Ukuhlala nengane Yomunye
Zahamba izinsuku kwase kubusa umndeni wesintu. Imindeni enconyiwe namuhla isondela kumodeli yomndeni wakudala. Kodwa ukuphatha ubudlelwano nengane yomunye kungaba yisimo esinzima ukubhekana naso.
Ubani ongazi ukuthi ikusasa lisiphatheleni? Ngokwe-INSEE *, u-40% wemishado uphela ngokwehlukana eFrance. Omunye kwababili eParis. Umphumela: Izingane eziyizigidi ezingu-1,6, noma eyodwa kweziyishumi, zihlala emndenini wokutholwa. Inkinga: umuntu omusha uvamise ukuba nobunzima ukwamukela lesi simo. Njengoba kukhonjisiwe ngu-Imat, esithangamini se-Infobebes.com: “Nginabafana abane emshadweni wokuqala, umlingani wami unabathathu. Kodwa amadodana akhe awabandakanyi ukungilalela, awafuni ukubona uyise uma ngikhona futhi aphushe amapuleti awo lapho ngilungisa ukudla. “
Ingane ngempela ibona umlingani omusha kayise noma unina, njengomuntu ongenele. Ethanda noma engazi, angase afune ukubhuntshisa lobu buhlobo obusha, ngethemba “lokulungisa” abazali bakhe.
Ukummboza ngezipho noma ukwanelisa konke akufunayo ukuze kuvuse uzwela lwakhe kude nekhambi elilungile! “Ingane isinayo kakade indaba yayo, imikhuba yayo nezinkolelo zayo. Kufanele wazi, ngaphandle kokukubuza ", kuchaza udokotela wengqondo yezingane, u-Edwige Antier (umbhali we Ingane yomunye, izinhlelo zikaRobert Laffont).
Eminye imithetho yokugwema izingxabano
- Hlonipha ukwenqaba kwengane ukuthulula isifuba. Kuthatha isikhathi ukuthambisa, ukwakha isibopho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, chitha isikhathi ndawonye, hlelani izinto azithandayo (ezemidlalo, ukuyothenga, njll.).
- Ungafuni ukuvala isikhala somzali ongekho. Ezindabeni zothando negunya, awunakuba nendima yokuba ubaba noma umama. Ukuze uqondise izinto, ndawonye chazani imithetho yempilo evamile yomndeni ohlanganisiwe (umsebenzi wasendlini, ukuqoqa amagumbi, njll.)
- Wonke umuntu unendawo yakhe! Okungcono kakhulu ukuhlela ukuhlangana komndeni ukuze kulungiswe inhlangano entsha yendlu. Izingane nazo zinezwi. Uma engakwazi ukuzibamba ngaphandle kokuthi ahlanganyele ikamelo lakhe nomfowabo ngamzali munye, kufanele abe nelungelo ledeski lakhe, amadrowa akhe namashalofu okugcina izinto zakhe siqu.
* Ucwaningo lomlando womndeni, olwenziwa ngo-1999