Ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla yomshado ngemva kwesehlukaniso
”Ukudla Okunempilo Eduze Kwami” yaxoxa nommeli futhi yathola lokho okufanele ukwazi ukuze ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla ngemva kwesehlukaniso kungabubumbi ngokuphelele ubuhlobo phakathi kwabashade nabo bangaphambili.

“No, you don’t understand, she cheated on me and generally wiped her feet on me! And now I have to share the housing with her, which I bought with my hard-earned money, equally ?! The listener of Healthy Food Near Me Radio (97,2 FM) was excited. Alas, courts do not take into account arguments like “she’s a bitch” (“he’s a goat”) when dividing the property of ex-spouses.

Yini okufanele ukwazi, ukuze uma kwenzeka ukuwa kokuphila komndeni, ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo, ngeke sisale singenalutho, sazilungisa nommeli uVictoria Danilchenko.

Yini okufanele ihlukaniswe phakathi

Lokhu kusebenza kunoma iyiphi impahla ethengwe ngesikhathi somshado osemthethweni - kusukela osukwini lwayo lokuqala kuya kowokugcina.

“Ngokwesibonelo, uma uthenge ifulethi ngosuku lomshado wenu, futhi ningakwazi ukwenza lutho ndawonye, ​​lisazobhekwa njengempahla evamile yabashadile,” kuchaza uVictoria Danilchenko. - Okufanayo kusebenza ezimweni lapho "uyini, asizange sihlale ndawonye iminyaka emibili." Uma umshado ungachithwa ngokusemthethweni, konke akuthengile kule minyaka emibili kuyimpahla yabo ngokuhlanganyela. Futhi ngesehlukaniso, kuyodingeka ihlukaniswe phakathi. Impahla engasahwewe

  • Amafulethi namakotishi abashadikazi ababenawo ngaphambi komshado.
  • Impahla indoda noma inkosikazi eyayithola ngesikhathi somshado, kodwa ngaphansi kokuthengiselana okungakhokhelwa, yatholwa njengesipho noma ngefa.

Indaba ehlukile eyezindlu ezizimele. Angeke futhi ihlukaniseke ngesikhathi sesehlukaniso, iyohlala kwabashade nabo eyayiqashwe kubo. Kodwa uma owesibili wabashadile ngesikhathi sokwenza okuyimfihlo naye wabhaliswa kule ndawo futhi walahla isabelo sakhe sendawo ngenxa yamanye amalungu omndeni, ngeke kwenzeke ukumbhalela ngaphandle kwaleli fulethi ngokumelene nentando yakhe. Ngakho umthetho wethu uvikela izakhamuzi ezinhle kakhulu ezihlotsheni ezingabongi.

  • Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinkokhelo ezifana nosizo lwezezimali noma isinxephezelo sokukhubazeka azibhekwa njengemali evamile. Ziqondiswe futhi zihloselwe umuntu othile.
  • Ngeke kudingeke ukuthi wabelane ngempahla yomuntu siqu kanye nempahla edingekayo emisebenzini yobungcweti. Ngokwesibonelo, ikhompuyutha esetshenziswa omunye wabangane bomshado. Yiqiniso, izingxabano zingase ziphakame nalapha - uma bobabili abashadile besebenza kukhompyutha, inkinga kuzodingeka ixazululwe ngezinkantolo.

ifa elithengisiwe

... USergey wazuza ifa kubazali bakhe. Ngemva kokushada, le nsizwa yanquma ukuyithengisa futhi ithenge entsha, yesimanje. Kwaba isimanga esikhulu kuye ukuthi ngesikhathi sesehlukaniso, ifulethi elisha kuzodingeka lihlukaniswe phakathi nomkakhe njengempahla etholwe ngokuhlanganyela.

Ochwepheshe basikisela ukuthi ngokwengqondo ezimweni ezinjalo kungenzeka ukufakazela ukuthi ifulethi elisha alithengwa ngezindleko zemali ejwayelekile, kodwa ngezindleko zalabo abatholwe ekuthengisweni kwendlu eyifa. Kodwa ekwenzeni lokhu kunzima ukukwenza. Kukhona ithuba uma inani elivela ekuthengisweni lifakwe ku-akhawunti yomuntu siqu ka-Sergey, kwakusuka kule akhawunti lapho ekhokhela khona indlu entsha - futhi ngenjongo yokukhokha ibhange ilandela ngokucacile lapho imali eya khona. Kodwa akuvamile ukuba umuntu akwenze.

Uma umshado usemthethweni

Uma emshadweni womphakathi abantu abasha bethenga indawo yokuhlala, bese umshado uphela, ingabe le ndlu izoba ndawonye? abafundi bayasibuza. Ngeke. Kulokhu, ifulethi liyindawo yomlingani ojwayelekile owathenga egameni lakhe. E-State Duma, kwaxoxwa ngesinyathelo sokulinganisa umshado womphakathi nomshado ojwayelekile ngokwemibandela yempahla, kodwa lokhu akuzange kuphele lutho, okungenani okwamanje.

Indlela yokuqinisekisa

Umthetho awubavimbeli ababeshade nomshado ukuba bafinyelele isivumelwano futhi bahlukaniselane impahla ngendlela bona ngokwabo abayibona ilungile. Uma lowo owayengumyeni efuna ukushiya yonke impahla kunkosikazi wangaphambili - akukho nkinga. Okubalulekile ukuthi lezi zivumelwano kufanele zidwetshwe ephepheni. Futhi kwenzeka ukuthi, ngemva kokubonisa izikhulu ekuqaleni, omunye umbhangqwana ushintsha ingqondo yabo ngemva kweminyaka embalwa futhi uqala ukulanda amalungelo.

Maye, ngesikhathi sokuxabana komndeni nokuhlukana, bambalwa abantu abakwaziyo ukugcina ukucabanga okuhluzekile kanye nekhono lokwabelana ngokuthile "ngobulungisa" lapho - imizwa iyanyamalala. Ngakho-ke, iseluleko esiyinhloko sabameli ukuthi kungcono ukuxoxisana ekuqaleni kokuphila komndeni, kuyilapho konke kuhamba kahle. Makungabukeki kunothando kakhulu, kepha uma kwenzeka okuthile, kuzokwazi ukuhlukana ngendlela ephucuzekile.

– Uma unempahla futhi ukholelwa ukuthi izokwanda emshadweni, ungavilaphi ukuvala isivumelwano somshado. Lokhu kuzokwenza ukuphila kube lula kakhulu futhi kunciphise izinga lemizwa lapho nihlukana, - kuncoma uVictoria Danilchenko.

The most high-profile parting of oligarchs

Roman no-Irina Abramovich wahlangana ekuqaleni komsebenzi omangalisayo we-oligarch ezayo. Wayengumsizi endizeni, wandizela endizeni … Izingane ezinhlanu zazalwa emshadweni. U-Irina wafunda ngokukhashelwa komyeni wakhe noDasha Zhukova emaphephandabeni. Bavumelana ngokuthula, bahlukanisa enkantolo yaseChukchi, lapho bona bengekho khona, kuphela abameleli babo. Ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, u-Irina waba umnikazi we-villa kanye namafulethi amabili kanokusho eNgilandi, inqaba yaseFrance, futhi wathola amapondo ayizigidi eziyizinkulungwane ezingu-6 kanye nethuba lokusebenzisa i-Boeing ne-yacht yomyeni wakhe yangasese unomphela. Mangisho ukuthi isehlukaniso sosomabhizinisi kuDasha Zhukova sahamba ngokuthula. Ngokusho kwamahemuhemu, lo mbhangqwana uvumelene ngakho konke ngisho nangaphambi kokusungula ubuhlobo.

UDmitry no-Elena Rybolovlev babendawonye kusukela eminyakeni yabo yokufunda, bobabili odokotela, ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yama-80s, baqala ukuthola imali enhle ngaleso sikhathi ngokuhlela umtholampilo wangasese. Ngo-1995, uDmitry wayesevele engumnikazi we-Uralkali futhi enezabelo kwamanye amabhizinisi amaningana, futhi ngokushesha umndeni wathuthela eSwitzerland. Kwakusenkantolo yaseSwitzerland lapho u-Elena afaka khona isehlukaniso. Isizathu wukungathembeki okuningi komlingani. Mangisho ukuthi eminyakeni embalwa ngaphambi kwalokhu, u-Dmitry wanikeza u-Elena ukuphetha inkontileka yomshado, lapho ayezothola khona ama-euro ayizigidi ezingu-100 uma kwenzeka isehlukaniso, kodwa wenqaba ukwenza lokhu, ngokusobala enombono omuhle. izinombolo zangempela zenhlanhla yomyeni wakhe. Ngemva kwesinqumo senkantolo sokugcina, u-Elena wathola amaRandi angaphezu kwezigidi ezingu-600 nezindlu ezimbili eSwitzerland. Kwathatha iminyaka eminingana, lapho uDmitry ethenga khona indawo ethengiswayo emhlabeni wonke ukuze agweme izinkokhelo zesehlukaniso, futhi u-Elena wazama ukukufakazela lokho ngokufaka amacala ezinkantolo zamazwe ahlukene. Lo mbhangqwana unamadodakazi amabili, omdala ungumnikazi, phakathi kwezinye izinto, iziqhingi ezimbili zamaGreki, kanye nelinye lamafulethi abiza kakhulu emhlabeni. U-Elena wayekholelwa ukuthi kwakungenxa yokufihla indawo ebizayo ngesikhathi sesehlukaniso lapho owayengumyeni wakhe ebhalela indodakazi yakhe endala.

Imibuzo nezimpendulo ezidumile

“Indodakazi yashada, yathuthela kumyeni wayo endlini yangasese. Uphile iminyaka engu-22. Manje abahlali ndawonye, ​​kodwa indodakazi yami isahlala kulo muzi. Lowo owayengumyeni uthi inkantolo izomxosha. Ingabe unalo ilungelo elinjalo? Indlu yayingabazali bakhe, wazuza ifa.

Ngeshwa, ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, unelungelo lokuphakamisa udaba lokuxosha umkakhe kulo muzi njengoba wayeyilungu lomndeni.

“Ubhuti akazwani neze nomkakhe. Waba nokungacabangi ukuthenga indawo yokuhlala futhi wayibhalela umkakhe. Kodwa wasayina naye isivumelwano sokuboleka imali. Ingabe lokhu kuzomsiza umfowethu esahlukaniso ukuba azibolele yena indlu?

Cha Kuze kube yilapho behlukanisa, impahla yabo evamile ayiyona nje indawo yokuhlala, kodwa nayo yonke imali etholwe ngesikhathi somshado. Akusho lutho ukuthi indoda iyasebenza, nomfazi uhlala nabantwana. Umthetho uthatha ngokuthi bobabili abashadile ngandlela-thile baneqhaza emnothweni womndeni ovamile. Ngakho-ke, isivumelwano sokubolekwa esiphethwe nomfazi asinangqondo: imali ebolekiwe isavamile ngokuvumelana nomthetho. Manje, uma kwakungeyena umyeni owaboleka inkosikazi imali ngaphansi kwenkontileka, kodwa, ake sithi, umfowabo womyeni noma esinye isihlobo, khona-ke lokhu kungase kube ubufakazi bokuthi inkosikazi yathenga indlu ngemali yabanye abantu.

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