalo zikaMama noBaba (futhi zizohlala) ziqinisekisa njalo, Umntwana uphushwa ngokwemvelo futhi ngokoqobo ngalokhu kuqhuma kwempilo okumnika, njengoChristopher Columbus ebhulukwe elifushane, isifiso sokusuka kancane "esifubeni" sabazali. Ngamatemu "obuchwepheshe", lokhu kunikeza: ukuphuma kumngcele wokuvikela ukuze ungene kulokho ochwepheshe abakubiza ngokuthi "indawo yokutholwa". Ethwelwe imilenze yakhe emincane eminyene kanye nokubuka kwakhe ngokulangazela, u-Baby akayeki ukuqhubekela phambili futhi aqhubekisele phambili amabhizinisi akhe.
Yebo kodwa nakhu, uzokwazi ukukwenza kuphela uma indawo yokuqala imakwe kakhulu, ngomqondo wokuthi ingane yakho iyakwazi lokho.uma kwenzeka kuba nokukhathazeka, angabuya njalo ukuzocasha endaweni yokuphepha, okusho ukuthi… nawe! Futhi lapho wenza le ndawo yaba indawo encane yokuthula, yilapho uMntwana ezozizwa ekhululekile ukuyishiya. Indida? Cha, kuqondene nemvelo yomuntu.
Ngokuyisisekelo, nina, bazali bakhe, nidlala indima ebalulekile ekulinganiseni kwakhe: kungenxa yokuthi ingane yakho izoqiniseka ukuthi ayisoze yalahlekelwa uthando lwenu futhi izokwazi ukuzihlukanisa kangcono nani… Isisekelo sangempela sekusasa ! Futhi umthwalo ongcwele futhi, sikunikeza ...
Abazali: cabanga (nawe) ngawe!
Qiniseka, yonke into ngokuvamile yenziwa ngokwemvelo, ngokushaya okuthile nokungalungile, okuvame ukwenza kube nokwenzeka ukulungisa isibhamu. Ngaphandle kokukhohlwa izimo ezimbili ngaphandle kwalokho le nqubo iba inkimbinkimbi :
- okokuqala, iqiniso lokuthi umama "uvumela" ingane yakhe ukuba ihlukanise futhi ngakho-ke isuke kuye (yebo, kwabanye, akuyona into esobala!), Kubalulekile ukuba ingane ithole ukuzethemba futhi ihlangabezane nemingcele yayo. Ngaphansi kokubuka kwakho okuziqhenyayo, okunesisa nokunaka, kunjalo, kodwa ngokwakho. Ngokwesibonelo, epaki asikho isidingo sokumshaya “Uzowa!” ngaso sonke isikhathi, engcupheni yokuvimbela imizamo yayo. Kunalokho umphelezele ngezwi ukumnika izixazululo uma enobunzima, kodwa ngaphandle kokungenelela ngokomzimba.
- Okwesibili, ulinge, nawe, ukuze uzihlukanise kusukela Baby ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi ngaphandle kokuzizwa unecala sicela! Ngeke nje ikuvumele ukuthi usondelane nobaba noma uzinike isikhathi kodwa ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyokwenzela okuningi okuhle (uma sikutshela!). Ngoba lokhu yilokho uMntwana akudinga kakhulu ukuze akhule ngenjabulo: abazali ababili E-PA-NOUIS! Eqinisweni, konke kumayelana nencazelo yegolide.
Ngendlela, uyazi ukuthi kungani ama-hedgehogs ehlala kude ukusuka komunye nomunye? Ngoba nje, ukude kakhulu, babezobanda kodwa basondele kakhulu, babezihlaba. Hhayi-ke, Mama kanye Nomntwana, yinganekwane enhle efanayo….
Izimpawu zokunamathiselwe "okuvikelekile".
- Umntwana uyakhala noma akhale, kodwa wehlise umoya ngokushesha lapho ebona umzali wakhe nangemva kokungenelela kwakhe;
– Uphendula ngokumamatheka;
- Kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala, ubonisa isithakazelo esithile kumzali wakhe: uyamlandela ngamehlo akhe, welulela izingalo zakhe kuye, ugoqana naye, uthanda ukudlala, ukusebenzisana naye;
- Le nzalo ikhula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ize ibe yekhethekile eminyakeni ethile eqondile (ukukhathazeka ngokuhlukana cishe kwezinyanga eziyi-8 bese kuba nokwesaba izibalo zakwamanye amazwe cishe izinyanga eziyi-15);
- Umntwana ufuna ukuhlala nawe futhi abhikishe lapho uhamba;
- Unesithakazelo ngokwengeziwe endaweni yangaphandle futhi ubuka ukusabela kwakho lapho eqhubeka "nokuhlola".