Lokho Abosozigidi Abakufundisa Izingane Zabo

Wonke umzali uyifunela okungcono kakhulu ingane yakhe. Omama nobaba bazama ukudlulisa okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, banikeze iseluleko ukuthi, ngokombono wabo, kuzosiza ingane yabo ethandekayo ukuba ifeze konke abakwaziyo. Kodwa awukwazi ukufundisa umuntu lokho ongakwazi ukukwenza ngokwakho, futhi abekho abantu abaningi abacebile bangempela phakathi kwethu. Osozigidi baseMelika abangu-1200 babelane ngezindlela zabo zokupheka ukuze baphumelele - labo, njengoba besho, bazenza, futhi abangazange bazuze ifa lemali eningi noma bawine ilotho. Abacwaningi baye bafingqa izimfihlo zabo futhi bahlanganisa amacebiso ayisikhombisa abantu abacebile abawanikeza izingane zabo.

1. Ufanelwe ukuceba

Ukuze wenze ingcebo ngokuqala "isiqalo esiphansi"? Abaningi bayaqiniseka ukuthi lokhu akunakwenzeka. Uma unesikole esihlonishwayo, inyuvesi, ukwesekwa kubazali bakho abasemva kwakho --ke kungenye indaba, khona-ke umsebenzi wakho uzokhuphukela entabeni cishe usuka embelekweni. Hhayi-ke, noma kufanele uzalwe uhlakaniphile. Osozigidi abaphumelele baqinisekisa ukuthi konke lokhu akudingekile, noma kukubi. Ngakho, isifundo sokuqala: ufanelwe ingcebo. Uma uhlinzeka ngomkhiqizo noma isevisi efunwayo, ngokuqinisekile uzoceba. Yiqiniso, lokhu kudinga ukusebenza emnothweni wemakethe yamahhala.

Imali ayiyona injabulo, satshelwa. Basho kanjalo ngepharadesi sthandwa naseqhugwaneni. Kodwa kunenjabulo eyengeziwe uma ungacabangi ngemali, futhi awuhlali eKhrushchev encane, kodwa endlini ethokomele. Inzuzo enkulu yengcebo inkululeko etholakala ngayo ukuze uphile impilo ngendlela oyifunayo. Uma ucebile, ungahlala noma yikuphi, wenze noma yini, futhi ube yinoma ubani ofisa ukufana naye. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba nemali kususa izinkathazo zezimali futhi kukuvumela ukuba ujabulele indlela oyikhethile yokuphila. Ngomqondo wethu waseRussia, leli akulona iqiniso elifakwe ngaphakathi ngokugcwele. Isikhathi eside kakhulu, kwakwamukelwa ukuthi ukujaha imali kuyihlazo.

3. Akekho umuntu okukweletayo

Futhi ngokuvamile, akekho umuntu okweleta noma ubani. Wena ngokwakho kufanele udale ikusasa lakho. Wonke umuntu uzalwa ezimeni ezahlukene, kunjalo. Kodwa wonke umuntu unamalungelo afanayo. Osozigidi bayeluleka: Fundisa izingane zakho ukuzimela nokuzethemba. Okuxakayo ukuthi lapho siziphatha ngokuzimela futhi sibonisa ukuthi asidingi usizo lwamuntu, kulapho abantu belangazelela khona ukusisiza. Futhi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziyaqinisekisa: abantu abathuthukile ukuzihlonipha baheha abanye abantu.

4. Yenza imali ngezinkinga zabanye abantu

"Umhlaba ufuna ucebe ngoba kunezinkinga eziningi kuwo," - icaphuna ucwaningo lwe-Huffington Post… Uma ufuna ukwenza imali, xazulula inkinga ethile ephakathi. Uma ufuna ukwenza imali eningi, xazulula inkinga enkulu. Lapho inkinga oyixazululayo inkulu, yilapho ucebe kakhulu. Sebenzisa amakhono akho ahlukile, amakhono, namandla ukuze uthole izixazululo zenkinga, futhi uzobe usendleleni eya engcebweni.

EMelika, yonke indawo ungathola izimpawu ezinamagama athi “Cabanga!” Futhi ngesizathu. Esikoleni, izingane zifundiswa ngokuqondile lokho okufanele zikucabange. Futhi usomabhizinisi ongase aphumelele kufanele azi ukuthi kufanele acabange kanjani. Izingane zakho zizothola amathani ezifundo ezinhle kakhulu kothisha abafundise kakhulu okungenzeka ukuthi abazi lutho mayelana nendlela yokuceba. Fundisa izingane zakho ukuthi zenzele ezazo iziphetho futhi zizulazule endleleni yazo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangaki abantu abagxeka izifiso zabo, bangabaze amakhono abo, futhi bahleke amathemba abo.

Izazi eziningi zokusebenza kwengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi kungcono ukuba abantu balindele okuncane ukuze bangakhungatheki uma behluleka. Bakholelwa ukuthi abantu bazizwa bejabule kakhulu uma bethola okuncane. Lena enye ifomula egxile kubathengi abaningi. Fundisa izingane ukuthi ziyeke ukwesaba futhi ziphile ezweni lamathuba namathuba angenzeka. Vumela abasesigabeni esimaphakathi bazinze ku-mediocrity ngenkathi ulwela izinkanyezi. Khumbula ukuthi abantu abaningi abaphumelele emhlabeni baye bahlekwa futhi bahlukunyezwa ngezikhathi zabo.

Njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, akuwona wonke umuntu ophumelelayo. Indlela eya endumisweni, engcebweni nakwezinye izinto ezijabulisayo inezithiyo, ukwehluleka, nokudumazeka. Imfihlo Yokusinda: Ungalilahli ithemba. Noma ngabe kwenzekani empilweni yakho, hlala ukholelwa kuwena nasemandleni akho okubhekana nanoma yibuphi ubunzima endleleni yakho yokuphila. Ungase ulahlekelwe abalandeli bakho, kodwa ungalokothi ulahlekelwe ukholo kuwe.