Okuqukethwe
Baby, inkosi yombhedo
I-Pitchoun ibonakala inethalente langempela lokukukhombisa yonke imibala! Kodwa ingabe kufanele sikhulume ngombhedo?
Akulula ukuhlala uzolile lapho ubona amakhushini ekamelo lokuphumula esakazwe ngojamu noma amakhethini eguqulwe ngokucophelela aba izixuku! Kodwa-ke, kaningi, udeveli wakho omncane akakwazi ukwenza kabi: phakathi konyaka ongu-1 neminyaka emi-3, lokho abazali abakubiza ngokuthi “umbhedo” kuyizindlela zakhe kuphela zokuthola lokho okumzungezile.. Okubalulekile wukudlala nokuzijabulisa!
Uyaganga
UBaby ufuna ukukukhombisa ukuthi angakwazi ukudla yedwa, kodwa ngeshwa, ipuleti lesobho liphelela kuma-ovaloli akhe amasha! Bese kuba umbuzo wokuthi ungaphambanisi ubulima nokungaphatheki kahle...
Umntwana akayazi imingcele yomzimba wakhe. Futhi ngokuvamile, imibono yakhe icacile kunezenzo azisebenzisayo ukuze azifeze. Lokhu akusho ukuthi akavuswa intando engcono kakhulu! Kusukela ezinyangeni eziyi-18, ubulima buvame ukuvela ekusesheni ukuzimela ...
Parade Gwema isimo sengqondo esingalungile Ngaphambi kokuba ushayele umntwana ucingo ngendlela exakile, zibuze ukuthi ngabe ukusabela kwakho bekuyoba njani ukube lesi sigameko esingesihle senzeke kwesinye sezihambeli zakho … Umphumela awuzange ube khona kodwa isinyathelo sifanele ukukhuthazwa. Mkhombise ukuthi akwenze kanjani kahle Umntwana uyakwazi ukuzidlela yedwa, ungamenzi akholwe okuphambene ngokuthatha isipuni ezandleni zakhe. Kunalokho, mbonise indlela yokwenza! |
Nciphisa umbhedo ophindaphindiwe
Ayisekho imingcele ekuhloleni kwakhe ngoba yonke into iyamthakazelisa: ukuthinta, ukubona, ukuzwa, yonke into iwumthombo wemizwa emisha futhi yebo… ubuwula obusha!
Ingozi yokunaka!
Vakashela ngamehlo engane indlu, ingadi noma ezokuthutha… Kukuwe ukuthi ugweme izinto ezingalindelekile ezingemnandi!
Konke okusendleleni ka-Attila omncane kungenzeka kudlule lapho. : isitsha segolide, izinkomishi zekristalu zomshado wakho noma isitsha senja ...
Parade Hlala umbhekile... Isikhali esingcono kakhulu sokugwema umbhedo ophindaphindayo ukubeka iso kumhloli wakho omncane, ikakhulukazi ongaphumuli phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-9 neziyi-18. Ukuvimbela kuhilela inani lezithibelo, ezishiwo ngokucacile. Ungangabazi ukuphinda imiyalo yakho izikhathi ezimbalwa, i-jack-of-all-trades yakho idinga ukukhunjuzwa kaningi ukuyikhumbula ... |
Msekele ekuhloleni kwakhe
Bheka futhi uhlole indlu ngamehlo (naphezulu!) Engane yakho encane enelukuluku.
Mbonise ukuthi yini engafanele ayithinte, echaza ukuthi kungani : kunokuba ajahe isikhathi ngasinye lapho esondela kuhhavini, makazwe ukushisa ngaphakathi ngokuletha isandla sakhe odongeni. Ngokuqinisekile ngeke esafuna ukubukisisa.
Umbhedo, umbuzo weminyaka
Kuphela kusuka eminyakeni engu-2, ngenxa yemfundo yabazali bakhe abathandekayo, ukuthi uBumntwana uqala ukuqonda imibono yokulungile nokungalungile.
Isixhumanisi esingekho? UBaby akakaqondi ukuthi kunganiizithibelo ukuthi sikhuluma naye usuku lonke: kulungile, akufanele sidlale nge-TV, kodwa kungani njengoba ihlekisa kakhulu kunamathoyizi akhe?
Futhi kuphelakusuka eminyakeni engu-3 okuyinto ingane encane ethandekayo isiqala ukuqonda i-interkusho. La umqondo we-causality ingena esigcawini: uma ivazi elihle likaMama liphukile, kungenxa yokuthi ulithintile… Ube esekwazi ukulindela imiphumela yezenzo zakhe.
Kodwa konke kusasele kuye kugcwele ukuphikisana futhi ukubaluleka kombhedo wakhe kusambalekela...
Kuzothatha iminyaka embalwa ukuba ingane yakho encane ithole umqondo wayo "Isizathu sokuziphatha" : yini ejabulisa umama, okubi kumlimaza ...
Ngalesi sikhathi, ubuwula bungaba indlela yangempela yokuziveza kudeveli omncane ...
Umbhedo, indlela yokukhuluma
Kudinga ukunakwa kancane
Uhlala umatasatasa ekhaya ngemuva kosuku olumatasa, awunaso ngempela isikhathi sokunakekela udeveli wakho omncane.
Ube esefuna ukukukhanga ngazo zonke izindleko: Ivazi kagogo ngokungangabazeki izosebenza kakhulu kunomdwebo omuhle ongepensela enemibala ... Akungabazeki ukuthi umphumela uyophila ngokuvumelana nalokho akulindele! Umbhedo uba umlayezo ogcwele incazelo ...
Parade Chitha isikhathi esengeziwe kumntanakho omncane Ngakho menze ahlanganyele empilweni yendlu! Ukuyihlanganisa nemisebenzi yakho ngokuyigcina iseduze nawe kunezinzuzo eziningana: ungasebenzisa ukugada okuseduze, ingane ijabulela ukuhlala eduze nawe futhi izokwazi ukukhiqiza ukunyakaza kwakho ngokuningiliziwe, okuzosiza ngokushesha kakhulu kuwe. ! Ungangabazi ukukhuluma naye ngakho Uma ngokuvamile enengqondo futhi ngokuzumayo eqala ukubophela ubuwula ebuwula ngaphandle kokuqonda kwakho ukuthi kungani, ungangabazi ukuxoxa naye ngakho. Uma kunesidingo, thintana nodokotela wezengqondo, izikhathi ezimbalwa zingase zanele ukuxazulula lesi simo. Ukuthutha, ukufika komfowethu omncane noma ukungena enkulisa kungamdalela izinkinga eziningi ... |
Uyakucasula
Lapho nje abazali bakhe bengena ku-perimeter yakhe, ingane encane engakwazi ukulungiseka ixhuma ngamabomu amathegi ezindongeni zegumbi lokuphumula, igcwele indlu yokugezela noma indize ekhabetheni ... Ukubona iso lakhe elihlakaniphile likubhekile, akunzima ukuqaphela ukuthi udlala intukuthelo ...
Lapho, mhlawumbe kubi nakakhulu. Kuphakathi kokuthi umntwana usenkathini edumile ethi “cha”, cishe eneminyaka engu-2-3 ubudala, noma ukhethe ukucasulwa njengendlela yakhe yokuxhumana nawe. Udeveli omncane udinga ukwazi imikhawulo yabazali bakhe abathandekayo ukuze azakhe.
Ukubekezela kwakho kuyobe sekuvivinywa kakhulu ... ngoba, ngemuva kwayo yonke imbudane yakhe yazo zonke izinhlobo, udeveli omncane uhlola ukuqina kwakho negunya lakho.
Parade Misa ngokucacile imikhawulo yakho Yazi ukuthi uzombiza kanjani futhi akhiphe isijeziso esincane. Sakwanele ! Uma engaqhamuki ephambene nemingcele ethile, uzolingeka ukuba adlulele phambili ukuze ayithole. Chaza ukwenqatshelwa Yazi ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani ukuzola kwakho okudumile! Amakhono akho njengothisha kuyodingeka azibonakalise nsuku zonke: isikhathi ngasinye phelezela u-“cha” wakho ngo “ngoba”. Uzokwamukela ukuvinjelwa kalula kakhudlwana. |
Umthetho wegolide...
Lapho uzwa sengathi izinzwa zakho zizoqhekeka, khululeka: eminyakeni embalwa, cishe uzohleka ngaphezu kwakhe ...