Odokotela beluleke umama ukuthi alahle ingane ngokukhubazeka kobuchopho, yena wangena eHarvard

Odokotela beluleke lo wesifazane ukuthi ashiye indodana yakhe esibhedlela. Kodwa wanikela ngawo wonke amandla akhe nakho konke ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umfana uphila impilo ejwayelekile.

UZhou Hong Yan ungumhlali ojwayelekile waseChina. Izingane ziyakuthanda kakhulu lapho. Kodwa izingane ziphilile. Ngenxa yokugcwala ngokweqile, ngokuvamile kunobudlelwano obunzima nezombusazwe zezingane. UZhou wayeyifuna ngempela ingane. Futhi ekugcineni wakhulelwa. Kepha…

Ukuzalwa kwakunzima. Ingane kaZhou icishe yamuncwa yizinkinga. I-Hypoxia idale ukukhubazeka kobuchopho enganeni. Odokotela besibhedlela sokubeletha esifundazweni baphakamisa ukuthi umama ashiye ingane: bathi, usazothuthuka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukhubazekile ngokomzimba.

Uyise womfana, umyeni kaZhou osemthethweni, uwulalele umbono wodokotela. "Akuyona ingane le, kodwa umthwalo," etshela unkosikazi wakhe. Kodwa umama osemusha wanquma ukuthi ngeke ayilahle ingane yakhe. Futhi uzohlukanisa nomyeni wakhe. Nangempela wenza njalo.

Indodana kaZhou yaqanjwa ngokuthi nguDing Dong. Umndeni omncane wawudinga imali eningi: phela umfana wayedinga ukunakekelwa okukhethekile. Ngakho-ke uZhou kwakumele athole itoho. Futhi okukodwa. Ngenxa yalokho, wayesebenza emisebenzini emithathu, futhi ngesikhathi sakhe samahhala - noma ngabe wayeyithatha kuphi! - UZhou ubematasa nengane.

Ngangithembisene umshado - kwakungewona u-anti no-lisp kuphela, njengoba kwenza bonke omama. Wamhudulela ezifundweni zokuvuselela - noma yiluphi usuku, kunoma yisiphi isimo sezulu. Ufunde ukunika uDing imasaji yokuphulukisa. Ngadlala naye emidlalweni ehlukahlukene yokufunda futhi ngahlanganisa amapuzzle.

Kwakubalulekile kuZhou ukuthi indodana yakhe yazi ukuthi ingakunqoba kanjani ukushiyeka kwayo zisuka nje. Isibonelo, ngenxa yezinkinga zokuxhumanisa, uDing akakwazanga ukudla ngezinti. Umndeni ubukholelwa ukuthi ubengadingi ukukwazi ukwenza lokhu, kepha uZhou usamfundise ukuthi kusetshenziswa kanjani imishini yokusika.

“Ngaphandle kwalokho, kuzofanele uchazele abantu njalo ukuthi kungani ungeke ukwazi ukwenza lokhu,” kuchaza ingane.

“Bengingafuni ukuba abe namahloni ngalezi zinkinga zomzimba,” kusho umama onesibindi. “UDing ubenezinkinga eziningi, kodwa ngigcizelele ukuthi asebenze kanzima futhi azinqobe. Kwakumele ahlangane nontanga yakhe kukho konke. "

UDing manje uneminyaka engama-29. Uthole i-BS yakhe yeSayensi nobuNjiniyela ePeking University. Wangena kumantshi wesikole somthetho samanyuvesi. Eminyakeni emibili kamuva, uDing wangena eHarvard.

“Ngikwazile ukukufeza konke lokhu kuphela ngenxa yokubekezela nokuzinikela okungapheli kukamama,” kusho uDing.

Futhi uZhou? Ujabule ngokuthi indodana yakhe izuze okuningi. Ngakho-ke, akazange adlule kubo bonke ubunzima bokuphila komama ongayedwa.

Konje

UDing Dong akuyena kuphela umntwana ozuze okuningi yize egula kakhulu. Umfana ogama lakhe lingu-Asher Nash uhlala eMelika. Umama wakhe wanquma ukuthi wayekufanele ngempela ukuvela kuzikhangiso. Kepha akazange avunyelwe ekusakazweni - ngenxa yokuxilongwa. Ingane ine-Down syndrome. Kepha… umama ka-Asher, uMegan, akazange amiswe yimikhuba ethile. Wakha ikhasi le-Facebook elinikezwe indodana yakhe. Futhi egameni lakhe, waphendukela enkampanini ekhiqiza izinto zezingane - ngesicelo sokuhlola idatha yemodeli yengane. Lesi sikhalazo saqala ukusabalala. Futhi manje u-Asheri omncane waba ubuso bomkhiqizo we-Oshkosh B'gosh.

Futhi eNgilandi kunentombazane egama lingu-Isabella Neville. Ubuye abe ne-cerebral palsy. Kwakufanele ahlinzwe uchungechunge lokuhlinzwa futhi agqoke uplastikhi isikhathi eside - ukuze akwazi ukuhamba. U-Isabella wayenephupho: ukuba yisibonelo. Abazali abaphikisani nezifiso zendodakazi yabo. Kunalokho, babemsekela. UPhil noJulie Neville bahlela iseshini yezithombe yendodakazi yabo, futhi izithombe zathunyelwa kuma-ejensi okumodela, lapho babengazi lutho ngokuxilongwa kuka-Isabella. Futhi ucabangani? Intombazane yaqashelwa! Ngokushesha, u-Isabella oneminyaka engu-13 ubudala wathola inkontileka yakhe yokuqala.

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