Izingcingo zokungabi namahloni ngomzimba wakho sezifinyelele izinga elisha ngenxa kaStella Maki.
Ingxenye ekhuluma isiRashiya ye-Instagram inomphakathi we-My Lines omangalisayo. Kuyo, abesifazane batshela (futhi babonise) ukuthi imizimba yabo ishintshe kanjani ngemva kokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Bonke bafuna ukusekelwa, ngoba kunzima kakhulu ukwamukela ukucabangela kwabo okusha, "okuhlotshiswe" ngokukhululekile ngama-stretch marks, izibazi, amakhilogremu engeziwe. Ngisho nalapho ngezinye izikhathi baba namahloni: “Ngaziqala mina, cabanga ngomyeni wakho.” Hhayi-ke, sinomkhuba omubi kangaka - owesifazane kufanele abukeke ephelele ngemva kokubeletha, abe mncane, afaneleke futhi abe nama-cubes esiswini sakhe.
UStella Mackie, umama wezingane ezimbili, wanquma ukulwa nalezi zinkolelo-ze. Hhayi-ke, akuwona wonke umuntu wesifazane okwazi ukukhombisa umhlaba isithombe esihle, ephuma nje emnyango wesibhedlela. Eqinisweni, ngaphambi kokubeletha, umzimba nawo awufanele wonke umuntu.
“Bheka, kulesi sithombe ngimi bobabili ngemva kokubeletha futhi ngikhulelwe ngesikhathi esisodwa,” uStella wasayina esinye sezithombe zakhe. Indodana yakhe endala ngaleso sikhathi yayinonyaka nesigamu ubudala. – Konke ngikuma-stretch marks, amadala namasha. Ngine-cellulite, imithambo ye-varicose - ngenxa yofuzo - nesisu esilengayo. Ngenzenjani, nansi indlela umzimba wami osabela ngayo ekukhulelweni. “
UStella uthe ngemva kokubeletha kwaba nzima kakhulu kuye ukujwayela indlela abukeka ngayo. Uyabhala: “Ngangikhala njalo lapho ngizibuka esibukweni. Khona-ke kungazelelwe kwafika ukuqaphela: ungumama, hhayi isithombe esivela kumagazini. “Akudingeki ukuba uthande wonke amasentimitha omzimba wakho. Kodwa nawe asikho isidingo sokumzonda. Ngeke kube njalo isikhathi eside. Ukukhulelwa akusona ingunaphakade. Zama ukuzithanda wena,” kusho uStella.
Wonke lomzimba omuhle akusho ukuthi uStella useyekile ukuzisebenzela, nakancane. Kodwa konke kunesikhathi sakho. Usanda kubeletha ingane yesibili ngokuhlinzwa futhi akazange angabaze ukukhombisa isisu ngemuva kwamasonto amathathu ebelethile. Yebo, ubukeka esakhulelwe ngakho. Ukuze uqhathanise - eduze komcibisholo oya kwesokudla, uzothola isithombe sokuthi uStella ubheke kanjani isonto lama-39 lokukhulelwa.
“Manje nginendaba nento eyodwa kuphela - ukudlula lolu suku. Bese kuba olandelayo. Konke kungizwisa ubuhlungu: umthungo ngemva kokuhlinzwa, isifuba sami - ngenxa yepiranha yami engenamazinyo, ehlafuna izingono zami, futhi ngemva kokungalali ebusuku konke ukuthinta kuthukuthelisa kakhulu ”, – UStella wabelana ngolwazi lwakhe nababhalisile. Abanye babo bayamhlazisa: bathi, akacabangi nhlobo ngomyeni wakhe. “Umyeni wami akayena umnikazi wami. Umzimba wami yibhizinisi lami, - UStella akangeni ephaketheni lakhe izwi. – Umzimba wami uyakwazi kahle ukuzala nokondla izingane. Kwadalelwa mina kuqala, hhayi ukuzijabulisa komuntu. “
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