Okuqukethwe
Ukubaluleka kokuthwala umntwana osanda kuzalwa eduze kwakho akusafanele kuboniswe. “ Ukuthwala umntwana ukunakekelwa okudingekayo », Uqinisekisa kanjalo isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye ne-psychoanalyst uSophie Marinopoulos *. Ukufudumala kokuxhumana kudala futhi kugcina isibopho esikhulayo sikamama nengane. Ukuhogela iphunga likanina, ukukhohliswa ezinyathelweni zakhe kunikeza usana umuzwa wokulondeka okudingeka awususe kamuva ukuze uthole umhlaba. “Awuyithwali ingane ngoba ingakwazi ukuzithwala,” kuqhuba yena. Ibuye ithwalwe umcabango nemizwa. Isazi se-psychoanalyst esiyiNgisi esikhulu uDonald Winnicott sakubiza ngokuthi "ukubamba". Isekhona indlela! Izingalo ziyizidleke ezisobala kakhulu nezingcono kakhulu. Kodwa emisebenzini emincane, ukuhambahamba noma ngisho nasekhaya, sifuna ukugcina izandla zethu zikhululekile futhi kungadingeki sikhathazeke ngesinqola esihamba ngezithuthi zomphakathi.
I-classic baby carrier: iyasebenza
Kuyindlela evame kakhulu yokuthwala eFrance nasemazweni aseNordic.. Ikhula ngesivinini esikhulu eChina! Ekuqaleni, ngawo-1960, umthwali wezingane wawufana “nesikhwama samahlombe” noma iphakethe lekhangaroo. Eminyakeni yamuva nje, amamodeli aqhubekile nokuba yinkimbinkimbi futhi ayisihloko socwaningo olunzulu nabelaphi be-psychomotor, ama-physiotherapists kanye nodokotela bezingane ukuze bathuthukise i-ergonomics yabo futhi bahloniphe kangcono i-morphology yengane encane.
Umgomo : kulula ukuzisebenzisa, uma ukulungiswa kokuqala kwezintambo zokusekela kanye nebhande le-lap sekwenziwe ezilinganisweni zakho. Ingane esanda kuzalwa (kusuka ku-3,5 kg) iphendulwa phambi kwayo ukuze imvikele endaweni ezungezile futhi ayibuke. Ukuze uyifake ibheke emgwaqeni, kufanele ulinde izinyanga ezine ukuze ithoniswe futhi ugcine ikhanda lakho nokubhoboza kuqondile. Ungakwazi ukubeka i-harness noma ngaphansi kwejazi, futhi amamodeli amaningi amanje akuvumela ukuba ugcine kuwe, ngenkathi ususa nje ingxenye yengane nomntwana kuyo. Ngaphandle kokumphazamisa.
Iningi : kumntwana, i-headrest (eyenziwe ngempoqo yizinga laseYurophu) ibalulekile phakathi nezinyanga zokuqala, ukuze isekele ikhanda layo elivumayo futhi igweme umphumela "we-whiplash". Ukulungiswa kwesihlalo - ubude nokujula - kusetshenziselwa ukulungisa kahle. Ekugcineni, inikeza ukusekelwa okuhle emuva. Kumuntu ogqokile, ukusatshalaliswa kwesisindo somntwana phakathi kwamahlombe, umhlane nezinqulu ezinemichilo yehlombe kanye nebhande le-lumbar elicijile kugwema amaphuzu okungezwani. Intengo yayo evame ukukhuphuka ingachazwa ngobunkimbinkimbi bomklamo wayo, kanye nekhwalithi yezinto ezisetshenziswayo, njengendwangu ebhalwe i-Oeko-Tex®, ngaphandle kwezinsimbi ezinzima edayini. Ngokujwayelekile kulindeleke ukuthi kufike ku-15 kg, abanye abathwali bezingane bafanele isisindo esiphezulu, benethuba lokuthwala ingane enkulu emhlane ukuhamba okude.
Esimthuka ngakho: abalandeli be-portage ku-sling bahlambalaza umthwali wengane wakudala we lenga ingane ngemilenze elengayo nezingalo ezilengayo. Abanye baphinde bakhulume ngokuthi, ukuhlala esithweni sakhe sangasese, abafana abancane bangaba nezinkinga zokuzala. Izinto ezindala noma eziphansi, mhlawumbe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abakhiqizi bamamodeli amanje bathi bayawafunda ukuze ingane ihlale ezinqeni zayo, imilenze ibekwe ngendlela engokwemvelo.
* Umbhali wencwadi ethi “Kungani uthwala umntwana?”, LLL Les Liens qui libéré editions.
Ukugoqa: indlela yokuphila
Igqugquzelwe amasu okuthwala endabuko asetshenziswa ezimpucukweni eziningi zase-Afrika noma zase-Asia, isikhafu sokugqoka izingane sivele phakathi kwethu eminyakeni yamuva, ngenxa yokunyakaza kokuzala kwemvelo. Ukusetshenziswa kwayo sekuthuthuke kabanzi, futhi manje isijoyina isekethe yezitolo ezinakekela izingane zendabuko.
Umgomo : Imayelana ne- umugqa omkhulu wendwangu wamamitha amaningana (kusuka ku-3,60 m kuya cishe ku-6 m kuye ngendlela yokubopha) esikubeke ngobuchule eduze kwethu ukuze kuhlaliswe ingane encane. Indwangu yenziwe ngekotini noma i-bamboo ukuze ithambile ngokumelene nesikhumba, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo imelana futhi iguquguquke.
Iningi : kuboshwe ngale ndlela, umntwana osanda kuzalwa uba munye nonina, enamathele esiswini sakhe, njengokunwetshwa kokuhlanganiswa kwawo. Kusukela emasontweni okuqala, indwayimane ivumela izikhundla ezihlukene zengane kuye ngesikhathi sosuku: iqonde phambi kwakho, ilele kancane ukuze ikwazi ukuncelisa ibele ngobuhlakani, ivuleleke emhlabeni ... Enye inzuzo ephawulwe ngu-Anne Deblois ** : “Lapho 'igqokwa eduze nomzimba womuntu omdala, izuza esimisweni somuntu osifakile sokulawula ukushisa, ebusika njengasehlobo. “
Esimthuka ngakho: ngokushesha kancane ukuzifaka kuwe kunesithwali sezingane, ukugoqa akulula ngempela ukubopha ngesu elifanele ngokweminyaka yengane, ukuqinisekisa isikhundla somzimba ngokuphepha okuphelele. Ukuthatha amakilasi okusebenzela kungase kudingeke. Ngokungafani nomthwali wezingane, isihlilingi asinamkhawulo wobudala. Isisindo kuphela esithwalwa ngumuntu osigqokile … yingakho isilingo sabanye abazali abasebancane sokusithwala ngendlela enyakazayo lapho ingane kufanele ifunde ukuzihambela futhi izimele. Kodwa lona umbuzo wendlela yokuphila nemfundo kunowobuchwepheshe! Ngakolunye uhlangothi oluphikisanayo, ucwaningo luye lwabonisa muva nje ukuthi ingubo yexoxo esetshenziswa njengesihlilingi noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, imilenze iqinile ngokumelene nomunye, lapho ingane igqoke "ibhanana" emasontweni okuqala, ayihloniphi ukuvulwa kwemvelo. ezinqeni zosana.
** Umbhali-munye we-“Le pirtage en écharpe”, ama-Romain Pages Editions.
Umthwali wezingane "wezinto eziphilayo": indlela yesithathu (phakathi kokubili)
Kulabo abanqikazayo phakathi kwalezi zindlela ezimbili zokuthuthwa, isisombululo singase sibe ohlangothini lwalokho okubizwa ngokuthi "physiological" noma "ergonomic" abathwali bezingane., ithuthukiswe yimikhiqizo elandela umholi u-Ergobaby.
Umgomo : phakathi kwesikhafu nesithwali sezingane sakudala, ngokuvamile liphefumulelwe indlela yokuthwala izingane zaseThailand, enephakethe elikhulu elinesihlalo esibanzi namabhande ehlombe.
Iningi :ayinayo indwangu ende yokubopha, eqeda ingozi yokufakwa okungalungile. Ivala noma ngebhande elilula noma ngefindo elisheshayo. Iphakethe eliqukethe ingane liqinisekisa indawo ethi "M", amadolo aphakeme kancane kunezinqulu, ingemuva eliyindilinga. Ngasohlangothini lwabagqokile, ibhande le-lap ngokuvamile lihlanganiswa ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukwesekwa okuhle.
Esimthuka ngakho: sisantula umbono wokuphawula ngezinzuzo zesikhundla somntwana maqondana ne-morphology yakhe. Kusasele iqiniso lokuthi akunconyiwe ukuyisebenzisa njengosana ngaphambi kwezinyanga ezi-4. Wayentanta lapho ngaphandle kokuziphatha okuhle, ikakhulukazi ezingeni lemilenze. I-parade: amanye amamodeli anikeza uhlobo lomcamelo wokunciphisa okhiphekayo.