Kungani kungafanele usize izingane ngokuthenga ikhaya

Ingabe kufanele silwele ukunikeza izingane izindlu? Kungase kubonakale kuwumbuzo ongavamile: yebo yebo, uma ithuba elinjalo likhona. Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, amathuba ashintsha, yingakho kunezizathu zezimo ezibuhlungu kakhulu zokungqubuzana.

U-Anna Sergeevna oneminyaka engu-60, ngesisekelo sendaba yezindlu, akazange nje ahambe kabi namadodana akhe. Owesifazane ulahlekelwe injongo yokuphila.

“Mina nomyeni wami sathola indawo yokuhlala ebhizinisini lakhe ngonyaka weshumi sindawonye,” uxoxa ngenkinga yakhe. – Umlingani wasebenza emsebenzini oyingozi. Ngaqonda ukuthi ngibeka impilo yami engozini, kodwa banginikeza indawo yokuhlala lapho. Lapho sithola i-oda elalihahelwayo lendlu enamagumbi amabili, sacabanga ukuthi sizosangana yinjabulo. Ngaleso sikhathi, indodana yethu yayineminyaka eyisikhombisa ubudala, futhi sase sikhathele ukuhlala nengane emakhoneni akhiphekayo. Futhi uVanya waya esikoleni, kwadingeka anqume indawo yokuhlala unomphela. Ukube nje besazi ukuthi into esiyithokozelayo izoba ithambo lombango emndenini ...

Sabe sesiphila kanzima, njengawo wonke umuntu: okokuqala perestroika, bese kuba crazy nineties. Kodwa lapho uVanya eneminyaka engu-15, saba nenye ingane. Asihlelanga, kwenzekile, futhi angizange ngilokothe ​​ukusikhipha isisu. U-Romka wazalwa, ingane enempilo, enhle futhi ehlakaniphile. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunzima kangakanani kithi, angizange ngizisole nakancane ngesinqumo sami.

Amadodana akhula ehluke ngokuphelele komunye nomunye ngaphandle nangesimo. I-Vanya i-whimsical, ayinakuphumula, i-hypercommunicative, futhi i-Romka, ngokuphambene nalokho, ithule, igxile - i-introvert, ngegama. Omdala ngokoqobo akazange amnake omncane - kwakukhona umehluko omkhulu kakhulu ngeminyaka, wayengenandaba nengane. UVanya waphila impilo yakhe: abangane, izintombi, izifundo. Nokho, nalokhu kwamuva kwakungelula: akazange akhanye nasesikoleni, kodwa esikhungweni, lapho angena khona ngobunzima obukhulu, wakhululeka ngokuphelele. Ngemva konyaka wesibili waxoshwa, futhi waya ebuthweni nebutho lasekwindla. Futhi lapho ebuya, wathi ufuna ukuhlala ngokuhlukana nathi. Cha, mina nomyeni wami singabe sesisho ukuthi, ngicela, ndodana, uqashe indawo yokuhlala futhi uphile ngendlela othanda ngayo. Kodwa sanquma ukuthi umsebenzi wethu wabazali uwukunikeza izingane zethu izindlu. Sathengisa umuzi kanye nemoto endaweni, sanezela imali esasiyiqoqile futhi sathengela uVanya indlu enamagumbi amabili. Babonisana, njengoba kwakubonakala kithi ngaleso sikhathi, kunengqondo: umdala wanikezwa indawo yokuhlala, futhi omncane wayezothola indawo yethu. Sayenza ibe yimfihlo futhi ngokushesha sayibhala kabusha ku-Romka.

Ukuphila ngokuzimela u-Vanya akazange azuze: wayesebenza ngezikhathi ezithile, akakwazanga ukuthola lokho akuthandayo. Wabe esethintana nowesifazane omdala kunaye ngeminyaka eyishumi, owahlala naye nezingane zakhe ezimbili. Mina nomyeni wami asizange siphazamise: indodana yami inempilo yayo, ingumuntu omdala futhi kufanele izenzele zonke izinqumo, futhi ibe nesibopho kuzo. Kodwa inani leminyaka eyaphilwa alikhulumi ngokuvuthwa ngokomoya. U-Vanya wayengenawo umsebenzi ophelele, futhi umlingani wakhe waqala ukukhononda kuye ngokuthi akaholi lutho nokuthi wayengenayo into yokondla izingane. Yena, esikhundleni sokunquma ngeholo elizinzile, waqala ukuphuza ngosizi. Kancane kancane ekuqaleni, bese kuba nzima. Ngalesi sikhathi mina nomyeni wami sakhala i-alamu, kodwa, maye, salahlekelwa ekulweni notshwala - u-Vanka waba yisidakwa sasekhaya esivamile. Isancinza sagcina siphumile kuye, kwathi ngemuva kwesikhashana saphuza indlu yaso. Ngisanda kuyidayisa ngidakiwe ngesenti – ngasala ngingenakhaya.

Mina nomyeni wami sasishaqekile: kwenzeka kanjani, satshala imali yokugcina endlini yakhe, sangena ezikweletini, futhi walahlekelwa kalula kangaka? Kodwa asikwazanga ukuvumela indodana yethu enebhadi ukuba ingabi nakhaya, samyisa kithi. URomka, owayesesikoleni ngaleso sikhathi, wenqaba ukuhlala naye ekamelweni elilodwa. Ungamqonda: umfowethu omdala udakiwe, bese ecindezelekile, iyiphi injabulo ekhona eduze komuntu onjalo? Ngakho-ke, sahlalisa uVanka ekamelweni lethu.

Futhi akukhona ukuphila okwaqala, kodwa ukuphila esihogweni. Umdala, edakiwe, waqala ukubonisa ngobudlova ukunganeliseki ngempilo futhi wasola yonke into ... kimi nomyeni wami. Njengokuthi, bamnaka, benaka konke "indodana yokugcina". Sazama ukuphikisa nokubonisana naye, kodwa umuntu onomqondo oguquguqukayo akezwa noma yiziphi izingxabano. Nomfowabo bagcina sebeyizitha ngokuphelele. Umyeni, ompilo yakhe yayibuthakathaka phakathi neminyaka yokusebenza ekukhiqizeni okuyingozi, wagula nge-oncology ngenxa yokucindezeleka okungapheli futhi washa ezinyangeni eziyisithupha nje. Indodana endala iphawule ngokuhamba kukayise ngomoya yathi manje igumbi selikhululekile. Bengithi ngizocwila izinyembezi, pho ngizozuzani kuyena isidakwa? Nokho, kwakunolunye uvivinyo olukhulu olwaluphambi kwami.

U-Romka waphothula esikoleni esiphakeme, waya ekolishi futhi wazitholela indawo ehostela, nakuba wayengenalungelo, ngoba akayena owasemzini ohlukile. Ngaze ngajabula ngokujika okunjalo: kwakungabekezeleleki ukubuka izimpi zansuku zonke zamadodana. Kodwa-ke, uthunjana wami wakhumbula ngokusemthethweni ukuthi ifulethi lingelakhe, futhi wasikisela ukuthi mina nendodana yami endala siyishiye. U-Vanka, wathi, wayenefulethi elihlukile, kodwa kungani ngibi kakhulu? Ngakho-ke, zihlobo, phumani endlini yami - futhi kunjalo. Futhi ngibe nethuba lokuzwa lokhu endodaneni yethu encane esikhonzwe kakhulu, umfundi omuhle kakhulu, owawina ama-Olympiad esikole kanye nethemba lethu nokuzigqaja nomyeni wami!

Ngemva kwalokhu “kumangala” angizange ngilale izinsuku ezimbalwa. Wabe esebiza futhi wabuza: kulungile, ingabe uthukuthele uVanka, owabhala indlu yakhe, kodwa kufanele ngiye kuphi? Yikhaya lami kuphela leli! URomka athi kuye: “Phila okwamanje, into esemqoka kimina wukuxosha umfowethu endlini yami. Ngizosebenzisa lezi zindlu noma kunjalo kuphela uma kungekho muntu obhalisiwe kuzo. ” Yebo, yonke into icacile - lokho kusho ukuthi uma ngifa. Futhi, ngokusobala, ngokushesha kuba ngcono. Bengingacabanga kanjani ngalokhu lapho mina nomyeni wami sithengela indodana eyodwa indlu, futhi sibhala kabusha eyethu kwenye? Sakwenzani? Lesi simo esikhona manje besingeke sibe khona ukube amadodana aqale azi ukuthi kufanele azinakekelele izindlu zawo. Futhi umyeni wami, niyabo, ngabe uyaphila manje. Kodwa kungani kufanele ngiqhubeke ngiphila, angazi. “

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