Okuqukethwe
Inhlonipho: fundisa ingane yakho
Ukukubuka wenza lokho ingane yakho ekufunda kakhulu. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi yi-phenomenon yokulingisa. Ngakho-ke isizotha sakhe sizokhula lapho uxhumane nawe. Ngakho ungangabazi ukumbonisa isibonelo esihle. Ithi “Sawubona” kuye lapho evuka, “Usale kahle ube nosuku oluhle”, umshiye enkulisa, kumzanyana wakhe noma esikoleni, noma “Ngiyabonga, kuhle lokho” ngokushesha nje lapho ekusiza. Okokuqala, gxila ezenzweni nasemazwini abaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Isibonelo, ukubeka isandla sakho phambi komlomo wakho lapho ukhwehlela noma uzamula, uthi “Sawubona”, “Ngiyabonga” nokuthi “Ngicela”, noma uvale umlomo wakho lapho udla. Phinda le mithetho ngokuphindaphindiwe.
Imidlalo emincane yokufundisa ingane yakho inhlonipho
Mfundise ukuthi adlalwa kanjani “Sithini uma?” “. Mbeke esimweni bese umenza aqagele ukuthi “Uthini uma ngikunikeza okuthile?” Ngiyabonga. Futhi "Uthini uma umuntu ehamba?" Sala kahle. Ungakwazi yini ukuzijabulisa etafuleni, isibonelo, ngokumdlulisa usawoti, ingilazi yakhe yamanzi? Uzomangala ukubona ukuthi uyawazi wonke lamagama amancane ngokuwezwa emlonyeni wakho izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa. Ungakwazi nokulingisa “umama odelelayo”. Imizuzu embalwa, mbonise ukuthi kuyini ukuba luhlaza, ukhohlwe lonke uhlobo lwesizotha. Ngeke akuthole lokho okujwayelekile futhi uzosheshe afune ukuthola umama wakhe onesizotha.
Ncoma ingane yakho ngokuba nesizotha
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungangabazi ukuncoma ingane yakho njalo, ngokushesha nje lapho isibonise uphawu lokuzithoba: "Kuhle lokho, sithandwa sami". Cishe eminyakeni engu-2-3 nangaphezulu, izingane ziyakuthanda ukwaziswa abantu ezibathandayo ngakho-ke zizovame ukufuna ukuqala kabusha.
Hlonipha amakhodi ayo
Ukungafuni ukuqabula umuntu asanda kuhlangana naye uma umbuza kahle akusho ukuthi ingane yakho idelela. Kuyilungelo lakhe. Ukholelwa ukuthi lolu phawu lothando lubhekiswe kakhulu kubantu ababaziyo futhi angeke angabaze ukukhombisa uthando nabo. Kuyathandeka nokuthi angakwamukeli konke ukushukuma komzimba angakuthandi. Kulokhu, meluleke ukuthi axhumane ngenye indlela: ukumomotheka noma igagasi elincane lesandla kwanele. Kungasho futhi ukuthi “Sawubona” olula.
Ungayenzi into yokudlala
Ukuziphatha okuhle nokuhlonipha kuyimibono engabalulekile kangako enganeni yakho. Ngakho-ke konke lokhu kufanele kugcine uhlangothi oludlalayo nolujabulisayo. Kufanele ubekezele kakhulu. Phakathi nesigaba sokuqinisekisa kanye / noma ukuphikiswa, angase afune ukuhlola imikhawulo yakho futhi ngenxa yalokho abe sengozini yokuteleka ngegama eliwumlingo. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ekhohlwe ukubonga, mbonise ngomusa. Uma ubona ukuthi uvala izindlebe, musa ukuphikelela noma uthukuthele, lokho kuyoqeda isifiso sakhe sokungabi nenhlonipho. Ngaphandle kwalokho uma engafuni ukuvalelisa uma ephuma kwagogo angavele adinwe. Ungakhathazeki, i-reflex yamafomula anesizotha ivela eminyakeni engama-4-5. Ungangabazi ukumchazela izigxobo zale savoir-vivre: ukuhlonipha abanye ikakhulukazi.