Okuqukethwe
Kukholakala ukuthi abesifazane bazwela kakhulu. Ingabe ngempela? Le nkolelo-mbono mayelana nocansi ixoxwa ngochwepheshe bethu, izazi zocansi u-Alain Eril kanye no-Mireille Bonyerbal.
U-Alain Eril, isazi se-psychoanalyst, isazi sezocansi:
Lo mbono cishe usekelwe emasikweni ethu, kodwa futhi unezizathu ze-neurophysiological. Kungabonakala, ngokwesibonelo, ukuthi umoya womoya, ozwakala ngesikhumba, ubonwa ngabesifazane ngokuthanda kakhulu kunamadoda. Kulokhu singaphetha ngokuthi ama-receptors esikhumba azwela kakhulu kwabesifazane.
Lesi sici singachazwa ngokuziphendukela kwemvelo komuntu: indoda yathuthukiswa ngomsebenzi womzimba, lapho isikhumba sakhe saba lukhuni futhi sahlaselwa, okungenzeka kwaholela ekulahlekelweni kokuzwela. Siyaye siqaphele ukuthi amadoda awathandi ukuthintwa - kuvele ukuthi ubulili babo buphelele esithweni sangasese.
Kodwa lapho amadoda engesabi ukukhombisa uhlangothi lwabesifazane lwemvelo yabo, bathola izindawo eziningi ze-erogenous ngaphezu kwezitho zangasese. Bathola lokho okusobala kwabesifazane—ukuthi umzimba wabo wonke uyisitho sezinzwa futhi ungahlanganyela ngokuphumelelayo ebuhlotsheni bobulili.
U-Mireille Bonierbal, udokotela wezifo zengqondo, udokotela wezocansi:
Ekusabalalisweni kwezindawo ze-erogenous, izici ze-neuroanatomical zidlala indima ebalulekile, ngoba kwabesilisa nabesifazane igazi lisakazwa ngokuhlukile kuwo wonke umzimba ngesikhathi sokuvuka. Kwabesilisa, ukugijima kwegazi kwenzeka ikakhulukazi esithweni sangasese, kanti kwabesifazane igazi ligijimela ezingxenyeni ezahlukene zomzimba.
Izindawo ze-erogenous zowesilisa zigxile kakhulu endaweni yangasese, ngezinye izikhathi endaweni yesifuba.
Izindawo ze-erogenous zowesilisa zigxile kakhulu endaweni yangasese, ngezinye izikhathi endaweni yesifuba. Lokhu kwenzeka ngoba umfana omncane uba nemizwa evusa inkanuko kuphela ngokuphathelene nesitho sakhe sobulili, njengoba ekhona futhi engathintwa.
Intombazanyana ayisiboni isitho sayo sangasese; lapho ezithinta ngokuvamile uthethiswa ngakho. Ngakho, engenalwazi ngabo, kunalokho ujatshuliswa ukubukeka okuphonswa emzimbeni wakhe, esifubeni, izinwele, ezinqeni, emilenzeni. Isitho sakhe socansi siwumzimba wakhe wonke, kusukela ezinyaweni zakhe kuya ezinweleni zakhe.