Ukuba ngumama kuyisifiso sabesifazane abaningi. Ukunikeza ukuphila kuyisenzakalo esiyingqopha-mlando esifanekisela isigaba esisha esibalulekile. Ukuze uphumelele, kufanele wazi ukuthi ungasinikela kanjani isikhathi sokuba nezingane zakho kanye nawe.

Ukuze ube ngumama kahle, kubalulekile ukukulungiselela kahle ukuba ngumama. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele uhloniphe izidingo zakho nezifiso zakho, futhi wazi ukuthi ungakhuluma kanjani ngokwesaba kwakho. Ukuba ngumama kuthatha isikhathi futhi akubona bonke abantu besifazane abazokwenza ngendlela efanayo. Abanye bazilungiselela ngenxa yemindeni yabo nabangane, abanye banquma ukwenza umsebenzi kubo.

Izikhathi zokukhulelwa zisiza owesifazane ukuba alungiselele ukufika komntwana. Ngale ndlela uyakwazi ukunakekela ingane yakhe ngisho engakazalwa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uyaqinisekiswa futhi ngenxa yalokho uzobe ezolile nsuku zonke.

Ukuze uphumelele endimeni kamama, ngezinye izikhathi kufanele ubeke izinqumo zakho. Ngokuqinisekile abazali kuyodingeka bavume, kodwa akufanele uncengwe izihlobo ukuba wenze okuphambene nezinkolelo zakho. Ngumama onqumayo ukuthi uyancelisa noma cha, nguye futhi ozokhetha ukuthi ingane izolala kuphi. Uma efuna ukuyigcina ekamelweni lakhe emasontweni ambalwa okuqala, lokho kuyisinqumo sokuhlonishwa.

Umama kuyodingeka futhi ahlele ukuphila kwakhe kwansuku zonke. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha ukusebenza futhi ngenxa yalokho agcine ingane yakhe noma azikhulule izinyanga ezimbalwa noma iminyaka ukuze ayikhulise, isinqumo sikuye. Kumele ihlonishwe.

Abesifazane abatshala imali njengomama bafezwa kakhulu uma le ndima ibajabulisa. Banomuzwa wokuthi balawula ukuphila kwabo futhi bakuhlela ngokuvumelana nezifiso nezinkolelo zekhaya. Vele ubaba kumele akwazi ukwenza izinqumo futhi aveze lokho akuzwayo! Ukungenelela kukababa nokubandakanyeka kwakhe kubalulekile, kumele athole indawo yakhe phakathi komndeni.

Ukuze uphumelele endimeni yakho njengomama, kufanele unikele isikhathi sokuba nezingane zakho. Lesi sikhathi akufanele singcoliswe izingcingo, ngomsebenzi noma izibopho ezengeziwe. Uma unezingane zakho, kufanele ukwazi ukunqamula kukho konke!

Nsuku zonke umama kufanele achithe isikhathi nengane yakhe uma kungenzeka. Lokhu kungenziwa ngenkathi ugeza, ulungiselela ukudla, ngaphambi kokulala, njll. Ngezimpelasonto, ukuhlela isikhathi semisebenzi nokuhamba nakho kunenzuzo ekuthuthukisweni kwawo wonke umuntu. Uma unezingane ezimbalwa, kufanele uhlukanisele ngamunye wabo isikhathi kodwa futhi nesikhathi ndawonye. Lezi zikhathi zokwabelana zisiza ingane ukuthi ikhule futhi ibe nokuzethemba okukhulu. Omama bona babona izingane zabo zikhula. Kuyinjabulo yangempela!

Ukuchuma njengomama nakho kudinga ukuthi ungazikhohlwa ungumuntu wesifazane. Ukuba ngumama kuwumsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele. Kodwa-ke, kufanele wazi ukuthi ungathatha kanjani isikhathi sakho. Kubalulekile omama ukuba benze okuthile ngaphandle kwekhaya, bazinike isikhathi sokuyobona abangane, ukuchitha isikhathi sothando nabashade nabo ngisho nokuchitha isikhathi bebodwa.

Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, singathembela kubaba omdingayo ukuba abe yedwa nezingane zakhe, kodwa futhi nomndeni futhi ikakhulukazi ogogo nomkhulu abavame ukwazisa ukunakekela inzalo yabo ejabulisayo.

Umama ophumelelayo uvame ukuba ngumama ohlelekile. Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa impilo yomndeni neyomsebenzi. Kubalulekile futhi ukwenza isikhathi sezingane, sombhangqwana kanye nesemisebenzi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi nsuku zonke noma ngamaholide, inhlangano enhle izohlangabezana nezidingo zesizwe sonke futhi ikhuthaze ukuthuthukiswa kokubili komama nezingane. Kuyadingeka futhi ukwabelana ngemisebenzi ehlukahlukene yasekhaya nomlingani ukuze wonke umuntu athole indawo yakhe. Umama akufanele angenele noma azinikele ngokweqile. Okubaluleke ngokufanayo indima kababa futhi akufanele ishaywe indiva ngumama ohileleke ngokweqile.

Ukukhula komama kubalulekile ukuze ingane ikhule futhi ithuthuke ngaphansi kwezimo ezingcono kakhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi phakathi nokukhulelwa, phakathi nezinyanga zokuqala zomntwana noma ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, omama kumelwe bazivikele futhi bahlele ukuphila kwabo ngendlela yokwanelisa izifiso zabo nezalabo ababazungezile.