Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umhlaba we-virtual ungase ubonakale uphephile futhi ukhanga kangakanani, kulula kakhulu ukulahlekelwa ukuthintana neqiniso elikulo. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, uchwepheshe wezokwelapha ngokomzwelo-ngokomfanekiso u-Yulia Panfilova ukhuluma ngezingozi zokushiya ngokuphelele umhlaba wezokuxhumana nabantu nokuthi ungalahleki kanjani kuwo.
Izingosi zokuxhumana ziyisidingo sezwe lanamuhla, kodwa kukithi ukuthi sinqume ukuthi iyiphi indima abazoyidlala ekuphileni kwethu nokuthi izosetshenziswa kanjani ngempela: njengendlela yokuziveza, ukufeza isidingo sokuba yingxenye yesithakazelo. iqembu, ukuvunyelwa okungatholwanga empilweni, noma ukugwema iqiniso.
Iyini ingozi yokuhoxiswa okuphelele emhlabeni wezinkundla zokuxhumana kanye nesikhala esibonakalayo?
1. Umuntu uyisidalwa esihlalisanayo. Izinsiza ze-inthanethi azanele ukuthi zibe khona ngempumelelo emhlabeni. Ukukhulumisana kwangempela kuwumthombo wemizwa eyakhayo enamandla. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ingane isewusana ingasondeli kuye, engavamile ukuyinaka (njengoba ngokuvamile kwenzeka ezindlini zezintandane nakwezinye izikhungo zikahulumeni), izingane ziba zimbi kakhulu, zigule kakhulu, futhi kwezinye izimo zize zife.
2. Labo ukuxhumana ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kubaluleke kakhulu kunokuxhumana kwangempela, kunengozi enkulu yokuthola ukudangala. Uma kumuntu ukuya ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kuyindlela yokugwema iqiniso, khona-ke ngokushesha noma kamuva leli qiniso lizomfica. Kulokhu, kungase kudingeke ucabangele indlela yokuxhumana naye manje, futhi ungabalekeli.
3. Ukulahlekelwa amakhono okuxhumana avumelana nezimo. Ezweni lanamuhla, baziswa ngaphezu kwezinye izimfanelo, ukuthuthukiswa kwabo kusiza ukuphumelela emsebenzini, empilweni yomuntu siqu, ekwakheni ubuhlobo nabanye abantu. Ngokunciphisa isikhathi sokuxhumana kwangempela nabantu, ungalimaza kakhulu amakhono akho okuxhumana.
4. Uma wenza ukukhetha ngokuthanda indawo ebonakalayo, abantu obathandayo bangase bancishwe ukunaka kwakho. Futhi lokhu, nakho, kungaholela ekuwohlokeni kobudlelwano nabo futhi kwandise umuzwa wakho wesizungu. Ngeshwa, ngokuvamile asiboni ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthi abanye baxhumane nathi, futhi eqinisweni kwabaningi kungaphuthelwa ngempela.
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Ukuqonda kanjani ukuthi amanethiwekhi omphakathi abe yindima enkulu kakhulu empilweni yakho?
1. Uncamela izinkundla zokuxhumana kunokuxhumana kwangempela nabangane nabantu obajwayele.
2. Uchitha amahora angaphezu kwama-5 ngosuku kuzo.
3. Uzizwa ukhathazekile uma ungakawahloli wonke amakhasi ezingosini zakho zokuxhumana phakathi kwemizuzu engama-30.
Uma uphendule ngoyebo kuyo yonke imibuzo, khona-ke kungase kudingeke ucabangele ukuqala ukubuyela emhlabeni wangempela.
Nazi ezinye izivivinyo ukusiza kulokhu:
1. Izwa iqiniso. Ukwenza lokhu, susa zonke izinto eziphazamisayo, njengefoni, ithebhulethi noma isidlali, futhi ugxile kulokho okwenzekayo imizuzu embalwa. Yini oyizwayo? Iso lakho liwela phezu kwaliphi? Izwa okwenzeka eduze kwakho. Phinda lo msebenzi izikhathi eziningana ngosuku.
2. Funda ukuxhumana nomunye umuntu. Shaya izingcingo esikhundleni sokuthumela umbhalo. Lalelisisa ukuthi uthini omunye umuntu - ayikho into emnandi ekukhulumeni njengokwazi ukuthi uyalalelwa. Buza imibuzo, uveze umbono wakho futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uyaqaphela ukusabela komuntu oxoxa nawe. Buka izinguquko esimweni sakho ngesikhathi sokuxhumana.
3. Hlaziya ukuthi yiziphi izikhathi empilweni yakho owazifaka ngazo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kaningi futhi, mhlawumbe, wawuncike kuzo, futhi yiziphi izimo, ngokuphambene nalokho, isithakazelo empilweni yangempela kanye nokuxhumana kwangempela kwakusiza ukuthi ulahle kalula ukuxhumana okubonakalayo.
4. Gcina idayari yezinto ozibhekile bese ubhala kuyo ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ufuna ukuya engosini yokuxhumana nabantu. Ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye, bhala phansi ukuthi mangaki amahora owachithe ngosuku kulo msebenzi. Ngemva kwesikhathi esithile, ungakwazi ukuhlaziya ukuthi singakanani isikhathi osichitha ezingosini zokuxhumana masonto onke, inyanga, futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nonyaka ... Izinombolo zingashintsha okuthile empilweni yakho.