Amathiphu ayi-11 okulungiselela unyaka wakho wokuqala wesikole

Mtshele nge-D-Day ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule futhi umlungiselele kusenesikhathi

Ukuze ingane yakho izizwe ilungile, kubalulekile ukuyitshela ngokubuyela kwayo esikoleni ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambili. Asikho isidingo sokukhuluma ngakho ngokushesha, ngoba izingane ezisacathula azikwazi ukubikezela izenzakalo kusenesikhathi. Mjwayeze indawo, hamba kanye noma kabili indlela ozohamba naye uma eya esikoleni. Kokelezela idethi yokubuyela esikoleni ekhalendeni bese ubale izinsuku ezisele kuze kufike usuku olukhulu. Ukuze umkhuthaze, ungamthengela isikhwama esihle noma ubhaka lokho kuyamthokozisa. Ukufunda izincwadi ezimbalwa ezinendikimba yokubuyela esikoleni nasesikoleni kuzobajwayelanisa nomhlaba wabo wesikhathi esizayo futhi kususe ukwesaba kwabo. Ngosuku olwandulela ukuqala konyaka wesikole, lungiselela izingubo azithandayo ukuze azizwe ekhululekile ngangokunokwenzeka!

Nyusa isimo sayo esisha sokuthi "big"

Ukuze akhulise ukuzethemba kwakhe,ungangabazi ukwazisa inkambo ebalulekile asezoyithatha : “Imfihlo enkulu yokuphila iwukuba mkhulu. Ngokungena esikoleni uzoba umuntu omdala, uzofunda izinto eziningi ezithokozisayo, nemidlalo emisha futhi. Ungenza amaphupho akho afezeke, ube udokotela, umshayeli wendiza, nanoma yimuphi omunye umsebenzi owuthandayo. “Ukwenza ukuxhumana phakathi kwesikole namaphupho ekusasa kuyamkhuthaza omncane. Futhi uma enomona omncane ngomfowethu noma udadewabo omncane ozohlala nomama ekhaya, engeza ungqimba: “Isikole esabantu abadala, izingane ezisacathula zizoqhubeka nokudlala esikoleni. indlu njengezingane, kuyilapho uzofunda izinto eziningi. Umdlalo umnandi futhi muhle, kodwa isikole siqala impilo yangempela yomuntu omdala ! "

Chaza uhlelo losuku

Njenganoma iyiphi i-novice, ingane yakho encane idinga ulwazi olucacile. Sebenzisa amagama alula: “Uzothola usuku lwakho lokuqala esikoleni, uzohlangana nezinye izingane futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzofunda izinto ezinhle ezizokusiza lapho usukhulile.” ” Chaza inkambo eqondile yosuku lwesikole, imisebenzi, izikhathi zokudla, ukulala nomama. Ubani ozomphelezela ekuseni, ozomlanda. Mchazele ukuthi yini elindeleke kumfundi wasenkulisa: kumelwe ahlanzeke, akwazi ukugqoka nokukhumula ngaphandle kosizo, agqoke futhi akhumule izicathulo zakhe yedwa, aye endlini yangasese ukuze ageze izandla ngemva kokuphuma endlini yangasese nangaphambi kokudla. enkantini, babone amalebula abo futhi banakekele izinto zabo.

Bheka kusengaphambili ukuthi yini engase ibe nzima kuye

Isikole esihle, yisho ukuthi sikhulu kangakanani, siyazi ukuthi sikwenza kanjani, kodwa kubalulekile futhi ukusilungiselela ukuphatha ubunzima obuthile, ukukhungatheka okuthile, ngoba konke akulungile ezweni lamaBhele Okunakekela! Zama ukucabanga ngazo zonke izimo okungenzeka kube nzima ngengane ukuba ibhekane nazo. Obunye ubunzima obukhulu kuzoba wukwamukela ukuthi esikoleni abantu abadala abakhona abekho kuye, ukuthi kunothisha oyedwa noma uthisha oyedwa wezingane ezingamashumi amabili nanhlanu futhi kuzomele alinde. isikhathi sakhe sokukhuluma. Qaphela, nokho, ungavezi okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okubi kakhulu kuye! Ingabe unkosikazi wakho wesikole esiphakathi wayemubi? Ngeke neze kube njalo kuye!

Khuluma naye ngemithetho nezingqinamba zesikole

Manje sekunemihlaba emibili yengane yakho: ekhaya lapho ekhetha khona imisebenzi afuna ukuyenza, nasesikoleni lapho kufanele avume ukwenza imisebenzi abengayikhethanga ngempela. “Ungamdayisi” isikole njengomsebenzi waphakade, khuluma naye mayelana nezingqinamba. Ekilasini, senza lokho uthisha akucelayo, lapho ebuza, futhi asikwazi “zap” uma singakuthandi! Esinye isihloko esibucayi: isihlwathi. Engxenyeni encane, kwenzeka ekuseni kakhulu, futhi ngisho noma engakwenzi ekhaya, kuyodingeka ahambisane nalesi simiso. Ekugcineni, mchazele ukuthi enkantini, kuzodingeka adle lokho okunikezwayo, hhayi izitsha azithandayo!

Mtshele ukuthi yini oyithandile ngesikole

Ayikho into ekhuthaza ingane ukwedlula umdlandla wabazali bayo. Mtshele ukuthi wawuthanda ukwenzani esikoleni sasenkulisa usemncane : dlala ikati ngesikhathi sokuphumula, dweba izithombe ezinhle, funda ukubhala igama lakho, lalela izindaba ezinhle. Mtshele ngabangane bakho, othisha abakumaka, abakusiza futhi bakukhuthaze, ngamafuphi, vusa izinkumbulo ezinhle ezizomenza afune ukuphila nalezi zimo ezicebisayo.

Ungaqhubeki phambili kwejika lokufunda

Uma umenza enze i-graphic design noma izivivinyo zezibalo ngaphambi kokuthi abeke unyawo esikoleni, uzozihlupha! Asikho isidingo sokusika amakhona. Isikole siyindawo yokufunda yesikole. Ekhaya, sifunda izindinganiso, ukwabelana, ukuhlonipha abanye ... Themba othisha, bayazazi izinto zabo. Kodwa ungabaceli ukuthi bajwayelane nejubane lengane yakho. Uhlelo lwesikole akulona i-à la carte futhi nguyena okuzofanele akwazi ukujwayela isigqi seqembu.

Mfundise ukuzivikela kwabanye

Esikoleni uzokwenza abangani, nakanjani. Kodwa ngiKubalulekile futhi ukumlungiselela ukuba phakathi kwabafundi angabazi futhi abangeke balunge. Angase abhekane nokugconwa, ukucasuka, ulaka, ukuganga, ukungalaleli, Ukucasula… Yebo, akukho mbuzo wokumnika isithombe esibi salokho okumlindile, kodwa ukuze kube lula ukuzamukela, kungcono ukukhuluma naye ngezici zakhe ezingavamile noma izici zomzimba ezingase zikhuthaze abaklolodayo! Uma emncane noma emude kakhulu, uma egqoke izibuko, embozwe kancane, enombala wezinwele ongandile, uma ephuza, ephupha noma kunalokho esebenza kakhulu futhi engaphumuli, uma enamahloni futhi enamahloni. kalula… abanye kungenzeka bamkhombise! Kungakho kudingekile ukukhuluma ngakho ngaphambili naye ngobuqotho bonke futhi umnike indlela yokuzivikela: “Ngokushesha lapho ingane ikwenza inhlekisa, uyinqamule bese uhamba. Uzobona ngokushesha umngane omuhle! Ungakwazi futhi ukubika kumnakekeli. Futhi uma engekho umuntu omdala esikoleni ongaxoxa naye ngakho, sitshele ngakho kusihlwa ngemva kokuphuma kwesikole. ” Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane yakho iqonde enkulisa ukuthi kufanele ikhulume nabazali bayo ngazo zonke izigameko zansuku zonke ukuthi abhekane nayo esikoleni.

Thuthukisa ubuhlakani bakho bezenhlalo

Ukwenza abangani abasha kungenye yezinjabulo ezinkulu zesikole. Mfundise ukubheka ezinye izingane, ukufinyelela labo abamamathekayo, ukunikeza imidlalo kulabo abavulekile, abanozwela nabafuna ukudlala naye. Obunye ubunzima ukwamukela iqembu, ukuzithola uphakathi kwabo bonke abanye futhi ubhekane okokuqala ngqa nezingane, ezinye zazo ezizobe zinekhono ekudwebeni, zishesha, zikhululeke kakhudlwana ukuziveza. , ngokushesha emjahweni… Kuzodingeka futhi simfundise umbono wokwabelana. Asikho isidingo sokukhuluma nengane yakho njengomuntu omdala, ukunikeza izinkulumo ezikhuthazayo ngokuphana. Eminyakeni yakhe, akakwazi ukuqonda le mibono engaqondakali. Kungezenzo lapho engakwazi ukuhlanganisa imibono yokwabelana nobumbano. Dlala naye imidlalo yebhodi, mcele ukuthi adwebele omunye umuntu isithombe, anikeze umngane wakhe elinye lamakhekhe akhe esigcawini, abeke itafula, abhakele umndeni wonke ikhekhe ...

Lungiselela lolu shintsho futhi

Unyaka wokuqala wesikole uyingqopha-mlando ebalulekile ekuphileni kwengane esacathula, kodwa nakuleyo yabazali bayo. Kuwuphawu lokuthi ikhasi liyaphenduka, ukuthi lowo owayeyingane useyingane, ukuthi azihlukanise kancane kancane, ukuthi akhule, azimele, anciphe kancane, ahlanganyele futhi aqhubekele phambili endleleni yokuphila kwakhe. Akulula kanjalo ukwamukela futhi ngezinye izikhathi kufanele ulwe ne-nostalgia iminyaka yokuqala… Uma ezizwa engakunaki futhi nokudabuka kwakho okuncane, uma ezwa sengathi umshiya esikoleni ngokunqikaza, ngeke akwazi ukutshala impilo yakhe entsha yesikole ngomdlandla nogqozi oluyi-100%.

Ungadluliseli imizwa engemihle

Ukubuyela esikoleni kungaba isikhathi esinzima enganeni yakho, kodwa kungaba nakuwe! Uma ungajabuli ngekilasi lakhe lesikhathi esizayo noma ikilasi lakhe lesikhathi esizayo, ungakubonisi ikakhulukazi enganeni yakho, ezifaka engozini yokuthola ukudumala kwakho. Ditto for izinyembezi. Ngezinye izikhathi, njengomzali, ukubona ingane yakho encane idlula emasangweni esikole kubangela imizwa noma ukudabuka. Linda aze afike ekhaya ngaphambi kokuba uvumele izinyembezi zigeleze ukuze naye angadabuki!