Osaziwayo ababili, omama ababili. Kokubili kwi-microblogging ngomehluko wamahora ambalwa kukhona ukungena esihlokweni esifanayo - izingane ezinomsindo ezindaweni zomphakathi. U-Alena Vodonaeva noVictoria Daineko baveze imicabango ehluke kakhulu. Futhi ekuphawuleni ngaphansi kokuthunyelwe yikho bobabili, kwaqubuka impi yangempela.
UVodonaeva ubhale okuthunyelwe okude echaza ukuthi hlobo luni lwenkathazo olwamehlela ngobusuku bangaphambi kokudlela. Ndawonye nabo, inkampani enezingane yaphumula ehholo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane beziziphatha, ukusibeka kahle, hhayi kakhulu: zigijime phakathi kwamatafula, zamemeza. Omunye wabo, ephethe ingilazi yejusi le-orange ezandleni zakhe, wakhubeka wawa khona kanye etafuleni lapho u-Alena ayehleli khona.
"Ingane - nesilevu sayo phansi, ingilazi ngaphansi kwezinyawo zami, amabhuzu ami abomvana abomvu" enyameni ". Ngaleso sikhathi, izicathulo zazingikhathaza kakhulu, ngoba nganginovalo ebusweni bomfana. Ngiyabonga uNkulunkulu, akwenzekanga lutho. Ngamsiza wasukuma, ngamhlola. Hhayi ukuklwebheka. Wagijimela phambili. Futhi abazali… abakunakanga nokuwa ”, - uVodonaeva uthukuthele.
Ebuyela ekhaya, u-Alena wazisola ngokuthi wayengakhiphanga imali yezicathulo ezilimele kubazali bakhe.
“Akunakwenzeka kimi ukuthi ngiqonde ukuthi kunobugovu kanjani nokunganaki ukwamukela izimo ezinjalo,” kubhala lesi sihlabani.
Ngokusho kuka-Alena, wayethukuthele kabi ngokuthi abazali abafundisi izingane zabo ukugcina imithetho yokuziphatha okuhle. Futhi akakuthandi ngempela, ehlezi ekhefini noma endaweni yokudlela, elalele ukukhala kwezingane.
“Umbuzo obhekiswe kubazali. Waze wasa? Kungani, uma uhamba nezingane uye nazo ezindaweni zomphakathi, awuzilandeli? Kungani beziphatha kanjena endaweni yokudlela? Ngiyakuqonda lapho ingane ikhala. Kepha lapho izingane, eziseminyakeni lapho kungaba yisikhathi sokuyazi vele imithetho yokuziphatha ezindaweni zomphakathi, ziziphatha kanjena, kumane kuthiwe abazali bangabantu abanemikhuba emibi futhi abangaziphenduli. "
Futhi ngangihamba ngohlelo olusezingeni eliphezulu manje lwemfundo yamahhala:
“Kunabantu abadala abavumela lokhu kanjena: 'Asivimbeli lutho izingane zethu! Indlela yethu yokukhuliswa yinkululeko! “Siyanihalalisela, akusiyo inkululeko lena, yisiphithiphithi lesi! Umuntu ongalawuleki uyakhula emndenini wakho, ongaba nobunzima esikhathini esizayo. "
"Ukuqothula abantu bebehlala bebandayo," - cishe ngasikhathi sinye, uDaineko ubhale ekhasini lakhe.
Umculi ungene endabeni engathandeki ngenkathi ehleli enqoleni yeSapsan.
“Umalume ogqoke ijini eqinile nejakhethi yoboya wathukuthela wagana unwabu ezincwadini zokuthi besingamvumeli alale. Asikuvumeli ulale ngehora lokuqala. Inhloko yesitimela yamchazela, impela, ukuthi izingane, kufaka phakathi izingane, zingaba sebangeni lokuqala, nengane enonyaka (engakhalanga ngisho ukukhala, kepha ivele idlale ihleke) ayikwazi faka umlomo emlonyeni wakhe, "UDaineko wabelane nababhalisile.
“Awukwazi ukuya eshashalazini nezingane, ezindizeni babukeka bebukeka futhi bethukuthele, ezitimeleni bathukuthele, ezindaweni zokudlela bathukuthele. Ngabe izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka eyi-16 zidinga ukukhula njengezitshalo zasendlini? Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi nalabo abacasukile, futhi, kuze kube yilapho iminyaka yobudala ingaphumanga ngaphandle kwegumbi labo? Ukuze intombazane ethile yaseMoscow ekhasini lakhe kuFacebook ingabhali okuthunyelwe ngesihlamba: “Bayacasuka,” kukhala uVictoria. Umculi umangele ngobuqotho: kungenzeka yini ngobuqotho ukucabanga ukuthi uma ingane ifunde ukuhamba, isivele ifunde yonke imithetho yokuziphatha? Futhi “omama abafanelekayo” ngokwabo babhekana kanjani nezingane zabo? Ngabe badonswa ngama-tranquilizer? Futhi idonsela ukunaka komphakathi kokunye okubaluleke kakhulu:
"Kuyamangaza, ngemuva kwakho konke, lapho esigabeni esisodwa sebhizinisi noma isigaba sokuqala omunye umalume obaluleke kakhulu ephuza kakhulu futhi eqala ukusakaza umbhedo wokudakwa kuyo yonke indlu yezindiza noma ukuhlupha abanye abagibeli, akekho noyedwa ongalokotha avule umlomo wakhe."
Kumazwana la, kwaba khona impi enkulu. Okuthunyelwe kukaVodonaeva kuqoqe cishe izimpendulo eziyinkulungwane esikhathini esingaphansi kosuku. Okuthunyelwe nguDaineko - izitatimende ezingaphezu kwezingu-500.
Ababhalisile babiza amagama ababhali bokuthunyelwe, omunye nomunye, izingane, abazali kanye nokuphathwa kwendawo yokudlela ngazo zonke izinhlobo zamagama amabi. Cishe wonke umuntu wakhumbula indaba ethile empilweni yakhe: indlela izingane zabanye abantu ezingabanikanga ngayo impilo, ukuthi babhekana kanjani ngokuphelele nemisebenzi yabo nokuthi benza kanjani lapho bezithola bekulezi zimo. Abanye baze bazisole nokuthi uVodonaeva akamnikanga umfana ngempama ekhanda - bathi, kuzoba wusizo kuye.
“Awu, ungubani wena ongayeka ukudlala umculo uma ekubona, izingane ziyeke ukugijima, oweta bajiye bathule? Azisekho izinkinga empilweni, njengokudla kwasemini nokonakala kwezicathulo - izingane… Izingane ziyaphazamisa - hlala udle ekhaya! Noma thenga indawo yokudlela! ”- abanye babhala.
“Ngingabheka ubuso bakho lapho, lapho uhleli endaweni yokudlela, ingane ethile enobudlova ikuthela ngejusi. Wena, hike, ungomunye walabo mama abathi, nezingane zabo, benze ubuchopho bawo wonke umuntu ezindaweni ezinokuthula ezihloniphekile, ”abanye baphendula amathe ngokuphendula.
"Kucacile ngokushesha: izingane ezinjalo azikwazi ukwanela, ngeshwa," abanye abanye bakhombisa amakhono okubona.
Abanye, nokho, abajahi ukugqashula imikhonto, kepha zama ukuthola ukuvumelana:
“Kuthiwani uma kunesimo esinje kungekho oshiya naye? Akekho umzanyana, akekho ugogo noma akakwazi, yini okufanele bayenze? Ungayishiyi ingane yodwa ekhaya? Noma ungezi eholidini? Mina ngokwami angizukuya, kepha abantu abafani, izimo zihlukile… Ngokuphazima kweso base bekhathele yimisebenzi yasendlini kangangoba baphazanyiswa bahamba. "
Indawo yokudlela nayo yakhahlela okuningi: bathi, kuyiphutha labaphathi ukuthi namanje abanalo igumbi labantwana, kodwa babavumela bangene nezingane.
Futhi bambalwa kakhulu ababize ukuba babe nomusa: “Kumele sizame ukuzwana. Noma yini ingenzeka. "
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Ingabe kulungile ukuthatha ingane enomsindo uye nayo endaweni yokudlela?
Vele, ungamshiyi yedwa. Iyakhula - ifunda ukuziphatha.
Yebo, kodwa kuphela uma abazali bengasoze bamvumela ukuba aphazamise abanye.
Mabathathe, kodwa babashiye egumbini lezingane. Noma okungenani ku-wardrobe, kepha abahuduli baye kubantu.
Izingane azinandawo endaweni yokudlela. Ikakhulu uma bengazi ukuthi kumele baziphathe kanjani.