Laba bashadikazi bathwale kanzima iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili bengabatholi abantwana. Kwaba yize kwaze kwaba yilapho bezimisele ngokuzicabangela bona.
Odokotela baqala ukukhuluma ngokungabi nabantwana lapho umbhangqwana ungakwazi ukukhulelwa ngemva konyaka wemizamo esebenzayo. U-Emra oneminyaka engu-39 ubudala kanye nomyeni wakhe oneminyaka engu-39 ubudala u-Avni babefuna ngempela umndeni omkhulu ngempela: base benezingane ezimbili kakade, kodwa babefuna okungenani eyodwa ngaphezulu. Kodwa kwaphela iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili bengaphumeleli. Laba bashadikazi baphelelwa yithemba. Futhi-ke kwacaca: kufanele sizithathele thina.
Ingane yokuqala ka-Emra no-Avni yakhulelwa kusetshenziswa i-IVF. Okwesibili, intombazane yakwazi ukukhulelwa ngokwayo. Bese ... Khona-ke bobabili bakhuluphala ngokushesha kangangokuthi kwaphazamisa ukuzala kwabo.
“Siphuma emndenini waseCyprus, ukudla kwethu kuyingxenye ebalulekile yesiko lethu. Sobabili sithanda i-pasta, izitsha zamazambane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sasibambisene kangangokuthi asizange sinake ukuthi sasikhuluphala nhlobo. Sasizizwa sikhululekile futhi sikhululekile omunye nomunye, ”kusho u-Emra.
Ngakho-ke lo mbhangqwana wadla ubukhulu obumangalisayo: u-Avni walinganisa amakhilogremu angu-161, u-Emra - 113. Ngaphezu kwalokho, le ntombazane yatholakala ukuthi ine-polycystic ovary syndrome, ngenxa yokuthi yakhula ngokukhuluphala nakakhulu, futhi amandla okukhulelwa nawo ayancipha ngokushesha. Kwabe sekufika inguquko: U-Avni walaliswa esibhedlela enezinkinga zokuphefumula. Odokotela, sebesihlolile isiguli esikhuluphele, bakhipha isinqumo: wayesengcupheni yohlobo lwesifo sikashukela sohlobo II. Udinga ukudla, udinga impilo enempilo.
“Sibone ukuthi kumele siguqule yonke into ngokushesha. Ngangesaba u-Avni. Naye wayesaba, ngoba isifo sikashukela sibi kakhulu, ”kusho u-Emra engxoxweni naye .
Umbhangqwana wathatha impilo ndawonye. Kwadingeka bahlukane nokudla abakuthandayo okunama-carbohydrate futhi babhalisele indawo yokuzivocavoca. Yebo, isisindo saqala ukuhamba. Ngemva konyaka, u-Emra wehla cishe ngamakhilogremu angu-40 lapho umqeqeshi wakhe eqala ukubona ukuthi intombazane ngandlela-thile yayibukeka ikhathele kakhulu, ingenangqondo.
“Wangibuza ukuthi kwenzekeni. Ngathi ngibambezelekile, kodwa esimweni sami kujwayelekile, - kusho u-Emra. “Kodwa umqeqeshi wagcizelela ukuthi ngithenge ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa.”
Ngaleso sikhathi, lo mbhangqwana waqala ukucabanga ngomunye umjikelezo we-IVF. Futhi cishe akekho ongacabanga ukushaqeka kwentombazane lapho ibona amapheshana amathathu esivivinyweni - yakhulelwa ngokwemvelo! Ngendlela, ngaleso sikhathi umyeni wakhe wayeselahlekelwe cishe ingxenye yesisindo sakhe - wehla ngo-80 kilos. Futhi lokhu, nakho, bekungeke kudlale indima.
Ngemva kwesikhathi esibekiwe, u-Emra wabeletha intombazane okuthiwa uSerena. Futhi ngemva kwezinyanga ezintathu nje, waphinde wakhulelwa! Kuvele ukuthi ubungadingi ukuzihlukumeza nge-IVF ukuze uqale umndeni wamaphupho – bekumele wehlise isisindo.
Manje lo mbhangqwana ujabule ngokuphelele: ukhulisa amantombazane amathathu nomfana.
“Sisezulwini lesikhombisa nje. Namanje angikholwa ukuthi ngikwazile ukukhulelwa ngizibelethe, futhi ngokushesha okungaka! ” – U-Emra uyamamatheka.
Ukudla kuka-Emra no-Avni kuze kube…
Ukudla kwasekuseni – okusanhlamvu nobisi noma okuthosiwe
Dinner – amasemishi, okuthosiwe, ushokoledi neyogathi
Dinner – isiteki, ibhantshi amazambane abhakwe noshizi, ubhontshisi kanye nesaladi
ukudla okulula – chocolate bars kanye chips
… Nangemva kwalokho
Ukudla kwasekuseni – amaqanda aphekwe namatamatisi
Dinner – isaladi yenkukhu
Dinner – inhlanzi enemifino kanye nobhatata
ukudla okulula – izithelo, ukhukhamba noma izaqathi izinti