Okuqukethwe
"Yehlisa yonke into futhi ungayi ndawo" kuyiphupho elivamile labasebenzi abakhathele ukuhlupheka isikhathi esengeziwe noma iqembu elinobuthi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mbono ukhuthazwa ngenkuthalo esikweni elidumile lokuthi kuphela "ngokushaya umnyango" umuntu angakhululeka - ngakho-ke ajabule. Kodwa ingabe kuwufanele ngempela ukuvumela umfutho?
Ekugcineni uLwesihlanu! Ingabe uya emsebenzini usesimweni esibi, bese ungakwazi ukulinda kuze kuhlwe? Ukuphikisana nozakwethu nokubhala ngokwengqondo incwadi yokusula izikhathi eziyinkulungwane ngosuku?
“Ukungakhululeki, intukuthelo, ukucasuka - yonke lemizwa isitshela ukuthi ezinye zezidingo zethu ezibalulekile azihlangabezwa, nakuba singase singakuqapheli,” kuchaza isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo nomqeqeshi uCecily Horshman-Bratwaite.
Kulokhu, umqondo wokuyeka "indawo" ungase ubonakale ulingeka kakhulu, kodwa amaphupho anjalo ngokuvamile akwenza kube nzima ukubona iqiniso. Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe basikisela ukubheka isimo ngomqondo ovulekile futhi uqondise intukuthelo yakho yokulunga endaweni eyakhayo.
1. Thola umthombo wemizwa engemihle
Ngaphambi kokuba ulandele ukuhola okunjalo okunamandla futhi, ukwethembeka, ngezinye izikhathi imizwelo elimazayo njengentukuthelo, kungaba usizo ukuthola: yini ebangela lokho? Kwabaningi, lesi sinyathelo akulula: safundiswa kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuthi intukuthelo, ukufutheka kuyimizwa "engamukeleki", okusho ukuthi uma sibhekana nayo, inkinga kuthiwa ikithi, hhayi esimweni.
Kodwa-ke, akufanele ucindezele imizwa, uHorshman-Bratwaite uqinisekile: "Phela, intukuthelo yakho ingaba nezizathu ezizwakalayo: uhola kancane uma uqhathaniswa nozakwenu noma uphoqeleke ukuthi uhlale ehhovisi sekwephuzile futhi ungasitholi isikhathi sokuya emsebenzini."
Ukuze uqonde lokhu kahle, uchwepheshe weluleka ukugcina ijenali yemicabango nemizwelo ehlobene nomsebenzi - mhlawumbe ukuhlaziywa kwalokho okubhaliwe kuzokutshela isisombululo.
2. Khuluma nomuntu ongakusiza ubheke isimo ngaphandle.
Ngenxa yokuthi intukuthelo ivala izingqondo zethu futhi isivimbela ekucabangeni ngokucacile, kuyasiza ukukhuluma nomuntu ongaphandle komsebenzi wakho—okungaba ngumqeqeshi oqeqeshiwe noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo.
Kungase kuvele ukuthi ngempela indawo yokusebenza enobuthi engenakushintshwa. Kodwa kungase futhi kuvele ukuthi wena ngokwakho awubonisi ngokucacile isikhundla sakho noma uvikele imingcele.
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nomqeqeshi wezomsebenzi uLisa Orbe-Austin ukukhumbuza ukuthi akufanele uthathe yonke into uchwepheshe akutshela yona ngokholo, kodwa ungakwazi futhi ngisho nokudinga ukucela iseluleko kuye ngokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo, yisiphi isinyathelo okufanele usithathe ukuze ukulimaza umsebenzi wakho.
“Kubalulekile ukuthi uzikhumbuze ukuthi noma ngabe impilo yakho yomsebenzi ayikuphathi kahle okwamanje akumele kube njena unomphela. Into esemqoka ukuhlela ikusasa lakho, cabanga ngamasu futhi ucabangele amathuba ahlukene, "kusho u-Orbe-Austin.
3. Yenza Ukuxhumana Okuwusizo, Ungakusebenzisi Ngokweqile Ukukhononda
Uma uzimisele ngokuqhubekela phambili, ukuxhumana nomphakathi, ukwakha inethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu kuyisinyathelo esidingekayo.
Kodwa lapho uhlangana nabantu okungenzeka osebenza nabo, ozakwethu, nabaqashi, ungavumeli isimo sakho samanje sinqume ukuthi wena nomlando wakho womsebenzi uzobukeka kanjani emehlweni abo.
Umsebenzi wakho ukuzibonakalisa ohlangothini olungcono kakhulu, futhi umsebenzi ohlala ekhononda ngokudalelwa, abaphathi kanye nezimboni cishe ngeke abe nesithakazelo kunoma ubani.
4. Thatha ikhefu futhi unakekele impilo yakho
Uma unethuba, thatha iholide futhi unakekele impilo yakho - kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Lapho ukubhekana nentukuthelo kuba nzima, uLisa Orbe-Austin weluleka ngokusebenzisa imizwa yakho nochwepheshe - isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo.
Hlola: mhlawumbe izikhathi ezimbalwa nochwepheshe zimbozwa ngisho nomshwalense wakho. “Inkinga iwukuthi ngisho noma uyeka manje, intukuthelo nokucasuka ngeke kwehle,” kuchaza isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo.
“Kubalulekile ukuthi ulungise esakho isimo somqondo ukuze uqhubekele phambili. Futhi kungcono ukukwenza ube unomthombo wokuhola njalo ngomsebenzi wakho wamanje.”
5. Hlela kusenesikhathi—noma ulungiselele imiphumela yokuyeka ugwayi mawala
Amamuvi nochungechunge lwe-TV lusifundisa ukuthi ukuyeka umsebenzi kungazelelwe kungaba inkululeko yangempela, kodwa bambalwa abantu abakhuluma ngemiphumela yesikhathi eside engaba khona - okuhlanganisa imisebenzi kanye nesithunzi.
Kodwa-ke, uma usaqonda ukuthi awasekho amandla okubekezela, lungela, okungenani, ngoba ozakwenu bangaqala ukuhleba ngemuva kwakho - abazi ukuthi yini eyabangela isinqumo sakho, okusho ukuthi bazolahla wena ngenxa "yokungahloniphi "("Shiya inkampani ngalelihora! Futhi kuzokwenzekani kumakhasimende?!").
Kodwa, ngandlela thize, okungafanele kwenziwe ngempela ukulinda isimo sizixazulule ngokwaso. Yebo, mhlawumbe umphathi omusha owanele uzofika eqenjini lakho, noma uzodluliselwa komunye umnyango. Kodwa ukuthembela kulokhu kuphela nokungenzi lutho kuyindlela yobungane.
Kungcono ukhuthale: bala izinyathelo ezilandelayo, yakha inethiwekhi yabantu obaziyo abangochwepheshe, buyekeza i-CV yakho futhi ubuke izikhala. Zama ukwenza konke okuncike kuwe.