Serendipity: kanjani ukuheha inhlanhla?

Abanye bakholelwa enhlanhleni futhi balandela isimiso esiyinkimbinkimbi semithetho nemikhuba ukuze bayihehe futhi bayigcine. Omunye, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukholelwa kuphela emiphumeleni yemizamo yokuqaphela, futhi ubheka inhlanhla njengenkolelo-ze. Kodwa kukhona futhi indlela yesithathu. Abasekeli bayo bakholelwa ukuthi inhlanhla ayikho njengamandla azimele, ahlukene nathi. Iphuzu likithi: lapho sicabanga ngamabomu ngento, yonke into ehambisana nemicabango yethu, ngokwayo iwela emkhakheni wethu wombono. Umqondo wokuzola usekelwe kulokhu.

Igama ngokwalo laqanjwa ngekhulu lesi-XNUMX nguHorace Walpool. "Wayisebenzisela ukuchaza ubuciko bokuthola izinto ezizondla ngokwabo," kuchaza uSylvie Satellan, usosayensi wamasiko nomlobi we-Serendipity - From Fairy Tale to Concept. Leli gama livela enganekwaneni ethi “Izikhulu Ezithathu ZaseSerendip,” lapho abazalwane abathathu bakwazi ukuchaza ngokunembile izimpawu zelakamela elilahlekile emkhondo omncane wonyawo ngenxa yokuqonda kwabo.”

Umazi kanjani onenhlanhla

Sonke siye saba nezimo ekuphileni kwethu lapho inhlanhla iphenduka isibheke. Kodwa singasho yini ukuthi inhlanhla ithanda abanye bethu ngaphezu kwabanye? U-Eric Tieri, umlobi we-Little Book of Luck uthi: “Ucwaningo olwenziwa yi-University of Hertfordshire e-UK lwaqokomisa izici eziwuphawu lwalabo “banenhlanhla,” kusho u-Eric Tieri, umlobi wencwadi ethi The Little Book of Luck.

Nakhu okwenza laba bantu bahluke:

• Bajwayele ukwamukela okwenzeka kubo njengokufunda futhi babone abantu nemicimbi njengamathuba entuthuko.

• Balalela intuition yabo futhi benze ngaphandle kokulibala.

• Banethemba lokuhle futhi abalokothi bakuyeke abakuqalayo, ngisho noma amathuba okuphumelela emancane.

• Bangakwazi ukuguquguquka futhi bafunde emaphutheni abo.

5 Izihluthulelo Zokuzonda

Yisho inhloso yakho

Ukuze umise i-radar yangaphakathi, udinga ukuzibekela umgomo ocacile noma ugxile esifisweni esithile: thola indlela yakho, hlangana nomuntu "wakho", thola umsebenzi omusha ... ulwazi olulungile, sizoqala ukuqaphela ukuthi abantu abalungile nezinketho ziseduze. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungazivali kukho konke "okungabalulekile": ngezinye izikhathi imibono engcono kakhulu ivela "kumnyango ongemuva."

Vula izinto ezintsha

Ukuze ubone amathuba amahle, udinga ukugcina ingqondo yakho ivulekile. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga njalo ukuziphusha ngaphandle kwendilinga evamile yemikhuba nemibono, ubuze izinkolelo ezisikhawulelayo. Isibonelo, uma ubhekene nenkinga, ungesabi ukubuyela emuva, yibuke kwelinye icala, ukuze wandise insimu yamathuba. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuze uphume kule mpi, udinga ukubeka isimo esimweni esihlukile futhi uqaphele imingcele yamandla akho phezu kwayo.

Themba intuition yakho

Sizama ukuvimbela intuition egameni lokwenza ngokunengqondo. Lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi siphuthelwa ulwazi olubalulekile futhi asiyiboni imilayezo efihliwe. Ukubuyisela ukuxhumana ne-intuition kusho ukwamukela umlingo osizungezile, ukubona okungavamile ngaphakathi kokujwayelekile. Prakthiza ukuzindla okucacile kwengqondo - kukusiza ukuthi uvumelane nemizwa yakho futhi ucije imibono yakho.

Ungaweli ku-fatalism

Kunesisho sakudala saseJapane esithi akusizi ukucibishela umcibisholo ngaphandle kwethagethi, kodwa futhi akuhlakaniphile ukusebenzisa yonke imicibisholo endaweni eyodwa. Uma sehluleka, sizivalela ithuba elilodwa vo. Kodwa uma singawalondolozi amandla ethu futhi singabheki ngezikhathi ezithile, ukwehluleka kungasenza buthaka futhi kusiphuce intando.

Ungabeki inhlanhla

Ngisho noma singakwazi ukubikezela ukuthi ithuba lethu lizofika nini, singakwazi ukudala izimo zokuthi livele. Zidedele, wamukele okwenzeka kuwe, phila esikhathini samanje, ulindele isimangaliso. Esikhundleni sokuphikisa, ukuziphoqa noma ukugxila kokuthile, bheka umhlaba ngamehlo avulekile futhi uzizwe.