Okuqukethwe
- Incazelo nezici: yini amandla aphezulu obuhlakani, noma i-HPI?
- Izimpawu: indlela yokubona nokubona ingane noma ingane enesiphiwo?
- Yiziphi izivivinyo zokulinganisa Amandla Aphezulu?
- Ungabhekana kanjani nengane ehlakaniphile, noma i-EIP?
- Ngithi ingane yami isencane? Ingabe kufanele sikhulume ngakho esikoleni?
- Esikoleni, kunjani kwabaphiwe?
- Isiphiwo ezinganeni: ungazifaki ingcindezi!
Ingabe unelukuluku lokwazi, ubuza imibuzo eminingi futhi uzwela kakhulu? Ingane yakho ingase ibe ne I-High Intellectual Potential (HPI). Lokhu okungavamile kuthinta cishe 2% wabantu baseFrance. Wazi kanjani ukuthi ingane inesiphiwo? Yiziphi izimpawu, futhi ukuxilongwa kwenziwa kanjani? Uma kunjalo, ungayisekela kanjani kangcono ingane yakho ehlakaniphile (i-EIP) ukuze ikhule ngokugcwele? Sibheka isiphiwo, no-Monique de Kermadec, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, uchwepheshe wezingane ezinesiphiwo kanye nabantu abadala iminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amabili, kanye nomlobi wezincwadi eziningi ngale ndaba njengokuthi: "Ingane encane enesiphiwo kusukela ezinyangeni eziyisi-6 kuye kweyisi-6 ubudala" kanye “Ingane engakazalwa namuhla. Ilungiselele umhlaba wakusasa ”.
Incazelo nezici: yini amandla aphezulu obuhlakani, noma i-HPI?
Okokuqala nje, liyini ngempela Ikhono Eliphakeme Lokuhlakanipha? Empeleni kuyisici se-Intelligence Quotient (IQ) engxenyeni yabantu. Abantu be-HPI bane-IQ okungukuthi phakathi kwe-130 ne-160 (ngakho-ke ngaphezu kwesilinganiso, cishe i-100). Le phrofayela yengane nomuntu omdala inezici ezithile eziqondene nokuthi Amathuba Aphezulu, okwabelwana nathi ngu-Monique de Kermadec: “Izingane ezinesiphiwo zinelukuluku elikhulu lemvelo. Futhi banenkumbulo enhle kakhulu, futhi ngokuvamile i-hypersensitivity ”. Izingane ezinesiphiwo, ezibizwa nangokuthi "amadube", zivame ukunikwa ukucabanga okufana nesihlahla, okuzinikeza ubuhlakani obukhulu futhi kuzivumela isivinini esithile ekuxazululeni izinkinga.
Izimpawu: indlela yokubona nokubona ingane noma ingane enesiphiwo?
Izimpawu zobudala zingatholwa ngabazali, ngisho noma kudingeka ukuhlolwa kwe-IQ nodokotela wezengqondo ukuze kutholakale isiphiwo somntwana. Nokho, ngisho nasezinganeni, izici ezithile zobuntu zingavusa izinsolo kubazali, njengoba uMonique de Kermadec echaza: “Ezinsaneni, izingane ziyakwazi ukusola abazali bakhe. kungukubukeka okungaveza Amandla Okuhlakanipha Okuphezulu. Izingane ezinesiphiwo zizoba namehlo abukhali futhi zigcwele ilukuluku. Lapho sebekhulile, kungenxa yegama nolimi lapho umuntu ekwazi ukubona Ikhono Eliphezulu. Izingane ezinesiphiwo bavame ukuba nolimi olucebile kunalolo lwentanga yabo. Bashaya ngokuthintana ngamazwi. Futhi bazwela kakhulu futhi baveza imizwa yabo kakhulu. Ziyakwazi ukuzwela kakhulu emisindweni, iphunga noma imibala ngokwesibonelo. Izingane ezingaphambi kwesikhathi nazo zizobeka a imibuzo eminingi kulabo ababazungezile. Lena ngokuvamile imibuzo ekhona emhlabeni, ngokufa noma endaweni yonke ngokwesibonelo. Kungase futhi kube nenselelo kuziphathimandla ezihambisana nokuthuthuka okusheshayo kokucabanga okujulile. Esikoleni, laba ngabafundi abangahlakulela uhlobo lwesithukuthezi, ngoba izinga labo lokufunda liyashesha kunelabanye. “
Izimpawu zamandla aphezulu obuhlakani
- hypersensitivity (izinzwa kanye nemizwelo);
- ilukuluku elikhulu ngokubuza imibuzo eminingi
- Ukuqonda okusheshayo kakhulu
- Ukuphelela okukhulu ekwenzeni imisebenzi
Yiziphi izivivinyo zokulinganisa Amandla Aphezulu?
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abazali bazozibuza kancane kancane imibuzo mayelana nekhono lengane yabo. Banganquma-ke ukuya enhliziyweni yakho, ngokwenza ukuhlolwa kwe-IQ : “Phakathi kweminyaka emibili neminyaka eyisithupha yengane, omunye wenza ukuhlolwa kwe-IQ i-WPPSI-IV. Ezinganeni ezindala, yi-WISC-V, ”kufingqa uMonique de Kermadec. Ukuhlolwa kwe-IQ kuwukuhlolwa kokucabanga. Kubalulekile futhi ukwazi ukuthi lokhu kuvakasha kwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo akuhloselwe nje ukuthola "amaphuzu", njengoba uMonique de Kermadec egcizelela: "Ukuhlolwa kwengqondo kuzokwenza kube nokwenzeka ukunquma izinto eziqondile, njengokukhathazeka okungenzeka kwe-precocious. ingane, noma ubuhlobo bakhe nabanye. Ukuhlola kuzophinde kunqume ubuthakathaka bomntwana onesiphiwo, ngoba ngokusobala akaqinile yonke indawo futhi unemingcele yakhe.
Ukuhlolwa kwe-IQ
I-WPSSI-IV
I-WPSSI-IV isivivinyo sezingane ezincane. Ihlala ngokwesilinganiso isikhathi esingaphezudlwana kwehora. Ngokusekelwe ekuzilolongeni okunengqondo, lokhu kuhlola kusekelwe kuma-eksisi ambalwa: isikali sokuqonda somlomo, isikali se-visuospatial, isikali sokucabanga esiwuketshezi, isikali senkumbulo yokusebenza nesikali sesivinini sokucubungula.
I-WISC-V
I-WISC V eyezingane eziphakathi kweminyaka eyi-6 neyi-16 ubudala. Isekelwe esikalini esifanayo ne-WPSSI-IV ngokuzivocavoca okunengqondo okuguqulelwe iminyaka yengane.
Ngiyayitshela yini ingane yami ukuthi izohlola i-IQ?
Indlela yokwethula lokhu kuvakasha kusazi sokusebenza kwengqondo enganeni yakhe? “Akufanele utshele ingane ukuthi uya kudokotela wengqondo ukuze uthole ukuthi ihlakaniphile yini kunezinye, kodwa kunalokho sizoyibona ukuze ithole iseluleko,” kuchaza uMonique de Kermadec.
Ungabhekana kanjani nengane ehlakaniphile, noma i-EIP?
Iyangena imiphumela, bathi ingane yakho inesiphiwo. Indlela yokusabela? “Ingane yakho iyafana nangaphambi kokubonisana. Kufanele nje cabangela izici zobuntu ezishiwo yilokhu. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ezwela kakhulu, uzoqonda ukuthi angase athukuthele ngenxa yezizathu ezizwakalayo. Zama ukumqonda ngangokunokwenzeka, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke ungazitsheli ukuthi ngeke uphumelele ngoba izidingo zakhe zikhethekile. Futhi qinisekani abazali: ingane engaphambi kwesikhathi igcwele ubuciko, futhi inezithakazelo eziningi. Nge-inthanethi, isikole noma othisha, uzokwazi ukwanelisa ilukuluku lakhe. Uma kukhulunywa ngohlelo oluthintekayo kanye nokufunda kwempilo, nguwe kuphela, bazali, enibalulekile. Abazali bangabangane abayisisekelo bengane engakafiki. Yibona abazoyiphelezela iminyaka ekuthuthukisweni kwayo. Kukubazali futhi ukuthi basize ingane engakazalwa ukuthi ithuthukise ezinye izinhlobo zayo zobuhlakani, ikakhulukazi ezobudlelwano. Ukuphiwa akusona isizathu sokuba wedwa emphakathini. », Weluleka uMonique de Kermadec.
Ngithi ingane yami isencane? Ingabe kufanele sikhulume ngakho esikoleni?
Mhlawumbe ngemva kokufunda lezi zindaba ngesimo somntwana wethu, sizofuna ukuhlanganyela lezi zindaba nalabo abaseduze nathi. Noma nethimba lokufundisa, ukuze bakwazi ukunakekela ingane yethu encane enesiphiwo ngendlela eyanele. UMonique de Kermadec nokho uyeluleka khuluma ngayo ngokuthula : “Ngaphambi kokuba sikhulume ngakho, kufanele sizibuze ukuthi sifuna ukukwenza ngenxa yesidingo noma ngenxa yesifiso. Ukutshela esibathandayo ngakho kungabuyisela emuva enganeni enesiphiwo, ezobonakala ngendlela ehlukile, futhi ingase izizwe inqatshwa. Mayelana nethimba lothisha, ngeluleka abazali hhayi ukujaha ngaso leso sikhathi, ekuqaleni konyaka, ukukhuluma nabo ngakho. Kungcono ukulinda kuze kube usuku lokuqala onyakeni wesikole ukukusho, uma unomuzwa wokuthi kuyadingeka kumntanakho. Okokugcina emndenini, kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhulumi ngakho kubafowenu nodadewenu, ngoba lokhu kungadala ukuncintisana kanye nomhawu ongenasidingo. “
Esikoleni, kunjani kwabaphiwe?
Izimo zihluke kakhulu ezinganeni ezisakhula ngesikhathi zisafunda. Ngezici zabo ezimangalisayo, abanye babo ngabafundi abathola amamaki amahle kakhulu, kuyilapho abanye befeyila esikoleni: “Ngokuvamile, eminyakeni yamuva siye sathambekela ekucabangeni ukuthi ukuphila ngaphambi kwesikhathi kwakuhlobene nezinkinga, futhi ikakhulukazi ukwehluleka ezifundweni. Lokhu akulungile, ngoba izingane eziningi ezinesiphiwo zenza kahle kakhulu ezifundweni zazo futhi zingabafundi abahle kakhulu. Ubuhlakani babo, inkumbulo yabo evame ukuba yinhle, kanye nesivinini sabo sokukhula ngokuvamile kuyimpahla ebalulekile. Sivame ukukhuluma ngokweqa ikilasi lengane engakafiki, ukugwema isithukuthezi esikoleni, noma ngabe lokhu akwenzeki. Udinga ukubukisisa kahle ubuntu bengane yakho ngaphambi kwenqubo yokugxuma ekilasini, futhi mhlawumbe ukhulume nodokotela wezengqondo ngakho. Ngempela, ezinye izingane ezinesiphiwo zithanda ukulawula, futhi ukweqa ikilasi kungabadida. Ngaphezu kwalokho, masingakhohlwa ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwengane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi i-precocious noma cha, yiyona ehamba phambili: ukushiya abangane bakhe, ukuzitholela yena omncane wesinye isigaba nakho kungamphazamisa.
Isiphiwo ezinganeni: ungazifaki ingcindezi!
Ngokuvamile, sicabanga njengomzali ukuthi ukuba nengane engakafiki kuwukuba nongqondongqondo wesikhathi esizayo ozoshintsha umhlaba ngemibono yakhe emisha. Iphutha okungafanele lenziwe, ngokwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uMonique de Kermadec: “Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungayilahli ingane yakho ekubeni uLeonardo da Vinci wesikhathi esizayo, noma ekwenzeni amaphupho akho angagcwaliseki. Akufanele ubuze kakhulu enganeni, noma inamandla amakhulu. Mhlawumbe ubukhali kunabanye. kodwa isekhona ingane ! Wonke umuntu unejubane lakhe kanye nombono wakhe wezinto. Amanye “amadube” amancane akhanya kakhulu esikoleni, amanye akhanya kancane. Ukuba nesiphiwo akuqinisekisi ukuba yiPolytechnician yesikhathi esizayo! Kufanele umthande ngalokho ayiko, indlela ayiyo, futhi umsize athuthukise amakhono akhe nobuntu bakhe ngawo wonke amandla akhe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma uzazi ukuthi unesiphiwo limkhuthaza ukuthi azenze kancane kumaqabane akhe, noma uma engenzi umzamo okwanele esikoleni, enza sengathi "uqonda konke", zama ukukhuluma naye: kumele aqonde ukuthi uma "enezinsiza", kungenxa yokusebenza azokwazi baxhaphaze ngokufanele.