Okuqukethwe
Amathiphu ayi-10 wokuyeka ukuziqhathanisa nabanye
Thola amakhono akho
Ukuhlonza amandla akho, izimfanelo zakho, impumelelo yakho kanye nezinsizakusebenza zakho kubalulekile ukuyeka ukuqhathanisa. Impela, ikuvumela ukuthi ususe umuzwa wokuthi abanye benza kangcono, banempilo engcono. Kumele sazi ukuthi sonke sinamandla ahlukile kithina, omunye uphumelela endaweni eyodwa, uphumelela kwenye…
Yazana
Ukuze ukwazi ukubona amandla akho, kusadingeka ukwazi wena, ukwazi okuthandayo, izifiso zakho, amanani akho, izinto eziza kuqala kuwe, yini ekwenza ujabule noma ungajabuli. Awunothile njengomakhelwane wakho, kepha ingabe uyafuna ngempela ukusebenza amahora ayi-12 ngosuku ucindezelwe? Ungayithanda impilo yakhe?
Prakthiza ukubonga
Ukwenza ukubonga kukuvumela ukuthi ugxile kokuhle manje kunokukhanyisa okwedlule noma ucabange ngalokho okungaba ngcono ngokuzayo. Ukubhala phansi noma ukucabanga ngezinto ozibongayo nsuku zonke kukuvumela ukuthi unake kakhulu lokho onakho kunalokho ongenakho.
Thatha isinyathelo emuva
Ukuyeka ukuziqhathanisa nabanye, kufanele futhi wazi ukuthi ungathatha kanjani isinyathelo emuva kulokho okuboniswayo, ikakhulukazi kumanethiwekhi omphakathi. Ingabe izimpilo zabanye abantu ziphelele ngempela? Ingabe lo mbhangqwana we-photogenic wenza kahle kangaka? Ngabe iholide labo belingaphezulu kangaka kwezulu noma bekuyi-engeli yesithombe? Futhi, ingabe ufuna ngempela impilo yakho ifane nokuphakelayo kwe-Instagram?
Zizungeze nabantu abafanele
Kubalulekile ukuzungeza nabantu abakukhuthazayo futhi bakukhuthaze kulokho okwenzayo. Uma unokuzenyeza futhi uzungezwe abantu abazibeka phambili futhi bakubeka ohlangothini oluthile lomncintiswano, awusoze wazizwa ulungele lo msebenzi.
Zikhuthaze ngokwakho ngaphandle kokuziqhathanisa
Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokuncoma nomona. Ukufisa isimo somuntu ngeke kukusize uqhubeke, kukhiqiza imizwa engemihle kuphela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuncoma umuntu nokukhuthazwa ngohambo lwakhe, impumelelo yakhe ingakusiza ufunde, ukuzedlula wena, ukufeza inhloso.
Zemukele njengoba unjalo
Unemithwalo yakho, ukwesaba kwakho, amaphutha akho… Konke kukwenza ube yilokho oyikho. Kusukela kokubi, izinto ezinhle ziyazalwa. Uma ungathuthuka ezicini ezithile, izinto ezithile azikwazi ukuguquka, kufanele ukwamukele uyeke ukufuna ukuphelela, akekho umuntu onjalo. Yamukela ukungapheleli kwakho!
Gwema izimbangela
Thatha isikhathi ukukhomba abantu, izinto, noma izimo ezibanga ukungeneliseki. Qaphela ukuthi zikuthinta kanjani kabi ukuze ubazi, bese uzigwema. Futhi, gxila esikhundleni ekuqhathaniseni okulusizo kuwe, okukukhuthazayo, njengezimfanelo zobuntu ozithandayo kubantu abathile noma kwimisebenzi ekuvumela ukuthi uthuthukise inhlalakahle yakho.
Zenzele okuhle
Yiba nomusa kuwe! Banikezane izincomo, baphonsane izimbali, bamoyizelane! Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, khumbula ukukhomba, futhi uqaphele impumelelo yakho. Senza izinto nsuku zonke, ezinkulu nezincane, kepha kusadingeka ukuthi sikuqaphele lokhu. Ukudla okumnandi, usizo olunikezwa othile, umsebenzi owenziwe kahle… Nsuku zonke kunempumelelo yako
Uma usuku nosuku kuqukethe isabelo salo sempumelelo, futhi liqukethe isabelo salo sokwehluleka. Kepha izindaba ezinhle ukuthi wonke umuntu usesikebheni esisodwa. Ngisho nomuntu obonakala enokuphila okuphelele kakhulu uke waba nezingqinamba nezingqinamba empilweni. Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala futhi wabelane ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okubi (nabantu abafanelekile!), Uzobona ukuthi nabanye bazothembela ekuhlulekeni kwabo.
UMarie Desbonnet