Banendima ebalulekile ekuphileni kwethu. Futhi ngokuqinisekile bangayithuthukisa. Kodwa ingabe izilwane ezifuywayo zingayizuzisa impilo yethu?
Abanikazi bezilwane ezifuywayo bavakashela odokotela kancane, bahlushwa izifo zenhliziyo nemithambo yegazi kancane. Izilwane ezifuywayo zibuye zinciphise amazinga okucindezeleka futhi zikusize uzizwe uwedwa. Ukunamathela okujulile esikuzwa ngabo kukhulisa ukuzethemba futhi kunciphisa ingozi yokudangala.
Izilwane zisifundisa nokuzwelana nabanye futhi zingasenza sidume kakhulu. Ucwaningo lwango-2010 lwathola ukuthi abanikazi bezinja bakhuluma nabanye kaningi futhi isikhathi eside.
Ngo-2011, u-Allen McConnell, uprofesa wezengqondo eNyuvesi yaseMiami, wenza izifundo ezintathu, zonke eziqinisekisa ukuthi ubuhlobo nezilwane ezifuywayo bubaluleke kakhulu futhi buzuzisa abanikazi. Kwesinye sezifundo, kwaze kwaboniswa ukuthi isilwane esifuywayo siyakwazi ukujabulisa umnikazi ngokubi kunomngane wakhe omkhulu.
Abantu bakulungele ukubona izimfanelo zomuntu ezilwaneni ezihlukahlukene. Kodwa-ke, imfihlo yethonya lezilwane ezifuywayo ilele ku-psyche yethu.
Odokotela batusa ukuthi wonke umuntu omdala kufanele athole okungenani imizuzu engu-30 yokuvivinya umzimba ngosuku. Ucwaningo lwango-2009 lwathola ukuthi ukuhamba kwezinja kuthatha imizuzu engama-24 futhi kwakuthathwa kabili ngosuku. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuhamba okunjalo akusizi nje kuphela impilo, kodwa futhi ku-psyche. Uma ungakabi nayo inja, ungamema abantu obaziyo ukuthi bahambe nenja yabo.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi isilwane esifuywayo singaba nje inja noma ikati. “Ucwaningo lwethu luveze ukuthi izinzuzo zezempilo nempilo yengqondo azincikile ohlotsheni lwesilwane esifuywayo. Abantu bakulungele ukubona izimfanelo zomuntu ezinhlobonhlobo zezilwane - izinja, amakati, amahhashi, izinhlanzi, izibankwa, izimbuzi. Imfihlo yethonya lezilwane ezifuywayo kithi ilele kakhulu emiqondweni yethu, hhayi kuzo, ”kusho u-Allen McConnell.
Ezinye izizathu ezi-4 ezivuna izilwane ezifuywayo
1. Isilwane - isibambiso somndeni onobungane. Futhi umndeni ubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yengqondo. Ukudlala ngokuhlanganyela kanye nokuhamba nezilwane kukhuthaza kakhulu ukubumbana komndeni kunokuzilibazisa nje njengokubuka i-TV.
2. Izinzuzo zezempilo eziphindwe kabili. Uma kumayelana nenja, ke, njengoba sekushiwo kakade, umnikazi uzophoqeleka ukuba ahambe naye nsuku zonke, okuyinto enhle ohlelweni lwenhliziyo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukunamathela ngokomzwelo esilwaneni kuvikela ekucindezelekeni. Ocwaningweni lwango-2002, abanikazi bekati nezinja bakwazi kangcono ukuhlala bezolile ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa okucindezelayo (ukuxazulula izinkinga zezibalo ngesikhathi esilinganiselwe)—babenenhliziyo encane yokushaya kanye nomfutho wegazi ophansi.
3. Ukuxhumana nezilwane ezifuywayo kunomthelela ekukhuleni kwezingane - ukuba khona kwezilwane endlini kubasiza ukuba bafunde uzwela, kwandisa ukuzethemba, ngokungaqondile futhi kunomthelela ekuthuthukisweni ngokomzimba nangokwenhlalo.
4. Izilwane zikusindisa ekubeni nesizungu. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abadala. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukusebenzelana nezinja emakhaya asebekhulile kwenza abantu abadala babe nomphakathi, kunciphisa ukukhathazeka kanye nemizwa yesizungu.