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Omama bedijithali babhukuda enjabulweni… noma cishe!
Omama baye kuwebhu. Amabhulogi abo, ama-akhawunti e-Instagram, indalo ku-Pinterest namavidiyo aku-YouTube aphindaphindeka ngokungapheli. Kodwa ukuthi singumama akusho ukuthi siyefana! Ku-inthanethi njengakwezinye izindawo, kunezitayela ezihluke kakhulu. Okwamanje, izitayela ezimbili ezinkulu ziyashayisana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, "ama-mamas ajabule" adlala ngokwabo kanye nezingane zabo endaweni yonke ephelele ukuze bakwenze ube luhlaza ngomona. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, omama abenqaba lesi sithombe esihle sokuba ngumama futhi babonise, ngokuvamile ngamancoko, ukuthi kwenzekani ngempela ekuphileni kwabo kwansuku zonke. Izikhathi ezimnandi nezimbi...
Ukuba ngumama kuyi-nirvana
Uyayikhumbula ingoma ethi “Happy” ka-Pharrell Williams? Nokho, ukuxolisa kwakhe okujabulisayo nokunethemba ngenjabulo kuwine omama abaningi ababelana ngaso sonke isikhathi sokuba ngumama kwabo okuhle kuwebhu. “Umama ojabulayo ngokuphelele” “,” umama ojabulayo “,” Jabula umama.com “,” ingane ejabulayo “,” ingane ejabule “” umndeni ojabulayo “… Besingacacisi! Laba “omama abajabulayo” (asisho omama) baziveza futhi bakhona ngenxa yezingane zabo. Isihluthulelo senjabulo yabo ukunakekela amakhanda abo amhlophe athandekayo (noma ama-brunettes) ngothando, kuyilapho befinyelela umsebenzi wokuba bahle, abancane, abaphumelele ngokomsebenzi, ukuba nenqwaba yabangane abahle. , umyeni omatasa nokuphila okugcwele izinto azithandayo. Izithombe zomndeni zinhle, ziyisitayela futhi zinefreyimu enhle, umhlobiso usemfashinini, wonke umuntu unesitayela esihle kakhulu, ngamafuphi, yonke into ilungele emhlabeni omangalisayo womama abajabule. Esinye sezibonelo ezinhle kakhulu zalo mnyakazo “umama okahle” ibhulogi kaJulia Restoin Roitfeld, “Romy and the Bunnies”, esitshela ezithombeni zokuphila kwansuku zonke okujabulisayo kwentombazanyana yakhe nabangane bakhe bemfashini. OkukaJess Dempsey, (www.whatwouldkarldo.com), omunye ungoti wezemfashini, oziveza “njengomama othemba isazela sakhe somama”, ugibela isiteji nabafana bakhe ababili, u-Aston, oneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, noWill, izinyanga ezi-4. endala, kuzilungiselelo ezifanele omagazini abasezingeni eliphezulu. Ngokuqondene nekhasi le-Instagram likaSarah Stage, "https: //instagram.com/sarahstage", imodeli edumile yaseMelika eyadala umsindo omkhulu ngokudalula i-abs yakhe esaqhubeka nemisipha ezinyangeni eziyisi-8 nesigamu zokukhulelwa, unokuningi yenza umona ngabo bonke omama abasanda kubeletha futhi abangazange, njengaye, bathole umugqa wamamodeli aphezulu ...
Injabulo nenjabulo eyengeziwe kuze kugcwale
Ama-akhawunti e-Instagram "Liliinthemoon" kanye "nama-mamawatters" asenza siphuphe ngezithombe zabo ezinhle zezingane ezinhle endaweni nezindlu ezinhle! Yonke into imhlophe ngokungenasici, ihlanzekile, i-chic, idizayini nobuhle! Omama abakwaziyo ukwenza yonke into ukuze baphelele baphinde bakhanye ngokusebenzisa okokufundisa. Uma intombazanyana yakho ithanda ama-braids, bheka ibhulogi ethi "Cute Girls Hairstyles", ephethwe nguMindy McKnight, umama waseMelika ophethe isizwe sezingane eziyisithupha. Ubala konke okungaba khona nokulukwa ongakucabanga, izindlebe zikaMinnie, iminsalo, imiqhele, izinhliziyo, izindlebe zekati, izinto ezinhle… Bangaphezu kwezigidi eziyi-1,6 ababhalisile abalandela izifundo zakhe ezihlanganisa amawele akhe aseBrooklyn no-Bailey. Njengebhonasi, kukhona ngisho nesigaba esinikezelwe kobaba. Uma uthanda kakhulu ekhishini, uzoba umlandeli we-akhawunti ka-Samantha Lee ye-Instagram, ayibiza ngokuthi “Izwe lami liyisiwula sokuzijabulisa”. Upheka lapho izitsha ezixoxa indaba, abalingiswa bakhe yimifino, izithelo, inhlanzi, njll., ngamafuphi, ubuhle obumangalisayo... Ithrendi ethi “Jabula nganoma iyiphi intengo” ingatholakala kuma-vlog. Abakwa-“Shaytards”, u-Shay Carl, unkosikazi wakhe kanye nezingane zabo ezinhlanu sebengomunye wemindeni edume kakhulu ku-YouTube. Lawa ma-vlogger anothando athwebule ukuzalwa kwezingane zabo ezimbili kanye namandla omndeni wabo, konke kuhle! Kumavidiyo abo, wonke umuntu uyathanda futhi uyangana, umzuzu ngamunye wempilo yakhe ugcwele imizwa emihle, futhi uthando luxazulula zonke izinkinga! Abanye abadlali be-Youtuber abadumile, i-"SacconeJolys". U-Anna noJofee bangabazali abahle bezingane ezimbili ezithandekayo, u-Eduardo no-Emilia, futhi ama-video abo asibonisa indlela abazikhulisa ngayo izingane zabo ezinhle ngendlela emangalisayo. Kuhle!
Ama-blogger, ama-vlogger, ama-instagramers ozozwa ngawo!
Udinwe omama abaphelele
Ngokungafani “nomama abajabulayo” baseMelika abazibiza ngompetha benjabulo ephelele, i-blogger yesiFulentshi, ama-Instagrammers kanye omama be-Youtubers nabo bafuna injabulo, kodwa ngendlela ehlukile, ethobeke kakhulu, nangendlela yokubukisa. Lo mkhuba awumusha. Sikhumbula “omama ababi” kanye nabanye “omama abasabekayo” bango-2010 ababelane ngemizwa yabo kumabhulogi anamagama adalulayo: “Mèrepasparfaiteetalors.fr”, “la-parfait-bad-mère” “Mèrepasparfaite” “,” reindigne.com "," latrèsmauvaisemère ". Laba omama ababi nabaziqhenyayo ngakho bavukela umfanekiso wokuba ngumama ogculisayo, bathi ngezinye izinsuku asisaphumeleli, babhekisela ekubuyeleni emsebenzini njengosuku olubusisiwe, bathi ukukhulelwa kungu-zero, futhi benqaba ngokuphelele ukudela yonke into. izingane zabo. Njengoba beye bancipha kakhulu namuhla, “omama abajabulayo kodwa nokho ababhekana namaqiniso” bavame ukuthatha izithombe ezibukhoma zalokho ababelana ngakho nezingane zabo, ngaphandle kokuzama ukukuhlobisa nganoma iyiphi indlela. Lokhu kuqonda kubavumela ukuba bavule amehlo abo ezinjabulweni ezincane ezivamile zansuku zonke, imizwelo edlulayo, izinto ezincane ezinikeza injabulo futhi ezibeka ilanga ezinsukwini zokusebenza / zezingane / zokulala. Abathandi be-DIY (Do It Yourself) babelana ngokukhululekile ngolwazi lwabo, umuzwa wabo we-cocooning kanye nobuciko babo ku-Pinterest nasekuthungeni, ukunitha, ukukhilosha, i-scrapbooking kanye namabhulogi amancane okuhlobisa. “Prune et Violette”, “Mercotte”, “Une poule à petit pas”, isibonelo, ziyi-hit.
Amathiphu okusiza impilo yansuku zonke "yangempela".
Idalwe ngu-Céline ngo-Okthoba 2008 ekufikeni kwengane yakhe yesibili, ibhulogi ethi “Augustin et Augustine” isiphenduke ibhulogi “ye-carpe diem” “yendlela yokuphila” ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kubhulogi yakhe ethandekayo, “Mes doudoux et compagnie”, u-Anabel ukhuluma ngempilo yomndeni wakhe futhi ulandisa ngohlangothi olumnandi kanye nohlangothi olubabayo lwempilo kamama. Izithombe zika-“Marjoliemaman”, “Merci pour le chocolat”, “Natachabirds”, “rockand mum”, “Belle mam” zibonisa kalula nje izinto ezinhle zansuku zonke, esingaziboni ngempela, kodwa izinongo zokuphila. Ibhulogi kaSandrine ethi “Umama uMiamm uyapheka” wabelana ngamathiphu akhe njengomama kumndeni omkhulu, osebenza isikhathi esigcwele. Amaresiphi akhe alula, ayashesha futhi amnandi ukwenza impilo ibe lula kubo bonke omama abamatasa. UJulie, ogama lakhe lingu-Hysterikmum ungunina kaDictator (iminyaka emi-5) kanye ne-Empress (unyaka ongu-1) kanye nomngane kaMachoman. Kubhulogi yakhe enobungane ethi “hysterikfamily.com”, ukhuluma ngokugqama kwesizwe sakubo futhi emnikeza namathiphu okuthuthukisa impilo yakhe yansuku zonke.
Labo abakhetha ukuzigcona
Inkolelo yabo iwukuthi ungaba ngumama ogcwalisekile futhi oseduze nokuphazamiseka kwemizwa, izikhathi ezishintshanayo zokudumazeka nenjabulo. I-blogger yethu u-Jessica Cymerman, obizwa ngokuthi “Serial mother” ungomunye wezinkanyezi zalo mnyakazo ohlekisayo. Wabelana ngokuchotshozwa kwakhe, ukukhala, ukushaywa kwegazi, ukukhahlela, ukushiswa yilanga, ukushaywa kancane (!), Ukudutshulwa kwekhanda, ukugudluza nothando lapho eqala ukubona. Amahlaya akhe ahlekisayo asephenduke izincwadi ezithengiswa kakhulu. Umama Omangalisayo uSerena Giuliano Laktaf, ochaza ibhulogi yakhe ethi “wondermumenaraslacape.com” njengebhulogi kamama ongaphelele, onezingane ezimbili eziphelele… kanye ne-Aarès. U-YouTuber Angélique Grimberg, umama kaHugo, oneminyaka engu-400 ubudala, usephenduke u-Angie, iMarquise des Langes. Ungathola njalo ngoLwesithathu kungosi yethu ye-Parents.fr eyodwa yezingcezu zakhe ze-e ezihlekisayo nezihlekisayo. Ukuze sijabule kakhulu, i-Marquise des Langes ithola ugqozi lwakhe emazwini endodana yakhe, umhlanganyeli oqhubekayo, kanye nasempilweni yakhe yansuku zonke njengomeluleki womshado nomndeni esibhedlela saseLyon. Mayelana no-Héloïse, udale ibhulogi ethi “Yimpilo kamama”. Imidwebo yakhe ibonisa amahlaya izikhathi ezincane zokuphila kwakhe kwansuku zonke njengomama owayedingisiwe eNgilandi kanye noMat, umyeni wakhe, u-Ezra noWilliam, abafana bakhe ababili. Uma sikhuphukela phezulu ekucasuleni, sithola ukusabela okuqinile okuthatha okuphambene ncamashi nokunyakaza kwe-“Happy mamas”. Namuhla, ama-anti "happy mothers" bakhe i-tumblr "umama engingathanda ukumbulala" (UBISI). Kuyinhlanganisela ehlekisa ngobumnene zonke izikhala zokuba ngumama, omama "eceleni kophawu" abaphupha bencelisa ingane yabo kuze kube yiminyaka eyi-4 ubudala, futhi batshele abangani babo be-Facebook yonke into eyenza "i-boutchou" yabo emangalisayo: ukuchama kwakhe okwesithathu. yosuku, ubunzima bakhe ekwenzeni i-rototo yakhe, ukuphindela kwakhe ejezini elisha ceke likamama, iziqephu zakhe zokuqunjelwa noma isifo sohudo (ezinezincazelo zombala, ukungaguquguquki kanye nephunga…). Kukhona nezithombe ezihlasimulisayo zosana olunonyaka owodwa lubhema ugwayi noma olunye olwakhiwe njengomfanekiso kamama walo ohlanyayo. Okunye okutholakele: i-akhawunti ye-Instagram "Abesifazane Ekuphileni Kwangempela". Sibona izithombe zamakhekhe osuku lokuzalwa ahlulekile, izingane ezikhalayo, amagumbi okuhlala acekeleke phansi, ukhuni oluchithekile, amakhala… Impilo yangempela, ini!