Okuqukethwe
- 1. Bayaqonda ukuthi ngeke baphumelele kukho konke.
- 2. Abazami ukubukeka njengabanqobi.
- 3. Babuza ngaphezu kokuphendula
- 4. Abakubukeli phansi okufezwe abanye abantu.
- 5. Abakwesabi ukuzihleka.
- 6. Ababukisi ukuthi yini eyenza baphumelele.
- 7. Bagqoka ngokunganaki.
- 8. Bagwema ukuphumela obala
- Pho kungani bephumelela kangaka?
Kunabantu abazuza impumelelo emangalisayo futhi baguqule umphakathi ube ngcono. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuwadlula emgwaqweni, awusoze waqagela ukuthi akhethekile. Ngokungafani nabaqeqeshi abadumile nama-blogger, «abawine buthule» abamemezeli ngezimpumelelo zabo kuwo wonke amagumbi. Ake sibheke ezinye izimfanelo abanazo.
1. Bayaqonda ukuthi ngeke baphumelele kukho konke.
Umsebenzi onesiyezi, ukuphila okucebile komphakathi, umzali oqaphelayo, injabulo othandweni - abantu abanjalo bazi kahle ukuthi bambalwa abantu abakwaziyo ukuphumelela kuzo zonke izindawo ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Ukutshala imali emsebenzini, bayaqonda ukuthi impilo yabo yomuntu siqu cishe "izocwila", futhi bakulungele ngokwengqondo lokhu. Impumelelo ezingqondweni zabo ihlotshaniswa ngokucacile nesidingo sokuvumelana nezimo.
2. Abazami ukubukeka njengabanqobi.
Okungenani ngoba kuyakhathaza - zonke lezi zinkulumo ezingapheli, izingxoxo, ukubamba iqhaza kumaphodikasti nezinhlelo ze-TV. Abantu abanjalo basebenzisa isikhathi namandla abo ngokuhlakanipha. Bathi injabulo ithanda ukuthula. Kubantu abanjalo, impumelelo yabo ithanda ukuthula.
3. Babuza ngaphezu kokuphendula
Kumane kuyisicefe ukuthi bakhulume kakhulu futhi baveze umbono wabo onegunya ezikhathini eziningi. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, cishe akunakwenzeka ukufunda noma yini. Kuthakazelisa kakhulu futhi kuwusizo ukubuza imibuzo, ukufunda okuthile okusha, ukuthola ukudla okuzomcabango kanye nokubasela imibono emisha (leyo ezoholela “empumelelweni ethule” elandelayo).
4. Abakubukeli phansi okufezwe abanye abantu.
Kunalokho, ngokuphambene nalokho: bona ngokwabo abathandi ukuba sebusweni futhi bavumele abanye ukuba bashaye ihlombe, futhi bathole ukunakwa nodumo. Yingakho kumnandi ukusebenza nabo, yingakho abantu abaningi befisa ukuba seqenjini labo.
5. Abakwesabi ukuzihleka.
"Abawinile abathule" bazi kahle ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuhlala ugibele ihhashi. Abesabi ukuthola "ijazi elimhlophe" labo elingcolile futhi bavume kalula amaphutha. Lokhu kuzivumela ukuthi zincibilikise iqhwa ebudlelwaneni nabanye abantu, yona ngokwayo eyigugu kakhulu.
6. Ababukisi ukuthi yini eyenza baphumelele.
Inani leminyaka ebhizinisini, inani labasebenzi, inani eliku-akhawunti, inani lokutshalwa kwezimali elihehayo - kungenzeka ukuthi awusoze wazi konke lokhu engxoxweni "nowine othule". Umgomo wakhe ukuqhubeka nokubeka umphefumulo wakhe emsebenzini wakhe, ngoba ngokushesha noma kamuva kukhona okuzovela kuwo.
7. Bagqoka ngokunganaki.
Umuntu onjalo akunakwenzeka ukuba ahluke esixukwini - ngokuyinhloko ngoba akafuni. "Abaphumelele abathule" ngokuvamile abazigqoki izingubo eziwubukhazikhazi noma ezibiza kakhulu—akukho lutho oluphakamisa izinga labo lemali engenayo. Abadingi amawashi «isimo»: banefoni ukwazi isikhathi.
8. Bagwema ukuphumela obala
Udumo luyiphupho elibi kubo, futhi abasoze bashintsha ikhono labo lokuphuma endlini ngokuthula beyothenga noma bayodlala nezingane enkundleni yokudlala nganoma yini. Bathanda ukuphila kwabo okujwayelekile okunokuthula, nokuzolile.
Pho kungani bephumelela kangaka?
Ukuthola impendulo yalo mbuzo akulula - uma nje kungenxa yokuthi, njengoba sesivele sitholile, laba bantu bagwema ukukhangisa ngazo zonke izindlela futhi abanikezi izingxoxo mayelana nokuthi yini eyabaholela empumelelweni. Kodwa singathatha ngokuthi iqiniso liwukuthi bathanda ukwenza umsebenzi wabo ngaphezu kokuqashelwa. Bayakhathalela ngempela futhi banesithakazelo kulokho abakwenzayo. Lokhu bangafunda kukho.
Impumelelo ayikho emphakathini, kodwa ekwenzeni umsebenzi ngomphefumulo nangentshisekelo. Ngokwenza kanjalo, “abaphumelele buthule” bashintsha umhlaba ube ngcono usuku nosuku, nakuba ngokuvamile singakuboni. Bakhona abantu abanjalo eduze kwakho?