Okuqukethwe
Encwadini yakhe ethi “Hlela umshado wakho”, uMarina Marcout, uchwepheshe womshado, ngokubambisana no-Inès Matsika, uchaza ukuthi iseluleko esihle kakhulu kumakoti nomkhwenyana igama elithi “ukulindela”. Ayikho indawo yokuthuthukiswa kosuku olubaluleke kangaka, kufanele sihlele lolu suku nakusihlwa ngokuningiliziwe, cishe eminyakeni emibili ngaphambili. Into ebaluleke kakhulu, ngokusho kukaMarina Marcourt, lapho usuku selukhethiwe nomyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo, ukuthola indawo yokwamukela mahhala ngalolo suku.
Ukuhlela kabusha unyaka owodwa ngaphambi komshado
J-1 i : Uma usuku selukhethiwe, unesikhathi esingangonyaka sokuqeda yonke into. Konke kuzohlangana ngalolu suku olubalulekile. Faka ohlwini izivakashi ngekusasa lazo, thola igumbi lokwamukela izivakashi elitholakala ngosuku olukhethiwe, khuluma ngesabelomali nomngane wabo kanye nemindeni, umshado wenkolo noma cha, sihlanganisa yonke imibuzo ukuze senze lolu suku lungalibaleki.
Mayelana nokuxhaswa ngezimali komshado, umthetho uthi umndeni kamakoti unakekela ingubo yomshado, izesekeli kanye nezingubo zezingane ezihlonishwayo. Umndeni womkhwenyana ubonke unakekela izindandatho zomshado, isixha sezimbali somshado, ingubo yomkhwenyana. Kodwa namuhla wonke umbhangqwana womakoti nomkhwenyana ukhululekile kule mihlangano.
D-10 izinyanga : sikhetha onenhlanhla: umphakeli! Uzobhekana ne-oda elide: nikeza imenyu enhle kakhulu kulobu busuku. Ubani othi imenyu ithi isitayela sokwamukela, nendawo yokuzijabulisa. Kukuwe ukuthi ukhethe ukuthi yisiphi isimo ofuna ukusinikeza emshadweni wakho: i-rustic ngaphandle, eyinkimbinkimbi ekamelweni elikhulu, indawo yokudlela esezingeni eliphezulu, njll.
Kuvidiyo: Ungawubona kanjani umshado ogujwa phesheya?
Ukuhlela kabusha izinyanga ezi-5 ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu
Izinyanga ze-J-5: sihambisa uhlu lomshado ukuze sazise izivakashi ngezipho ezinhle esizifunayo. Imibhangqwana eyengeziwe, ehlala ndawonye ngaphambi komshado, ikhetha ukwenza ibhodwe litholakalele i-honeymoon ezindaweni ezishisayo.
Okunye ukukhetha okubalulekile: amakhukhi. Abangani bangempela? Umngane wobuntwana ? Abazala ? Ubani ozoba yisiqiniseko sale nyunyana? Imfihlakalo… Sikhetha nomyeni wethu wakusasa.
Ungakhohlwa ukuma eduze komthungi ukuze uthinte ingubo yomshado esihlale siyiphupha.
D-2 izinyanga : Sizicabangela thina. Emasontweni ambalwa ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu, sicabanga ukubhuka umdwebi wezinwele kanye nomculi wokwenza izimonyo, sibuyela emuva ukuze sizame futhi ingubo yethu ye-princess, sihlinzeka ngamakamelo alabo abavela kude, futhi siphatha ukunakekelwa kwezingane nogogo. .
D- isonto elilodwa : Siqala ukugqoka izicathulo zethu zomshado njalo. Siqeda ukuvumelana nesithandwa sakhe ngemininingwane yohlelo lwetafula lesidlo sakusihlwa. Sitholela izivakashi indawo enhle. Siqala ukucabanga ngephathi ye-bachelor party. Sikushiya lokho kubangani bethu, ngokuvamile, kukubo ukucabanga ngakho!
Ngemva kosuku olukhulu : Asikhohlwa ukukhokha izikweletu, sibonge kubavakashi futhi sibhekisise izithombe ezinhle kakhulu zalolu suku, ezingenakufa ngumthwebuli wezithombe.