I-Psychology

Ekhuluma ngenzuzo kanye nentengo yokuphumelela, ngokuvamile umuntu uzwa okuthile okuyingxenye ye-arithmetic: babala inzuzo, bacabangela ukulahlekelwa - bathola isilinganiso senzuzo. Lokhu akunjalo: intengo yempumelelo ingumqondo womuntu siqu ngokwedlulele, onenhlonipho, okhona othinta inani lempilo uqobo.

Okokuqala, izindleko zokuphumelela zihlanganisa intengo ngokushesha: isikhathi nomzamo owusebenzisa ngendlela eqondile. Futhi lapho usetha ibha ephezulu, intengo iyanda.

Uma owesifazane ephupha ukuthi inkosana yangempela ehhashi elimhlophe izofika kuye, leli phupho alinakwenzeka nhlobo. Kuyiqiniso impela, kuphela - kuyabiza. Ngo-1994, kwakunezikhulu zangempela ezingu-198, ezibhaliswe ngokusemthethweni. Kukhona amakhosana, ihhashi elimhlophe aliyona inkinga nakakhulu. Kunombuzo owodwa kuphela - uzoziletha esimweni, ingabe uzoba kangangokuthi inkosana izogxuma ikuhlangabeze?

Okwesibili, izindleko eziphezulu zempumelelo empilweni zihlanganisa ukulahlekelwa amanye amathuba okuphila. Yonke indondo inohlangothi oluphambene, futhi ngokukhetha okuthile, wenqaba enye. Ngokukhetha indlela eyodwa, weqa konke okunye: konke naphakade. Futhi uma ufunda lokhu ngokukhululeka kwengqondo, kusho kuphela ukuthi awukabi umuntu omkhulu, awenzi ibhizinisi elikhulu.

Lapho ungumuntu omncane, ukukhetha kwakho kuncane, kuba lula kuwe ukuthi: "Ngikhetha lokhu ... ngiyakwenqaba lokhu." Lapho unomthwalo wemfanelo owengeziwe, amehlo engeziwe ekubuka ngethemba kanye nokuphelelwa ithemba, kulapho kufanele uphimisele kaningi iqiniso elinzima: “Nginikeza ukuphila kulokhu … ngiyakubulala lokhu …”

Ngefomu elithambile kakhulu, kodwa yilona kanye lo mthwalo webhizinisi elikhulu mayelana nesiphetho sabantu ukuthi usomabhizinisi owaziwayo waseRussia uKakha Bendukidze, inhloko yokukhathazeka kwe-NIPEK, ukhuluma ngakho: izixuku zabantu abahlinzekiwe manje zizoba. emgwaqeni.

Lapho imidlalo yonkulunkulu iqala, abantu baphenduka izingxoxo ... Ingabe usukulungele, njengomuntu ophumelelayo, ukuba yinhloko yebhizinisi elikhulu?

Okwesithathu, kunenani lokukhokhela impumelelo enkulu empilweni. izinguquko ezinkulu zobuntu uba ngohlukile futhi uzilahlekele. Uma ungena ebhizinisini ngokungathi sína, ukusabela okuvamile kwabajwayelene nabo kanye nabantu abaseduze ukuthi: “Usuqine ngandlela thize.” Futhi kuyiqiniso. Cishe akunakugwenywa: uma uzibekela imigomo, uba nolaka. Ukuba nolaka akukuhle futhi akukubi, kuyindlela ehlukile yokuba khona, okungukuthi umnyakazo osebenzayo nonenjongo obheke emgomweni. Uma ungangenanga nje ebhizinisini, kodwa wangena ebhizinisini elikhulu, kanye nosuku lokusebenza olungajwayelekile, imithwalo nengcindezi, ukukhathala nokucasuka kuyafika.

Imali idala ukusola kwabantu, kuba nzima ukukholelwa ebunganeni obungenantshisekelo. Akukona wena kuphela oguqukayo, umhlaba okuzungezile nawo uyashintsha. Yebo, izinto eziningi ezintsha nezinhle ziyeza, kodwa futhi kuningi okulahlekile: njengomthetho, abangane bakudala bakushiya ...

Kunoma yikuphi, cabangela amaphuzu amabili angokwengqondo kuphela:

  • "Ucezu olulahlekile luhlala lumnandi kakhulu" umphumela. Noma ngabe ukukhetha kwakho kukhulu kangakanani, intengo yenani lazo zonke ezinye izinketho ihlala nkulu. Ngokuvumelana nalokho, kuhlale kunethuba lokuzisola ngokukhetha kwakho. Uzokwenza?
  • Umphumela othi "Pink Odlule". Lapho umuntu ebheka okhethiwe, yena, eqinisweni, ubona kokubili ama-pluses nama-minuses. Futhi uma abantu bebheka inketho elahlekile, ngokuvamile babona ama-pluses kuphela endaweni engenakufinyeleleka kakade. Futhi okubi akusabonakali kubo...

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