Abasebenzi bokuhlela iVremena (UMTHETHO) bashicilele incwadi nge-psychology engahloselwe abantu abadala, kepha eyabantwana.
Igama likaYulia Borisovna Gippenreiter kumele lizwakale yiwo wonke umzali. Ngisho nomuntu ongakaze abe nesithakazelo ezincwadini ze-psychology yezingane uyaziwa kakhulu. U-Yulia Borisovna unguprofesa eMoscow State University, onguchwepheshe besayensi yezengqondo yomndeni, uhlelo lwe-neurolinguistic, psychology of perception nokunakwa. Unenombolo emangalisayo yezincwadi, amaphepha esayensi angaphezu kuka-75.
Manje ibhodi lokuhlela laseVremena (UMTHETHO) likhiphe incwadi entsha kaJulia Gippenreiter, enikezelwe kwengqondo yezingane, "Abahle Nabangane Bakhe". Le ncwadi ayihloselwe abantu abadala, kepha yenzelwe izingane. Kepha-ke, kungcono ukuyifunda nabazali bakho. Vumelana, kunzima ukuchazela ingane ukuthi yini umusa, ubulungiswa, ukwethembeka, ububele. Futhi encwadini, ingxoxo izohamba ngqo ngalokhu. Isebenzisa isibonelo sezibonelo ezilula nezindaba ezithokozisayo, ingane izokwazi ukuqonda, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuzwa lokho okusengozini.
Futhi sishicilela izingcaphuno ezivela kule ncwadi, eyenzelwe ukusiza ingane ukuthi iqonde ukuthi yini unembeza.
“Unembeza ungumngani nomvikeli kaGood.
Lapho nje othile engenawo umusa, lo mngani uqala ukumkhathaza lowo muntu. Unezindlela eziningi zokwenza: kwesinye isikhathi "uklwebha umphefumulo wakhe", noma sengathi kukhona "okusha esiswini," futhi kwesinye isikhathi izwi liyaphinda: "O, kubi kangakanani ...", "Bekungafanele ngibe nakho! ” - kukonke, kuba kubi! Kanjalo uze uzilungise, uxolise, ubone ukuthi uxolelwe. Lapho-ke u-Good uzomomotheka bese eqala ukuba umngani wakho futhi. Kepha akupheli njalo njalo. Isibonelo, isalukazi ku- “The Tale of the Fisherman and the Fish” asizange sithuthuke, safunga nalo leli khehla ngaso sonke isikhathi, kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekupheleni kwenganekwane, saze sayala ukuba sishaywe! Futhi angikaze ngixolise! Ngokusobala, uNembeza wakhe wayelele, noma waze wafa! Kepha ngenkathi uNembeza esaphila, awusivumeli ukuba senze izinto ezimbi, futhi uma sizenza, khona-ke sizizwa sinamahloni. Lapho nje unembeza ukhuluma, kubalulekile ukuwulalela! Ngokudingekile!
Ngizokuxoxela indaba ngomfana. Igama lakhe kwakunguMitya. Indaba yenzeka kudala, eminyakeni engaphezu kwekhulu eyedlule. Umfana uqobo wabhala ngaye esekhulile futhi waqala ukubhala izincwadi. Ngaleso sikhathi wayeneminyaka emine ubudala, futhi kuhlala umzanyana omdala endlini yabo. Umzanyana wayenomusa futhi enothando. Bahamba ndawonye, baya esontweni, bakhanyisa amakhandlela. Umzanyana umxoxela izindaba, amasokisi alukiwe.
Ngesinye isikhathi uMitya wayedlala ngebhola, kanti umzanyana wayehleli kusofa futhi eluka. Ibhola lagingqika ngaphansi kosofa, umfana wamemeza: “Nian, lithathe!” Umzanyana uyaphendula: "UMitya uzozitholela yena, unengane encane, eguquguqukayo…" "Cha," kusho uM Mitya ngenkani, "uyayithola!" Umzanyana uyamphulula ekhanda bese ephinda athi: "UMitenka uzozitholela yena, uhlakaniphile nathi!" Futhi-ke, cabanga, le "ntombazane ehlakaniphile" iziphonsa phansi, ishaye futhi ikhahlele, ibhonge ngokuthukuthela futhi imemeze ithi: "Yithole, yithole!" Umama weza egijima, wamqukula, wamgona, wabuza: “Yini, yini inkinga yakho, sithandwa sami?!” Futhi yena: “Lokhu yikho konke umzanyana omubi angiphatha kabi, ibhola alikho! Mxoshe, umxoshe! Umlilo! Uma ungamxoshi, khona-ke uyamthanda, kodwa awungithandi! ”Futhi manje umzanyana onomusa, nothandekayo waxoshwa ngenxa yehlazo elenziwa yile nsizwa engenamqondo!
Ubuza ukuthi, ngabe uNembeza uhlangana ngani nawo? Kepha yini. Umbhali lo mfana useyabhala: “Sekudlule iminyaka engamashumi amahlanu (cabanga, iminyaka engamashumi amahlanu!), Kodwa ukuzisola kukaNembeza kubuya ngokushesha nje lapho ngikhumbula le ndaba embi ngebhola!” Bheka, uyayikhumbula le ndaba engxenyeni yekhulu leminyaka. Waziphatha kabi, akalizwa izwi likaGood. Futhi manje ukuzisola kwahlala enhliziyweni yakhe futhi kwamhlupha.
Omunye umuntu angathi: kodwa umama wamdabukela umfana - wakhala kakhulu, kanti wena ngokwakho uthe ukuzisola kuyisenzo esihle. Futhi, futhi mayelana ne- "Tale of the Fisherman and the Fish", sizophendula: "Cha, bekungeyona iSenzo Esihle! Kwakungenakwenzeka ukuvumela isifiso somntwana bese uxosha umzanyana wakhe omdala, owafika naye endlini ukufudumala, induduzo nobuhle! ”Umzanyana waphathwa ngokungafanele, futhi lokhu kubi kakhulu!