Kungani uphupha uphuphunyelwa yisisu

Ukuphuphuma kwesisu kuyisenzakalo esibuhlungu kakhulu, futhi kuyethusa kakhulu ukubona lokhu ngisho nasephusheni. Kodwa ngokuvamile, umane axwayise ngephutha elingalungiswa, noma elifanekisela ukukhululeka enkingeni. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi kungani ukukhulelwa kwesisu kuphupha futhi ukhethe incazelo eqondile yephupho, udinga ukukhumbula imininingwane yokulala emininingwaneni emincane kakhulu. Uchwepheshe wethu Veronika Tyurina - isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo-umeluleki emkhakheni wobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, uzokutshela ukuthi iphupho elinjalo lisho ukuthini ngokombono we-psychology.

Ukuphuphuma kwesisu encwadini yephupho kaMiller

Ngeshwa, ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho kaMiller, ukukhulelwa kwesisu kusho ubuhlungu nokudumazeka kuphela. Akufanele ulindele okuthile okuhle ephusheni elinjalo, kodwa futhi awudingi ukugxila kokubi. Lowo owabona ukukhulelwa kwesisu ephusheni ulindele ukukhathazeka, ukukhungatheka, ukukhathazeka nokucasuka. Ukuphuphuma kwesisu esilwaneni esifuywayo noma kwesinye isilwane kufanekisela ukukhashelwa okungenzeka ngabangane, ngakho bhekisisa indawo okuzungezile. Ingabe kufanele ngibathembe bonke futhi ngibagcine beseduze kakhulu? Uma intombazane iphuphunyelwa yisisu, ilindelwe umngane omusha, ongeke ilethe injabulo. Uma owesifazane oshadile elahlekelwa ingane ephusheni, kusho ukuthi umshado wakhe uqhuma emgqeni, isehlukaniso sisondela. 

Ukuphuphuma kwesisu encwadini yephupho kaFreud

USigmund Freud wayeqinisekile ukuthi ukubona ukukhulelwa kwesisu ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthi udinga ukukhuluma kancane futhi usakaze ngawe kanye nempilo yakho yomuntu siqu. Indawo okuyo ingase iyeke ukukwethemba nokulalela umbono wakho. Uma ukukhulelwa kwesisu kwenzeka ephusheni ngaphandle kwegazi, khona-ke ungakwazi ukubhekana kalula nabangenangqondo. Uma umngane oseduze ephuphunyelwa yisisu, khona-ke imihlangano yesikhathi esidlule ingase ikulindele. Nokho, cabangela ukuthi uyazidinga yini.

Ukukhulelwa kwesisu encwadini yephupho likaVanga

U-Vanga wayekholelwa ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwesisu kungaba iphupho ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa umuntu oseduze: umyeni, izingane, abazali, abafowabo noma odadewabo. Ukuze uhlele kahle imicabango yakho, udinga ukuyeka ukucabanga kabi, ngoba akukho okuncike kuwe kule ndaba. Ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho likaVanga, iphupho ngokuphuphuma kwesisu libuye lihunyushwe njengokulahlekelwa ngenxa yesenzakalo esingathandeki, ngakho-ke ungathwali imali eningi, gcina imibhalo ebalulekile ezindaweni eziphephile, uqinisekise impahla yakho. Lalela iphupho elinjalo, kungaba yisixwayiso. Uma abesifazane abangashadile bebona ukukhulelwa kwesisu, kusho ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ngeke kusebenze ukuhlangabezana nothando lwakho. Kodwa khumbula, kule ndaba okuningi kuncike kuwe kuphela, vuleleka kulo mhlaba futhi unganamatheli encazelweni yaleli phupho.

Ukuphuphuma kwesisu encwadini yephupho likaLoff

Uma ephusheni uphuphunyelwe yisisu, futhi wawungafuni ngempela futhi manje uhlupheka kabuhlungu, khona-ke empilweni yangempela lokhu kusho ukuthi othile ufuna ukuphazamisa izinhlelo zakho. Uma umuntu ebona ukukhulelwa kwesisu ephusheni, khona-ke izinkinga zizomthinta. Uma udokotela ephupha ngokukhulelwa kwesisu, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi kunengozi enkulu yokwenza iphutha lezokwelapha, udinga ukuqaphela.

Ukukhulelwa kwesisu encwadini yephupho kaNostradamus

Kodwa uNostradamus wayekholelwa ukuthi lowo owayephupha ngokuphuphuma kwesisu wayenganelisekile ngesikhundla sakhe emphakathini. Izinkinga ezihlukahlukene zingenzeka ekuphileni. Isibonelo, iphrojekthi okade usebenza kuyo isikhathi eside futhi ubeke umphefumulo wakho kuyo ingahlukana, futhi hhayi ngenxa yakho nje. Izinhlelo zingavinjelwa izimo zokuphila nabantu. Ukuchuma nokuzinza kungathathelwa indawo isiphithiphithi, injabulo nokumomotheka ukudabuka nokukhathazeka. 

Ukukhulelwa kwesisu encwadini yephupho kaTsvetkov

UTsvetkov uphawula ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwesisu ephusheni akusabi kangako. Izinkinga ziyenzeka empilweni, kodwa iphupho elikhomba ukuthi uzozixazulula ngendlela elula, wehle negazi elincane. Ngendlela, lezi kungase kungabi njalo izinkinga, kodwa imisebenzi elula, njengamacala aqoqiwe, inani elikhulu lomsebenzi.

Encwadini Yephupho Yesimanje

Incwadi yesimanje yephupho ibonisa ukuthi ukuphuphuma kwesisu ephusheni kusho ukulahlekelwa. Kungcono ukuhlehlisa ukuthengiselana okukhulu, qaphela kakhulu obathandayo. Futhi, ngemva kwephupho elinjalo, akufanele ubeke imali yakho engozini - ungaboleki futhi ungatshali imali ezinkampanini / amasheya angathandeki. Iphupho elinjalo lingahunyushwa nangokuthi i-harbinger yezinkinga ezincane. Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ephupha, ayithwali incazelo engalungile, kodwa kusho kuphela ukuthi umama ozayo ukhathazeke kakhulu ngesikhundla sakhe nemicabango kanye nempilo yengane yakhe. Kungcono ukuthi acabange ngokuhle, ahambe kakhulu futhi abe nobuchule. Uma indoda yaphuphunyelwa yisisu, kusho ukuthi ayikakakulungeli ukuthwala umthwalo ngothile. Uma iphupho elinjalo libonwa owesifazane osevele enezingane, kufanelekile ukunaka kakhulu kubo, angabashiyi bengagadiwe, nokuqapha impilo yabo.

Isazi Sokuphawula

Isazi sethu UVeronika Tyurina - isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo-umeluleki emkhakheni wobudlelwane babantu, umqeqeshi, umelaphi wamandla uzokutshela ukuthi kungani ukukhulelwa kwesisu kuphupha ngokombono we-psychology:

"Ngokujwayelekile, iphupho elinjalo alikwazi ukubhekwa njengelibi, ngoba naphezu komyalezo omubi walo mcimbi, incazelo yalo ivame ukuthwala lezi zincazelo ezilandelayo:

• Uma uphuphunyelwa yisisu ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukungafuni kwakho ukwamukela izinguquko ezenzeka empilweni yakho, futhi ngaleyo ndlela ingqondo, njengokungathi, ikhulula ukucindezeleka kwangaphakathi ukuze uthole amandla futhi kamuva ulungele ukwamukela izinguquko ezilindelekile. wena;
• Uma umuntu ephupha ngokukhulelwa kwesisu, khona-ke lapha, njengesengezo esigabeni sangaphambilini, esibuye sisebenze kumadoda, kufanelekile ukwengeza ukungaqiniseki kwangaphakathi kanye nokungqubuzana okucacile kwangaphakathi komuntu. Kukhona okusobala ukuthi awukwamukeli kuwena futhi uzama ngawo wonke amandla akho ukususa lezi zibonakaliso;
• Uma ephusheni ubona ukuthi othile eduze kwakho uphuphunyelwa yisisu futhi ufuna ukusiza, khona-ke uhlushwa umuzwa wokungagcwaliseki kwakho, njengokungathi awuzange uqedele okuthile, ungase uvele endaweni ethile, kodwa ungazange. avele, futhi ungathanda ukuthi othile - ngisho noma kungewena - ukuthi akusebenzise;
• Uma ephusheni usaba ukuthi isisu senzeke eduze kwakho, ubona igazi nokwesaba kwalowo wesifazane, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukwesaba kuyakubamba - lokhu kuyiphupho mayelana nokuhlukumezeka okwenzeka esikhathini esidlule. Kube nesimo esithile lapho i-psyche yakho yasuswa khona noma yehlisa inani, futhi wawusenokwesaba ngaphakathi kokuthi ingase ikukhumbuze yona futhi, kodwa awukakakulungeli lokhu.