Izincwadi Ezinhle Kakhulu Zengqondo Eziguqule Impilo Yakho

Amazwi anamandla amangalisayo. Igama lingakhuthaza, linikeze injabulo, kodwa futhi lingenza umuntu angazethembi ngokuphelele noma alahlekelwe injongo yakhe ekuphileni. Incwadi eyodwa nje ingaba yileso sibani esiholela empumelelweni nasenjabulweni. Siletha ekunakekeleni kwabafundi izincwadi ezingcono kakhulu ze-psychology ezaguqula ukuphila kwaba nzima - ake sikhulume namuhla ngezincwadi zemibhalo ezikhuthaza kakhulu.

10 Umhlaba ohlakaniphile. Ungaphila kanjani ngaphandle kokukhathazeka okungadingekile

Ivula uhlu lwethu lwezincwadi ezihamba phambili ze-psychology “Umhlaba ohlakaniphile. Indlela yokuphila ngaphandle kokukhathazeka okungadingekile "Alexander Sviyash. Le ncwadi, ebhalwe ngendlela ehlekisayo, izokufundisa ukuthatha umhlaba kalula, uyeke ukwenza izimfuno ngokweqile kuwe nakwabanye futhi wamukele abantu njengoba benjalo, ngaphandle kokulwela ukubenza kabusha. Incwadi ikusiza ukuthi uziqonde, uzuze ukuqonda okwenzekayo empilweni yakho futhi uguqule umbono wakho ngezinto eziningi. Umsebenzi kaSviyash ubalulekile ngoba indlela yombhali ihlolwe ngempumelelo kumasemina amaningi nokuqeqeshwa. Le ncwadi iqukethe izivivinyo eziningi eziklanyelwe ukusiza umfundi athole ukuthula kwengqondo.

9. I-Psychology yethonya

Enye yezincwadi ezinhle kakhulu ezishintsha impilo ye-psychology I-Psychology of Influence nguRobert Cialdini. Ibhekwa njengencwadi ebaluleke kakhulu ku-psychology yezenhlalakahle futhi isiphinde yanyatheliswa izikhathi ezinhlanu, ekhuluma ngokuthandwa okukhulu komsebenzi kaCaldini. Nakuba le ncwadi ibhalwe ngolimi olulula, isekelwe ocwaningweni olunzulu lwesayensi.

Kusukela encwadini kaCaldini, umfundi uzofunda mayelana namasu ayisisekelo okukhwabanisa, izindlela zokuthonya umuntu nokuthi angamelana kanjani nazo. "I-Psychology of Influence" ayibalulekile kuphela kulabo, ngomsebenzi, okufanele bakwazi ukukholisa abantu, kodwa nabafundi abavamile. Incwadi kaChildini ingasetshenziswa njengohlobo lwesikhali sokuzivikela ngempumelelo kuma-manipulators.

8. Indlela yokuyeka ukukhathazeka futhi uqale ukuphila

Ungakuyeka Kanjani Ukukhathazeka Futhi Uqale Ukuphila NgoDale Carnegie - enye yezincwadi ezidume kakhulu nezihamba phambili zesayensi yezengqondo ezingashintsha izimpilo. Lena inguqulo yakudala yemibhalo yezengqondo.

Izwe lanamuhla ligcwele ukucindezeleka, futhi isimo siya ngokuba sibi minyaka yonke. Ungasishintsha kanjani isimo sakho sengqondo ebunzimeni bempilo, uyeke ukukhathazeka ngezinto eziwubala, sungula ukuxhumana nabanye - yilokhu okufundiswa yile ncwadi. Isekelwe ezindabeni zangempela zabantu futhi inikeza izeluleko eziningi. UCarnegie usebenzisa izimo ezenzeke kubangane bakhe, izihlobo kanye nabantu abajwayele njengezibonelo.

7. Ukuthethelela Okukhulu

Iqhubeka nohlu lwezincwadi ezihamba phambili ezishintsha impilo ye-psychology, "Ukuthethelela Okukhulu" uColin Tipping. Lo msebenzi ungalulekwa ukuthi ufunde kuwo wonke umuntu, ngoba empilweni yawo wonke umuntu kwakukhona izinkinga ngomsebenzi, ubudlelwano, impilo kanye nokuzethemba. I-"Radical Forgiveness" yincwadi yokuzijwayeza esiza ekuguquleni izimpilo ngokuphelele. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ibuphi ubunzima okufanele udlule kubo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bunzima kangakanani ubuhlobo, ungakwazi ukukhulula umthwalo wesikhathi esidlule futhi uphile ngokuvumelana nawe.

6. Ukukhohlisa ingqondo

"Ukuphathwa Kwengqondo" nguSergei Kara-Murza - Enye incwadi enhle nge-psychology engashintsha izimpilo. Ifakiwe kukharikhulamu yezifundo zesayensi yezokuhlalisana kwabantu, kodwa iphinde ibe nentshisekelo kuhlu olubanzi lwabafundi.

Ukuze aqonde ukuphila kwakhe, umuntu kumelwe azi ngezindlela nezindlela zokuphatha ukwazi. Ubani olawula ukwazi komphakathi futhi kanjani, kungani lokhu kwenziwa futhi kuzoholela emiphi imiphumela? Umbhali uthemba ukuthi umfundi uzokwenza ukukhetha okufanele, okunquma ukuhlelwa kwempilo yakhe yesikhathi esizayo.

5. Umkhuba owodwa ngesonto

Iqhubeka nohlu lwezincwadi ezihamba phambili ezishintsha impilo ye-psychology, "Umkhuba Owodwa Ngeviki" nguBrett Blumenthal.

Umbono wombhali ulula – izinguquko empilweni ziqala ngezinyathelo ezincane kanye nezinguquko ezincane. Uma uthatha isinyathelo esincane nsuku zonke esingadingi umzamo omkhulu nesikhathi esiningi, ungafinyelela imiphumela emangalisayo ngonyaka. Okubalulekile lapha ukuthi ungakuyeki lokho osuqalile futhi ungavilaphi. Akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi noma olungenangqondo - izinguquko ezincane ezingu-52 ekuphileni okuhloswe ngazo ukuthuthukisa ukumelana nokucindezeleka, ukusebenza kanye nenkumbulo. Ekugcineni, umuntu ubeka ukuphila kwakhe ngokuhlelekile futhi ujabulele ukugcwala kokuphila nenjabulo. Konke kuyenzeka futhi kuyafezeka. Okubalulekile wukudlula lezi zinyathelo ezingama-52.

4. Impilo nokufa

Enye yezincwadi ezinhle kakhulu nezingajwayelekile ku-psychology engashintsha izimpilo Ukuphila Nokufa ngu-Osho. Izinkinga eziningi zabantu zihlotshaniswa nokwesaba ukufa. Sikhetha ukungakhulumi ngalesi sihloko, siyasidlula, kodwa wonke umuntu uye wacabanga ngokufa izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa. Ukuqonda ukungagwemeki kokufa nokukwamukela kwenza umuntu akhululeke.

Yilokhu okuchazwe encwadini yesazi sefilosofi esidumile saseNdiya uBhagwan Shree Rajneesh. Iwuchungechunge lwezinkulumo zomholi womoya mayelana nokuphila nokufa.

3. Imidlalo Abantu Abayidlalayo. Abantu abadlala imidlalo

Izincwadi ze-psychology ezishintsha impilo zihlanganisa umdali wokuhlaziya okwenziwayo U-Eric Byrne Games abantu badlala. Abantu abadlala imidlalo”.

Incwadi yaba edayiswa kakhulu futhi isiphinde yanyatheliswa izikhathi eziningi. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Eric Berne sakha uhlelo olukhulula umuntu emthelela wemibhalo enquma ukuphila kwakhe. UBern ukholelwa ukuthi cishe bonke abantu badlala imidlalo emndenini nasebhizinisini futhi bathola "ukuwina" ngokomzwelo kubo. Encwadini yakhe, uchaza ngokuhlakanipha imidlalo engaphezu kwekhulu abantu abadonswa kuyo futhi unikeza "imidlalo yokulwa nemidlalo" ezosiza ukuphuma kunoma yimuphi umdlalo obekiwe, uma umuntu efisa. Ngokusho kombhali, imidlalo enjalo ihlanekezela futhi ibhubhise ubudlelwano babantu. Ngemva kokufunda incwadi yakhe, wonke umuntu uzokwazi ukuqonda ukuthi ungumhlanganyeli wemidlalo futhi afunde indlela yokuphuma kuyo.

2. Ithi yebo empilweni!

Enye yezincwadi ezinhle kakhulu ezikhuluma ngokushintsha impilo ye-psychology - “Yithi yebo ekuphileni!” UViktor Frankl. Umbhali wayo udlule emakamu okuhlushwa amaNazi futhi uyazi ukuthi kufanele aziphathe kanjani ezimweni ezibonakala zingenathemba, ukuthi ungahlala kanjani uyindoda ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu futhi uthole amandla okumelana naphezu kwakho konke. Incwadi kaViktor Frankl ishiya umbono ojulile futhi ingasiza abantu abaphelelwe ithemba noma abanganaki. Ikhomba izindinganiso zeqiniso zobuntu futhi ifundise ukuqonda ukuthi impilo inikezwa umuntu ngesizathu.

1. Ukudluliswa kweqiniso

Izincwadi ze-psychology ezishintsha impilo zihlanganisa "Ukudluliswa kweqiniso» Vadima Zelanda. Ufundisani? Ukuphathwa kwempilo eqaphelayo, ukucabanga okuhle, ukuba nenjongo - lokhu kufundiswa indlela yokuguqula izinto engokoqobo eyakhiwe umlobi. Le ncwadi iqukethe izibonelo eziningi eziqondile zendlela yokwenza ukuphila kwakho kube nenjongo futhi unganqotshwa amathonya angaphandle.