Okuqukethwe
- Mtanami, ayikahlanzeki namanje uma kuqala unyaka wesikole
- Inhlanzeko: khuluma nengane yakho, ungamjahi
- Kuvidiyo: Amathiphu angu-10 Okusiza Ingane Yakho Ihlanze Ngaphambi Kokuqala Isikole
- Ingabe ingane yami ingahlanzeka ezinsukwini ezimbalwa?
- Ukuthola inhlanzeko ngokudlala
- Ukuthola Ukuhlanzeka: Ukwamukela Ukwehluleka
Mtanami, ayikahlanzeki namanje uma kuqala unyaka wesikole
Ukuqala konyaka wesikole sekusondele futhi ingane yakho namanje ayihlanzekile. Indlela yokumethula ekuqeqesheni amabhodwe ngaphandle kokumcindezela? UMarielle Da Costa, umhlengikazi wasenkulisa e-PMI, ukunika izeluleko…
Uma kungenzeka, ukuthengwa kufanele kwenziwe kancane kancane. Yingakho uMarielle Da Costa eluleka abazali, uma bengakwazi, ukuthi kwenze phezulu. “Ngibona omama abaningi abadedela yonke into baze babe neminyaka emi-3, bese kuba wukukhathazeka”. Nokho, ungabi novalo ! Ngokubeka amasiko athile, uzokwazi ukwenza lula ukutholwa kokuhlanzeka komncane wakho.
Inhlanzeko: khuluma nengane yakho, ungamjahi
Uma, emasontweni ambalwa ngaphambi kokuqala konyaka wesikole, ingane yakho isathungatha ibhodwe, khumbula ukuthi asikho isidingo sokumphuthuma. Kubalulekile ukuxoxa naye ngomoya ophansi. “Lapho abazali bekhululeke kakhudlwana, izingane zizophumelela ngokwengeziwe. Uma abantu abadala bekhathazekile, ingane ingase izizwe, okungase ikuvimbe nakakhulu. Kudingeka ngokukhethekile ukumethemba », Kuchaza uMarielle Da Costa. “Mtshele ukuthi usekhulile manje, kumele aye ebhodweni noma endlini yangasese.” Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi izingane zinezinhlungu zesisu ezincane, izinkinga zamathumbu amancane. Kulokhu, kubalulekile amqinise, ukuzehlisa isimo phambi kwengane yakhe engase ikhathazeke,” kusho lo chwepheshe.
Cabanga futhi khumula inabukeni emini, ngezikhathi zokuvuka. “Abazali kufanele bayise ingane endlini yokugezela ngaphambi nangemuva kokulala. "Kungokuthatha le reflex ukuthi abancane baqaphele okwenzeka emzimbeni wabo", kugcizelela uMarielle Da Costa. “Siqala kancane kancane, sikhumule inabukeni lapho siphapheme, bese kuba phakathi nesihlwathi futhi ekugcineni ebusuku. »Ingane yakho nayo kufanele ukuzizwa ukhululekile. Uma engalithandi ibhodwe, ncamela into yokunciphisa ithoyilethi angase azizwe ezinzile kulo. “Uma bezizwa kahle, ingane ingajabulela ngisho nokuphuma ithumbu noma ukuchama. “
Kuvidiyo: Amathiphu angu-10 Okusiza Ingane Yakho Ihlanze Ngaphambi Kokuqala Isikole
Ingabe ingane yami ingahlanzeka ezinsukwini ezimbalwa?
Ukuze usize ingane yakho encane ukuba ihlanzeke, kodwa futhi imnike ukuzethemba, ungangabazi mkhuthaze (ngaphandle kokwenza okuningi noma kunjalo). “Ngaphandle kwezingane ezinenkinga yempilo, ukutholakala kwenhlanzeko kungenziwa ngokushesha. Abancane sebevele bevuthiwe ezingeni lezinzwa, ubuchopho babo bufundisiwe, kwanele nje yehla emasikweni. Futhi-ke, ngisho engazi, ingane ikhathazeka ngokuhlanzeka. Ngakho-ke nakubantu abadala ukuthi bazisebenzele bona ngokunika ingane yabo ukuzimela futhi bazitshele ukuthi ayiseyona ingane. Kuhle futhithola isimo sengqondo esingaguquki futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungabuyeli emuva ngokufaka inabukeni phakathi nosuku, isibonelo, ”kuchaza uMarielle Da Costa.
Ukuthola inhlanzeko ngokudlala
Lapho ukuqeqeshwa ngamabhodwe, ezinye izingane zizovame ukuzibamba. Kulokhu, “kungase kuthakazelise uku dlala imidlalo yamanzi, ngokuvula nokuvala umpompi, noma ngokugcwalisa nokugumbuqela iziqukathi kubhavu, isibonelo. Lokhu kuvumela abancane ukuba baqonde ukuthi bangenza okufanayo ngemizimba yabo. Ngehlobo, abazali abanengadi bangathatha ithuba lokubonisa ingane yabo indlela hose engadini isebenza ngayo, ukuze baqaphele ukuzithiba abangaba nakho emizimbeni yabo.
Ukuthola Ukuhlanzeka: Ukwamukela Ukwehluleka
Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokuqala zokuqeqesha amabhodwe, izingane ngezinye izikhathi zingangena ebhulukweni. Ukuhlehla kungase futhi kuzibonakalise njengokuqala konyaka wesikole noma ngisho nangezinsuku zokuqala zesikole. Futhi ngesizathu esihle, ezinye izingane zingakwazi kalula ugcizelele ngale ndawo entsha, abanye bahlukaniswa nabazali babo okokuqala ngqa. Kodwa izingozi ezincane ziyenzeka futhi lapho izingane zigxile kakhulu emidlalweni yazo. Kunoma yikuphi, kubalulekile ukuthi " ungaphatheki kabi, ukwamukela ukwehluleka. Kubalulekile ukukhombisa abancane lokhosinelungelo lobuthakathaka, ngenkathi ebatshela ukuthi ngokuzayo kuzofanele bacabange ukuya endlini yangasese. Ekugcineni, kufanele sibachazele ukuthi, njengabantu abadala, abakwazi ukuzikhulula noma kuphi, ”kuphetha uchwepheshe.