Okuqukethwe
Imidwebo yezingane, iminyaka ngeminyaka
Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, i-pencil stroke yayo iyashintsha! Yebo, lapho ubuhlakani bakhe bukhula, imidwebo yakhe iba nencazelo futhi yembula imizwelo yakhe. URoseline Davido, uchwepheshe kulo mkhakha, ukucacisela izigaba ezahlukene zokudweba izingane ezisacathula…
Imidwebo Yezingane
Umdwebo wengane: konke kuqala ngokuthi… ibala!
Ukudweba ngaphambi konyaka kungenzeka! NgokukaRoseline Davido, isazi se-psychoanalyst kanye nochwepheshe emidwebeni yezingane, “ amazwi okuqala ezingane amachashaza abawenzayo lapho bethatha upende, umuthi wokuxubha noma iphalishi labo “. Nokho, ezikhathini eziningi, abazali abavumeli ingane yabo encane ibe nalolu hlobo lokuhlangenwe nakho ... ngenxa yokwesaba umphumela!
I-Scribbles yokuqala yengane
Cishe izinyanga eziyi-12, ingane encane iqala ukwenza i-doodle. Kulesi sigaba, u-Baby uthanda ukudweba imigqa kuzo zonke izinhlangothi, ngaphandle kokuphakamisa ipensela yakhe. Futhi le miklamo ebonakala ingenanjongo isivele yembula kakhulu. Futhi ngesizathu esihle, “lapho ebhala, umntwana uyaziveza. Eqinisweni, uletha "mina" yakhe, ipensela iba isandiso esiqondile sesandla. Isibonelo, izingane ezisacathula ezijabulela ukuphila zizodweba lonke ishidi, ngokungafani nengane engazinzile noma egula ngokukhululeka. Nokho, khumbula ukuthi kule minyaka, ingane ayikalibambi ipensela yayo ngokuphelele. Ngakho-ke igama elithi “mina” elethiwe “lisadidekile”.
Isigaba samadoodle
Lapho ineminyaka engu-2 ubudala, ingane idlula esigabeni esisha: isigaba se-doodling. Lesi yisinyathelo esikhulu njengoba manje umdwebo wengane yakho usuyinhloso. Umncane wakho, ozama ukubamba ipensela kangcono, uzama ukulingisa ukubhala komuntu omdala. Kodwa ukunaka kwezingane ezisacathula kuhlakazeka ngokushesha okukhulu. Bangathola umbono ngokuqala umdwebo wabo futhi bawushintshe endleleni. Ngezinye izikhathi ingane ithola incazelo emdwebeni wayo ekugcineni. Kungaba ukufana kwamathuba noma umbono wakhe wamanje. Futhi uma ingane yakho encane ingafuni ukuqeda umdwebo wayo, kulungile, ifuna ukudlala enye into. Kule minyaka, kunzima ukuhlala ugxile entweni efanayo isikhathi eside.
Unoshobishobi
Cishe eminyakeni engu-3 ubudala, imidwebo yengane yakho iba nokwakheka okwengeziwe. Lesi yisikhathi esidumile sikanoshobishobi. “Lapho edweba indoda,” (emelwe yindilinga esebenza njengenhloko nesiqu, efakwe izinduku ezifanekisela izingalo nemilenze), “omncane uzimele yena”, kuchaza uRoseline Davido. Lapho ekhula, indoda yakhe inemininingwane eyengeziwe: isiqu somlingisi sivela ngesimo somjikelezo wesibili, futhi cishe iminyaka engu-6 ubudala umzimba uchazwa..
Uchwepheshe ucacisa ukuthi indoda ye-tadpole ikuvumela ukuthi ubone ukuthi ingane ihlotshaniswa kanjani. Kodwa uzofika lapho kuphela lapho esesazi ngohlelo lomzimba wakhe, okusho “umfanekiso anawo ngomzimba wakhe nesikhundla sakhe emkhathini”. Ngempela, ngokusho kwesazi se-psychoanalyst uLacan, isithombe sokuqala ingane enaso ngaye sihlukanisiwe. Futhi lesi sithombe singaphikelela ezinganeni ezihlukunyeziwe. Kulokhu ” izingane, ngisho ezineminyaka engu-4-5 ubudala, zibhala kuphela, ziphika imizimba yazo. Kuyindlela yokusho ukuthi abaseyena umuntu,” kwengeza uRoseline Davido.