Abantu abakhohlisa abantu abathandana nabo bavame ukuzidela ngendlela ehlekisayo. Enye yalezi zindaba yabiwe umsebenzisi we-TikTok u-Anna - ngokusho kwentombazane, ithole ngokukhohliswa kwesithandwa sayo lapho ibona ividiyo eshicilelwe yinkosikazi yakhe esicelweni.
Umsebenzisi weTikTok u-Anna uthumele ividiyo enkundleni yezokuxhumana lapho esho khona ukuthi wakwazi kanjani ukudalula umyeni wakhe ongathembekile.
Intombazane yathatha uhambo lwebhizinisi futhi ngesikhathi sayo samahhala yanquma ukubheka iTikTok. Ividiyo yokuqala yamthatha.
Iqiniso wukuthi le vidiyo ikhombisa imoto ipake emzini osolisayo. Lapho ebheka eduze, owesifazane waqaphela: leli yikhaya lakhe siqu. Imoto ngekamnikazi we-akhawunti, intombazane encane.
“Kwaze kwahlekisa, ngoba angibhalisile, ngabe sengihlangana nale vidiyo ngokushesha. Ngambuka i-TikTok ngabona ukuthi yena nomyeni wami bachithe impelasonto yonke ndawonye, ”kuchaza u-Anna.
Unezela ngokuthi isikhathi eside ubudlelwano babo nomyeni wakhe abuhambi kahle, futhi wayemsola ngokuvukela umbuso. Kodwa kwakungenakwenzeka ukubamba le ndoda, futhi yaphika yonke into. “Saxabana isikhathi esingaphezu kwenyanga, kodwa lapho ngibona ukuthi uziphatha ngendlela exakile, wavele wathi ngiyahlanya,” kuphawula umsebenzisi.
Kulokhu, umyeni akazange azithole izingxabano. Kwadingeka avume: imoto engaphansi kwendlu yabo, umkakhe ayibona ngephutha kuvidiyo, empeleni ingeyenkosikazi yakhe.
Ividiyo isibukwe abantu abangaphezu kwezigidi ezimbili. Uma sibheka imibono, indaba enjalo ishaqise kakhulu abasebenzisi. Yebo, futhi u-Anna ngokwakhe wavuma ukuthi kuze kube sekupheleni wayengakholelwa ukuthi kwakungenzeka kalula futhi kungazelelwe ukuthola mayelana nokukhashelwa komyeni wakhe.
Phambilini, omunye umsebenzisi weTikTok, u-Amy Addison, uthe ufunde ngomndeni wesibili womyeni wakhe ephephandabeni lendawo.
Uthe ezihlalele emsebenzini wahlangana nengxenye enezimemezelo zokuzalwa kwezingane edolobheni labo elincane: ibala amagama abazali, ubulili bengane, usuku yokuzalwa nenombolo yesibhedlela.
Uma ubheka ohlwini, u-Addison wahlangana negama lomyeni wakhe (ngendlela, ongavamile kakhulu), futhi eduze kwakhe kwakukhona igama lowesifazane ongajwayelekile.
Khona-ke intombazane yangena kusizindalwazi sesibhedlela, lapho yabona khona isithombe somfana osanda kuzalwa. Wafaka amagama abazali bakhe endaweni yokusesha futhi wathola ukuthi ngonyaka nesigamu ngaphambili, umyeni wakhe nowesifazane ongaziwa banenye ingane. “Ngabona kanjalo ukuthi umyeni wami wayengikhohlisa,” kuphetha u-Amy.
Kumavidiyo alandelayo, umsebenzisi wenkundla yezokuxhumana ubike ngempilo yakhe ngemuva kokudalula imfihlo yomyeni wakhe: owesifazane wadivosa, wathatha izingane ezintathu wayohlala ehhotela. Ngemva kwesikhathi esithile, u-Addison wahlangana nenye indoda, futhi kamuva bashada.