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Abazali: Uqhamuke kanjani nomqondo wokuba ubaba wekhaya?

USamuweli: Ngangisenza unyaka wesithathu ngenza izifundo zobudokotela lapho uLéa, umkami, ekhulelwa. Umsebenzi wobudokotela wangikhanga, kodwa izifundo nesimiso sokuqeqeshelwa umsebenzi kwakungangifanele neze. Ukumenyezelwa kwalokhu kukhulelwa kwasheshisa isinqumo sami futhi kwachaza kabusha umbono wami. Ngakuqonda kangcono okwakubaluleke kakhulu, futhi lapho uGaspard ezalwa, into eza kuqala kimi kwakuwukumnaka ngokukhethekile.

Ucabanga ukuthi siyini isithombe sikababa ohlala ekhaya namuhla?

Kusekubi impela, akuqondwa kahle kunaleyo kamama ohlezi ekhaya. Ayiyenzi imali, ngakho kubantu abaningi, akuwona umsebenzi… Kwesinye isikhathi ngiyaphikisana nesinqumo sami lapho ngibhekene nokugxekwa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Kuyenzeka futhi ngingagxili kukho. Ngiyabona ukuthi kuwukunethezeka kwangempela ukukwazi ukwenza lokhu kukhetha, ukuthatha lesi sikhathi.

Ukutholaphi ukuqashelwa nsuku zonke?

Ikakhulukazi angilindele Gaspard! Uma silindele ukubonga enganeni, singamenza azizwe enecala, azithole ebambekile, edumazekile kulokho ayekulindele. Umvuzo yingane uqobo, lokho ezokwazi “ukubuyela” emphakathini ngoba siyobe senze konke okusemandleni ukumsiza ukuthi azimele, akhululeke, akwazi ukuxhumana nawo. abanye ngenhlonipho, ukuba nozwelo...

Ungabuchaza kanjani ubudlelwano bobaba nendodana yakho?

Ayiphelele, kepha sinobudlelwano obuhle kakhulu, ukusondelana okuningi, ukuhambisana. Siqonda ngokushesha imizwa yomunye, ngamunye wethu uzwa amandla ethu. Lokhu ngokungangabazeki yilokho okubizwa ngokuthi isazela sikababa, kahle-ke ngincamela ukusho umzwelo wemvelo wabazali.

Zinjani izinsuku zakho?

Ishejuli yasungulwa ngokwemvelo. UGaspard uvuka ngabo-8 ekuseni Sobathathu sidla ukudla kwasekuseni, sidinga isikhathi esincane sokuthula ngomculo opholile. Lapho u-Léa eya emsebenzini, senza umsebenzi wobuciko, ukwakha, ukudweba, ipulasitiki, noma ukuhambahamba ngezinyawo ukuya emakethe. Khona-ke ngemva kokudla kanye nesimo sezulu esizolile, siya epaki, noma senza uhambo lokuhamba ngezinyawo, noma ukuvakasha okwengeziwe kwamasiko nabanye abazali nezingane zabo noma sidlala endlini, engadini, senza amaqhugwane. Khona-ke, iseshini encane yezemidlalo nami, ukugeza nokudla. Ngu-Léa ofunda indaba, kodwa kimina u-Gaspard ulala ngabo-20 ebusuku.

Ingabe upheka noGaspard?

Yebo, izikhathi eziningana ngosuku. Ume embhoshongweni wakhe omncane wokubheka, abambe amakhala, adle, asike ... Izinyo lakhe elimnandi ushokoledi, ikakhulukazi i-ganache yamaphaya ... Sithanda nokwenza ama-pizza, amapanikuku e-frangipane. Ngaze ngabhala kanye nencwadi yokupheka ebizwa ngokuthi “Ekhishini nobaba”!

Akekho okusizayo?

Sinomsebenzi wasendlini uhhafu wosuku ngesonto. Ngakolunye uhlangothi elondolo, uyangisiza kakhulu, unendawo yakhe yokubeka izingubo ezincane! Futhi ngonyaka odlule, umzanyana ubelokhu efika ekhaya ngezikhathi zantambama ezimbili ngesonto. Futhi u-Léa uthatha izintambo kusihlwa nangezimpelasonto.

Ingabe zikhona izikhathi ezinzima?

Yebo, ngezinye izikhathi ngikhathele, ngidinga ukuzola. Yize u-Gaspard esenawo amandla okusala, ikakhulukazi ngezikhathi zokuboshwa. Kulezi zikhathi, ngenza konke ukuze sixhumane kahle, singamemezeli, siphakamise ukuthi aye ekamelweni lakhe futhi ashaye ama-djembes athile!

Isiphi iseluleko onaso kulabo abangafuni ukuba ubaba wekhaya?

Kulabo abathanda imfundo yasekhaya, ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kuhle. Kodwa ungaziphoqeleli, kungaba yingozi kuwo wonke umuntu. Uma sinomuzwa ojulile wokuthi lesi simo sizosifanela, kufanele sizethembe. Asinazo izibonelo ezinhle futhi imikhuba eminingi yomphakathi iphikisana nalo mzwelo. Ungaphinda ube umzali ohlala ekhaya isikhathi esithile. Mina ngokwami, kusukela ngoSepthemba (uGaspard uzoya esikoleni), ngiqala iphrojekthi, yisinqumo engisithatha ngomoya ophansi.