Lapho efika ekhaya, umdlwane uhlukaniswe ngesihluku nonina, izingane zakwabo kanye nendawo ayaziyo. Umdlwane ngokwemvelo uzodlulisela okunamathiselwe ayenakho kunina kuwe. Ngakho-ke, ukungabikho kwakho kuzoba ngumthombo wokukhathazeka kuye. Lokhu kukhathazeka kuzobonakala njengomdlwane okhala ebusuku noma obubulayo ukuze ufune inkampani yakho nenduduzo.

Usesigabeni semfundo futhi ufunda ngesizungu. Umama ngokwemvelo uqala iqembu lomdlwane ezinyangeni ezine. Imidlwane yokutholwa isencane, kuzofanele wenze lowo msebenzi ngokwakho futhi kwesinye isikhathi kusenesikhathi, ngoba awukho amahora angama-4 ngosuku ekhaya. Ngakho-ke singaqonda ukuthi kungani kunconyelwa ukwamukela umdlwane ezinyangeni ezi-3.

Ngaphambi kwanoma ikuphi ukuhlukaniswa nomdlwane wakho, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo zabo: imidlalo, ukuzivocavoca umzimba, ukuvakasha ngenhlanzeko, ukuhambahamba, indawo eqinisekisayo nejabulisayo yokulala, amathoyizi atholakalayo ukudinwa, ukudla, njll.

Konke lokhu kuqale ngobusuku bokuqala ebachitha yedwa. Lokhu kwehlukana, noma ngabe nisendlini eyodwa, kuwumthombo wokukhathazeka ngomdlwane. Uzobe esekhonkotha ebusuku, ekhala futhi akhale azokushayela. Umdlwane okhalayo noma inja ekhalayo ikwenza ufune ukuqinisekiswa. Okuningi ungamnaki ngokuphelele futhi ungaziphenduli izingcingo zakhe. Ungayi ukuyombona noma ukukhuluma naye. Uma unikezela, uqinisa indlela aziphethe ngayo, uzomisa ukuthi uma ekhonkotha noma ekhala uzoya kuye, okuzokwandisa imiboniso futhi ngeke afunde ukuba yedwa. Ukubekezela, umdlwane uzofunda ngokushesha.

Kunzima nakakhulu kumdlwane: ukungabikho kwakho emini. Kuzofanele simsize "de-ukulingisa" kulo mzuzu. Ngakho-ke, lapho uhamba, musa ukudala isiko. Umdlwane uyayibona masinyane imikhuba yakho ngaphambi kokumshiya, njengokugqoka, ukuthatha okhiye, noma okubi kakhulu umusho omncane onjengokuthi “ungakhathazeki, ngizobuya khona manje”, noma ngisho nokugona ngokweqile phambi kwakhe. hamba. Lokhu kumemezela umzuzu owesabekayo kusengaphambili futhi kwandisa ukukhathazeka kwakhe. Ziba imizuzu engu-15 ngaphambi kokuhamba, bese ushiya ngokushesha, noma ngabe udinga ukugqoka ngaphandle. Ngokufanayo, uma ubuya, ungawunaki umdlwane uze wehle. Ungakha futhi ukuqala okungelona iqiniso, ukukhubaza inja ekuzilungiseleleni ngaphambi kokuhamba (xhawula okhiye, gqoka ibhantshi lakho ulikhulule, ushaye isicabha ngaphandle kokushiya…). Khumbula ukuyikhipha ngaphambi kokuyishiya nokunikela ngamathoyizi ukugwema isithukuthezi. Kwesinye isikhathi ukushiya ithoyizi elinokudla kudla ukwenza ukwehlukana kujabulise futhi ukhohlwe ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana.

Ukwenza lula isikhathi sokutholwa, singaletha kusuka ekuzaleni indwangu efakwe iphunga le-bitch eqinisekisa umdlwane ngokushesha. Ungasebenzisa futhi ama-pheromone wokwenziwa. Balingisa ama-pheromones aduduzayo unondindwa oncelisayo othulisa futhi uqinise ukuzethemba kuwo nabo imidlwane. Lawa ma-pheromones eza ngama-diffusers noma kukhola azogqokwa ngokuqhubekayo ngumdlwane. Kukhona nezithako zokudla ezithoba inja ezimeni ezicindezelayo. Udokotela wakho wezilwane uzoba sesimweni esihle kakhulu sokukusiza ukhethe ukwelashwa okuthile.

Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ayikho iphuzu lokumemeza umdlwane okhokhayo uzokwandisa kuphela ukucindezeleka kwakhe. Umdlwane ongafundanga ukuba wedwa uzophenduka inja ekhalayo, ekhalayo lapho ungekho.

Ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana yisifo esivame kakhulu sokuziphatha ezinjeni ezindala. Iziveza ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene. Imvamisa, inja iyakhala futhi ikhale njalo lapho inkosi yayo ingekho. Lokhu kuvame ukuhambisana nokubhujiswa, ukungahlaliseki nokuzikhulula nokuchama, kwesinye isikhathi nokuzilimaza (ukukhotha izitho). Ukubuya kwenkosi kuphela kuthoba inja. Lezi zinja zisondelene kakhulu nenkosi yazo futhi zihlala zixhumana nazo. Babalandela yonke indawo ngisho nasendlini. Lokhu yi i-hyperattachement.

Lokhu kuphazamiseka kokuziphatha kungavela lapho ukuhlukaniswa komdlwane kumnikazi wawo kungenziwanga kahle. Inkosi iphendule kakhulu izicelo zenjanyana futhi yancika ekuthembekeni ngokomzwelo. Lesi sifo singavela futhi ngokulandela ushintsho oluzumayo emvelweni wesilwane (ukufika kwengane, ukuhamba, ukushintsha kwesigqi sempilo…) noma ngesikhathi sokuguga. Ukulungisa lokhu kuphazamiseka kokuziphatha, kufanele usebenzise imithetho efanayo neye-puppy: uhlangabezane nezidingo zayo (ukuzivocavoca, imidlalo, njll.), Misa ukuhamba futhi ubuyise amasiko ikakhulukazi, ukwehlisa ithemba ngokwenza iziqalo ezingamanga, ufundise inja ukulala ngingedwa futhi ngibe sekamelweni elihlukile. Ukuqala ukuthunyelwa, akumele uphendule kuzo zonke izicelo zayo zokuxhumana. Kukuwe ukuthi uqale oxhumana naye.

Ukwehlukaniswa kufanele kube kancane kancane futhi kufanele kwenziwe nasekhaya. Kancane kancane sinweba isikhathi bese sinikeza inja umvuzo lapho isizolile. Uma ekubuyeni kwakho inja yenze into ewubuwula, kubalulekile ukuthi ungayijezisi noma uyibeke phambi kwayo engcupheni yokuqinisa ukukhathazeka kwayo.

Uma lokhu kungasebenzi, kungcono ubone udokotela wezilwane noma uthinte nodokotela bezilwane. Ngemuva kokuhlolwa kwenja yakho, bazokwazi ukukunikeza izeluleko ezithile ezivumelaniswe nesimo sakho. Kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nalolu hlobo lokuziphatha luzosekelwa ngokwelashwa kwe phelisa ukukhathazeka kwenja ekhalayo nokukhala.

Inja ekhalayo nokukhala ingabonisa ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana, imvelaphi yayo evela ekukhubazekeni kwebutho lomdlwane kusuka enkosini yalo. Umdlwane kufanele ufunde ukuba wedwa futhi uzihlukanise nenkosi yawo. Ezinye izinja zizothambekela kakhulu kuzo kunezinye. Kuyinkinga ecasulayo yokuziphatha engahola ngokukhonkotha izingxabano nomakhelwane. Kepha, ikakhulukazi inja yakho ukubonakaliswa kokukhathazeka okujulile, ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuyinakekela ngokushesha. Uma unenja ekhalayo, ekhalayo, khuluma nodokotela wakho wezilwane mayelana nokwelashwa okuhle kakhulu komlingani wakho.