Okuqukethwe
Inja isidalwa esiphilayo
Ukulunywa okuningi kuvela esilwaneni esiseduze, inja yomndeni noma inja yasendaweni. Nokho izingozi zivikeleka kakhulu ngokukhuthaza abanikazi ukuthi baziphathe kahle nangokufundisa izingane ukuziphatha ngokuqapha eduze kwenja. Ukuhlonipha isilwane yinto yokuqala. Mnikeze izidingo zakhe eziyisisekelo, yiqiniso, dla, ulale, uhambe, udlale, kodwa futhi umphathe njengenja ayiyo. Akuyona ingane ukuthi yonakalise kakhulu noma ithoyizi elithambile ukuthi senze esikufunayo. Qaphela ukuthi izinhlobo ezithile zezinja zibusa ngokwemvelo. Kodwa noma kunjalo, inhlonipho nemfundo kusewukhiye wokuqonda okuhle.
Inja ingaluma kungazelelwe ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene
Inja ayilokothi ilume mahhala, ngokuthanda kwakho! Kuhlala kunesizathu:
- – Ukucasuka kuvame kakhulu. Ebangelwa ukukhungatheka (simphuca inkululeko ngokumfaka intambo, simdlisa amathe ekudleni esingamniki), izinhlungu (ukugula, ithumba, ukungenwa yizindlebe, ukushukuma komzimba okungenelela kancane, umunwe phakathi. amehlo, ukumpintsha, ukudonsa izinwele) noma ukucindezela (ukugcina ukuphulula noma umdlalo lapho inja iqinile noma izama ukubaleka, igqoka nezingubo zezingane, ukuxubha okungapheli ...)
- – Ukwesaba esilwaneni esikhathazekile, esesabayo futhi esivame ukungahlali kahle kahle kungaba imbangela yokulunywa. Uma isilwane sizizwa sibambezelekile, uma singakwazi ukuphunyuka emdlalweni noma ukukhwabanisa, singaluma ukuze sizivikele.
- - Ukuntuleka kokulawula: inja encane ingase ibe nenkinga yokulawula ukuluma kwayo, ikakhulukazi phakathi nemidlalo. Mayelana nalokhu, umehluko ngobukhulu nesisindo phakathi kwesilwane esikhulu nengane encane kakhulu kungase kuholele engozini ephushayo, engalawuleki futhi engenalo ulaka.
- - Ukuvikela indawo yayo noma inkosi yayo. Izinja zivikela ukuziphatha. Izingane kufanele zikwazi lokhu ukuze zingazifaki engozini engenasidingo, ngisho nenja eziyazi kahle. Ungadlulisi isandla sakho ocingweni lukamakhelwane, isibonelo, ungayithathi ingane kunina ngesihluku, ungayigconi inja ngethoyizi layo…. Okokugcina, qaphela ukuthi izinja ezinkulu azinawo ulaka, kodwa ukulunywa ezikwenza ngokuvamile kubi kakhulu.
Qaphela izimpawu zokucasuka ezinjeni
Izinja zingabangane abahle. Babelana ngokwethembeka izikhathi ezinhle nawe kanye nezingane zakho. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi umsebenzi wesikhashana awuhambisani naye. Akafuni ukudlala ukujaha ngesikhathi sokudla, angancamela ukuphumula kunokudlala ngendiza yamanzi nezingane, ufuna ukuqeda lesi sikhathi se-papouilles esidonsa ngobude. Futhi uyakwazisa!
Funda ukubona izimpawu zokucasuka futhi usize izingane zakho zizibone. Inja ekhiphe amazinyo, ibhonge futhi ishintshele eceleni ayisafuni ukuphazanyiswa. Izingozi eziningi zingagwenywa ngokwazi indlela yokumisa umdlalo lapho inja ibonisa ukwethuka noma ukukhathala.
Ukuze ugweme ukulunywa yinja yakho
Sivame ukuzizwa sikhululekile kakhulu ngenja esiyazi kahle! Kuze kungene. Nokho umthetho oyisisekelo, ngisho nogogo wasePekingese othandekayo, ukuwuhlonipha. Hlonipha izidingo zakhe eziyisisekelo kuqala, okusho ukuthi akadle ngaphandle kokumphazamisa futhi agweme ukumphakela etafuleni, ahloniphe ukuphumula nokulala kwakhe ngenkathi egwema ukutshala ubhasikidi wakhe njengoba abancane bethanda okuningi. Akumele akwamukele. Okokugcina, hlonipha "ubuqotho bakhe bomzimba": ungadonsi izindlebe zakhe noma umsila, ungabambeli izinwele zakhe. Ngamafuphi, ungavumeli izingane ziliphathe njengethoyizi elithambile ngoba lingashayisana.
Ngisho nokudlala, inja ngokuvamile ayikuthandi ukugconwa, ukuxoshwa, nokuthethiswa. Ungavumeli izingane zithathe amathoyizi akhe azithandayo, ithambo noma indishi. Okokugcina, ngisho nenja yomndeni ingaba nolaka kakhulu uma izwa usongo ezinganeni zayo. Shiya insikazi enakekela imidlwane yayo yodwa. Ngokwengxenye yakho, ngisho noma uyethemba ngokuphelele inja yakho, ungalokothi umshiye yedwa ekamelweni nomntanakho, futhi ufundise abancane bakho ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukugcina ubuso babo bukude nekhanda lenja. Ithagethi ilula kakhulu futhi ifinyelela umsebenzi.
Ukuze ungalunywa yinja emgwaqweni
“Uyinja yakho, ungayiphulula?” Inja emgwaqeni iheha abancane ngendlela engenakulungiseka. Ukubenza bacele imvume kunkosi ukuthi bayithinte kuwumthetho wesithupha, yebo! Qaphela, nokho, ngoba akubona bonke abanikazi abazimisele ukubona ingozi engenzeka yenja yabo. Uma izingeniso seziqediwe nomphathi, yazi umngane wakhe onemilenze emine. Ungalokothi umgone, kodwa uhogele, welule isandla sakho. Ungamfikeli ngokuzuma, ungagijimi phambi kwakhe, ingasaphathwa eyokuthi uphethe induku. Musa ukuyimbambatha ekhanda, kuwuphawu lokuzithoba enja. Uma singekho isibambi eduze nenja. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungayifuyi inja eboshiwe, ilele, ngemva kocingo noma emotweni. Okokugcina, ungazihlukanisi izinja ezilwayo. Abaphathise amakhosi.
Ukuze ugweme ukulunywa yinja elahlekile
Inja elahlekile kungenzeka icishe ibe yindle. Ungalokothi uyiphulule! Uma ekuvimba, gwema ukucasula umzwelo wakhe wemvelo.
Athule ame aqonde. Ungabaleki, ungafulatheli, ungenzi izimpawu ezinkulu.
Ungambheki emehlweni njengoba lokho kumemela emqhudelwaneni. Akakuhogele, mhlawumbe ufuna nje ukujwayelana.