Okuqukethwe
Vusa izinzwa zengane yakho!
Izingane ezisacathula zihlola umhlaba ngezinzwa zazo. Kubalulekile ukuthi babuke, balalele, bathinte, banambitha, bahogele yonke into ebazungezile. Ngesikhathi samaholide, indawo yonke yabo yonke (ulwandle, izintaba, imvelo, njll.) iphenduka inkundla yokudlala enkulu. Abazali, njengoba betholakala kakhudlwana phakathi nalesi sikhathi, akufanele bangabaze ukusizakala ngale ndawo entsha. Ithuba elihle lezingane ezincane zokuthuthukisa ukufunda okuyisisekelo.
Umntwana useholidini: ulungisa umhlabathi!
Uma uletha umntwana emaphandleni, isibonelo, kubalulekile ukumisa "indawo elungiselelwe". Okusho ukuthi, faka ngaphakathi kokufinyelela izinto angakwazi ukuzibamba ngaphandle kwengozi (i-blade yotshani, izigaxa zikaphayini), futhi uhlukanise isikhala. Ngoba phakathi konyaka ongu-0 no-1, lesi isikhathi esivame ukubizwa ngokuthi “isiteji somlomo”. Ukufaka yonke into emilonyeni yabo kuwumthombo wangempela wenjabulo futhi kuyindlela yokuhlola izingane ezisacathula. Uma ingane yakho ibamba into eyingozi, yikhiphe bese uchaza ukuthi kungani. Kudingekile ukusebenzisa amagama angempela, ngisho noma engaqondi, ngoba kubalulekile ukondla izingane ezinemibono yangempela.
« Kuyadingeka futhi ukucabanga, phezulu, mayelana nokuthi yini ezothakazelisa ingane. Yilokhu abagqugquzeli be-Montessori pedagogy, ”kuchaza uMarie-Hélène Place. “Njengoba uMaria Montessori agcizelela, phakathi neminyaka emithathu yokuqala yokuphila kwakhe, umntwana uthola imibono eminingi yemvelo emzungezile. Kusukela eneminyaka engu-3 ubudala, umsebenzi wakhe wengqondo uyaqaphela futhi ukwaziswa kungabekwa endaweni angafinyelela kuyo okuzolola isithakazelo sakhe ekuqapheleni izihlahla nezimbali. Ngakho, uthando lwakhe oluzenzakalelayo ngendalo lungashintsha lube isifiso sokuyazi nokuyiqonda. “
Vusa Imizwa Yengane Olwandle
NgokukaMarie-Hélène Place, kungcono ukugwema amaholide ngasolwandle nomncane. “Komncane, kuningi ongakubona nokuthinta emaphandleni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kusukela lapho ingane ingakwazi ukuhlala yedwa, ihambe, izokwazi ukujabulela ngokugcwele ulwandle nezimangaliso ezimzungezile. »Ebhishi, izinzwa zengane zidingeka kakhulu. Ingathinta izinto ezahlukene (isihlabathi esimaholoholo, amanzi…). CHAungangabazi ukudonsela ukunakekela kwakhe ezintweni ezihlukahlukene zemvelo ukuze umkhuthaze ukuba ayithole ngokuningiliziwe. Kuyasiza futhi ukuthuthukisa ukugxila kwengane. Isibonelo, thatha ibhungane noma igobolondo lasolwandle, ubonise igama nencazelo.
Vusa imizwa yengane emaphandleni
Imvelo iyindawo yokudlala enhle yezingane. “Abazali bangakhetha indawo ethule, bahlale nengane yabo encane balalele imisindo (amanzi aphuma emfudlaneni, igatsha eliqhekekayo, izinyoni eziculayo…), bezama ukuzikhiqiza futhi ngokunokwenzeka ukuzibona,” kuchaza uMarie-Hélène Place.
Izingane ezinamandla okuhogela athuthukile uma ziqhathaniswa nabantu abadala, imvelo iyindawo enhle yokuvusa umuzwa wephunga wezingane. “Thatha imbali, insaba yotshani futhi uyihogele ngenkathi uhogela ujule. Yibe ususikisela ingane yakho encane futhi ubatshele ukuba benze okufanayo. Kubalulekile ukubeka igama kumuzwa ngamunye. »Ngokujwayelekile, thatha ithuba lokubhekisisa imvelo (bheka amaqabunga anyakazayo, izinambuzane, njll.). “Ingane yakho iyakwazi nokugona isihlahla. Kumelwe nje ubeke izingalo zakho emhlabeni isiqu ke ukuhogela amagxolo, iphunga izinkuni futhi ulalele imisindo yezinambuzane. Ungase futhi uphakamise ukuthi ancike esihlathini ngesineke futhi amhlebele okuthile. Lokhu kuzovusa yonke imizwa yakhe.
Ngokwengxenye yabo, abazali bangadlala ukuguqula imisebenzi ethile. Qala ngokukha amajikijolo nengane yakho. Bese ubenze zibe semijaho, ozoyifaka ezitsheni zengilazi ukuze udonsele ukunaka kwakhe imibala. Hlobanisa lo msebenzi nokukhetha ukuze ingane yakho iqonde inqubo. Okokugcina, hamba ekunambitheni ukuze uvuse ama-taste buds wakho.
Ukondla ngemicabango yezingane kubalulekile
« Kungaba mnandi ukukhuthaza umcabango wabancane, ikakhulukazi lapho beqala ukuqaphela imibono yangempela yokuphila, lapho sebeneminyaka engu-3 ubudala, ”kuchaza uMarie-Hélène Place. Ngesikhathi uhamba ehlathini noma ogwini, cela ingane yakho ukuthi ithathe izimo ezimkhumbuza okuthile. Bese nithola ndawonye ukuthi zibukeka kanjani izinto. Ekugcineni ungase ukwazi ukubuyisa zonke izinto ezincane ozitholile (amatshe, amagobolondo, izimbali, amagatsha, njll.) ehhotela, endaweni yokukhempa noma ekhaya ukuze wenze amakholaji, futhi uphinde ukhange emcabangweni wengane yakho.