Ubulili besifazane akubona ubuhle bangaphandle, hhayi ubukhulu besifuba kanye nokuma kwezinqe, hhayi ukuhamba okubushelelezi nokubukeka okubuthakathaka. Ubulili yikhono lowesifazane lokuthola injabulo yenkanuko ngokuthintana nomhlaba. Leli khono lingathuthukiswa.
Ubulili buyimvelo kuwo wonke umuntu wesifazane, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu owaziyo ukuthi angakubonisa kanjani. Ubulili bukhula ngolwazi, njengoba owesifazane efunda kabanzi mayelana nemizwa yakhe, inkanuko. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, amantombazane asemancane ane-sexy encane kunabesifazane abavuthiwe.
Indlela yokuhlola ubulili bakho?
1. Ngokuvumelana nemizwelo nemizwa yakho
Yeka ukuthi zikhanya futhi zijule kangakanani. Lona umbandela obaluleke kakhulu futhi othembekile.
- Uyaba nesifiso socansi, kangaki futhi sinamandla kangakanani?
- Ingabe unamaphupho namaphupho ocansi nawokuvusa inkanuko?
- Isikhumba sakho sizwela kangakanani, ingabe uyazazi izindawo zakho ze-erogenous?
- Ingabe ucansi nokuthintana ngokomzimba kukulethela injabulo kanye nemizwa eyakhayo, noma kukwenza unyanye, ube namahloni, ukwesaba, ngisho nobuhlungu bomzimba?
- Une-orgasmic kangakanani, uyazazi izindlela zakho zokuthola i-orgasm?
2. Ngokusabela kwabanye kuwe
Kumayelana nendlela ubulili bakho obubonakaliswa ngayo. Uvuleke kangakanani kuyo futhi ufuna ukuthola isiqinisekiso sangaphandle sokuthi uyathandeka.
- Ingabe bakubhekile?
- Ingabe uyakuthola ukunconywa?
- Ingabe amadoda ahlangana nawe?
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ubulili?
1. Zithinte, thuthukisa inkanuko, ube khona ekuthintaneni ngokomzimba
Ucansi luqala ngemizwa. Zama ukuthinta isikhumba sakho futhi uqondise ukunaka kwakho endaweni yokuxhumana. Uzizwa kanjani ngalesi sikhathi? Ukushisa, ukushaya kwenhliziyo, ukucindezela?
Gxila kulo muzwa bese uzama ukuwuqinisa ngokunaka kwakho. Izwa ukuthi yimiphi imizwa ehlotshaniswa nalo muzwa. Izwa ukuthintana komzimba futhi uzwe imizwa. Okufanayo kufanele kwenziwe ngesikhathi socansi nanoma yikuphi ukuxhumana komzimba nomlingani.
2. Hlola umzimba wakho
Akubona bonke abantu besifazane abathola i-orgasm eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila kocansi, kodwa iningi liba ne-anorgasmia ngemva kweminyaka embalwa, futhi u-25% akakwazi ukuba ne-orgasm empilweni yabo yonke. Ukuze ugweme ukuwela kulesi sigaba:
- ukuqalisa, ukufunda izincwadi nezindatshana mayelana nokwakheka kocansi kwabesifazane;
- shaya indlwabu futhi uhlole izindawo zakho ze-erogenous, izindlela zokuthola i-orgasm.
3. Fantaze
Uma ubona indoda ekhangayo ngokocansi, zicabange ulala nayo. Ukuthi umzimba wakhe ubukeka kanjani ngaphansi kwezingubo, indlela anuka ngayo, indlela anyakaza ngayo, lokho akuphulula akusebenzisayo, ukuthi isikhumba sakhe sizizwa kanjani lapho ethintwa. Amaphupho avusa inkanuko nocansi athuthukisa inkanuko.
4. Khulisa i-libido yakho
Lokhu kuzosiza imikhuba ehlukahlukene yomzimba, ukuzivocavoca kwemisipha esondelene nokusebenza ekukhuliseni ukuzethemba.
5. Dlala, phendula ukunakwa kwabesilisa
Uma owesifazane enomlingani ohlala njalo kanye nobuhlobo obuvumelanayo obanelisayo, akanaso isidingo esikhethekile sokubonisa ubulili nokuheha amanye amadoda. Uma owesifazane e-sexy, kodwa ngaphandle komlingani, ngokuvamile uvulekile ekubonakalisweni kobulili, udinga futhi ukuheha umlingani. Akumele kube nzima ukuthi umuntu wesifazane osekhulile aqome.
Kodwa-ke, kukhona abaningi balabo ukubonakaliswa kobulili okungekho emthethweni, ngaphansi kokuvinjelwa kwabagxeki bangaphakathi.
Nginamakhasimende afuna ubudlelwano, kodwa lokhu akubonakali nganoma iyiphi indlela. Abalokothi bathathe isinyathelo, ngoba, ngokombono wabo, kuyichilo ngowesifazane ukwenza lokhu. Ngaphansi kokwesaba ukuvinjelwa kwangaphakathi, ababonisi nhlobo ukuthi badinga umlingani. Futhi abangaba abalingani abasiboni lesi sidingo.
Okokuqala, funda ukumelana nokunakwa kwabesilisa futhi uhlale uthintana ngaphandle kokuphoxeka noma naphezu kokuphoxeka. Gcina ukubheka emehlweni, gcina amehlo akho, mamatheka ngokuphendula ukumamatheka, ungabi namahloni ngokuncoma. Ngemuva kwalokho ungazama futhi uqale ukudlala ngothando kanye nokudlala ngothando.
6. Sebenzisana nomelaphi ngokuhlukumezeka kwakho ngokocansi
Ubulili abuthuthukisiwe noma bubonakaliswe kulabo besifazane abahlangabezane nokuhlukumezeka okushaqisayo noma ukuhlukumezeka kwentuthuko okuhlobene nocansi ebuntwaneni:
- intombazane yahlukunyezwa ngokocansi noma yayingufakazi wodlame locansi;
- omunye wabazali (okunalokho, umama) waphika futhi walahla ubulili bendodakazi noma ubulili bayo, noma ubulili njengoba bunjalo emndenini;
- rough, bakudala, isilwane ubulili bomunye wabazali, ngaphandle uthando olusuka enhliziyweni;
- intombazane isencane yabona ucansi futhi yayesaba.
Ungase ungakhumbuli ukuhlukumezeka kwakho kwasebuntwaneni. Kodwa uma ufuna ukuzwana ocansini futhi unomuzwa wokuthi kukhona okuvimbela ubulili bakho, lesi yisikhathi sokwelashwa kwengqondo.
7. Zibuke esibukweni, uzidumise
Uma ezinye izinkolelo zikuvimbela ukuthi ubone ubuhle bakho futhi uzithande, sebenzisana nabagxeki bangaphakathi ku-psychotherapy.
8. Futhi-ke, yenza ucansi.
Masivumelane ukuthi ucansi lunokubaluleka ngokwalo. Ngisho noma kungukwaneliseka kwesidingo somzimba kuphela. Ukunikeza injabulo emzimbeni, ukuthola imizwa eyakhayo, injabulo isivele iningi.