Okuqukethwe
Ukuba nomntwana, ngiye ngacabanga ngakho kusukela imizwa yami yokuqala yothando, njengento esobala, elula, engokwemvelo… Mina nomyeni wami besilokhu sinesifiso esifanayo sokuba abazali. Ngakho sanquma ukumisa iphilisi ngokushesha okukhulu. Ngemva konyaka "wemizamo" engaphumeleli, ngaya kudokotela wezifo zabesifazane.. Wangicela ukuba ngenze ijika lokushisa izinyanga ezintathu ezinde! Kubukeka kude kakhulu uma uxakwe yisifiso somntwana. Lapho ngibuya ngizombona, akazange abonakale “ejahe” futhi nokukhathazeka kwami kwase kuqala ukwanda. Kumele kushiwo ukuthi emndenini wami izinkinga zokuzala ziyaziwa kusukela kumama. Udadewethu naye wayeseneminyaka eminingi ezama.
Ukuhlolwa okuphelele kakhulu
Ngaya komunye udokotela owangitshela ukuthi ngikhohlwe ngamajika okushisa. Saqala ukuqapha i-ovulation yami ngama-endovaginal ultrasounds. Washeshe wabona ukuthi angikhiphi iqanda. Ukusuka lapho, kwalandela okunye ukuhlola: i-hysterosalpingography yami, i-spermogram yomyeni wami, ukuhlolwa kokungena kwesiphambano, ukuhlolwa kwe-Hühner… Sazithola, ngenyanga, siphonswe emhlabeni wezokwelapha, nge-aphoyintimenti nokuhlolwa kwegazi okuphindaphindiwe. Ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbili, ukuxilongwa kwavela: Anginyumba. Ayikho i-ovulation, izinkinga ze-mucus, izinkinga ze-hormone… Ngakhala izinsuku ezimbili. Kodwa umuzwa ohlekisayo wazalwa kimi. Kade ngazi ngaphakathi. Umyeni wami, wayebonakala ezolile. Inkinga yayingekho kuye; Ngicabanga ukuthi lokho kwamqinisa idolo. Wayengakuqondi ukuphelelwa ithemba kwami ngoba wayekholelwa ukuthi uma izinkinga sezitholakele, isixazululo siyofika. Wayeqinisile.
Okuwukuphela kwesixazululo: insemination yokwenziwa
Udokotela waseluleka ukuthi senze i-artificial inseminations (IAC). Kwakuwukuphela kwento eyayingenzeka. Lapha sicwile emhlabeni wokusiza ukukhiqiza kabusha. Imijovo ye-hormone, i-ultrasounds, ukuhlolwa kwegazi kwaphindwa izinyanga ezimbalwa. Ilinde ukuya esikhathini, ukudumazeka, izinyembezi… UMsombuluko October 2: D-day for my period. Lutho. Akwenzeki lutho usuku lonke … ngiya endlini yangasese izikhathi ezingamashumi amahlanu ukuyobheka! Umyeni wami ufika ekhaya nesivivinyo, sikwenza ndawonye. Imizuzu emibili emide yokulinda… Bese kuthi iwindi libe pink: NGIKHULELWE !!!
Ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye zokukhulelwa okulula, nakuba ngangigadwe kakhulu, ngazala intombazanyana yethu, 3,4 kg yesifiso, ukubekezela, nothando.
Namuhla konke kufanele kuqalwe futhi
Ngisanda kwenza i-IAC yami yesine ngethemba lokunikeza indodakazi yethu umfowethu noma udadewethu omncane… Kodwa ngeshwa ukwehluleka kwesine. Angililahli ithemba ngoba ngiyazi ukuthi singakwenza, kodwa zonke izivivinyo ziya ngokuya zithwala kanzima. Isinyathelo esilandelayo singaba yi-IVF ngoba nginelungelo lokwenza ama-TSI ayisithupha kuphela. Ngiligcinile ithemba ngoba eduze kwami udadewethu useneminyaka eyisikhombisa edonsa kanzima. Akumelwe siphele amandla, ngisho nalapho singeke sisakwazi. Kuyafaneleka ngempela !!!
Christèle