Okuqukethwe
Imiyalo yomama abazobandakanya obaba ekunakekeleni izingane ezincane. Into esemqoka kuleli bhizinisi yisimo esihle nesimo samahlaya.
Ekuqaleni, umama ubaluleke kakhulu enganeni kunoyise, kepha kwesinye isikhathi futhi udinga ukuphumula ezinkingeni ezingapheli ngengane encane. Futhi uma bengekho ogogo eduzane, khona-ke kufanele uthembele kumyeni wakho kuphela. Ufuna ukusuka ekhaya? Lungiselela ubaba wengane lo mcimbi ngaphambi kwesikhathi. I-WDay iphakamisa ukuthi ungamshiya kanjani umyeni wakho epulazini ngokulahlekelwa okuncane ngengqondo yawo wonke amalungu omndeni.
Abangakwazi "ukusiza" kakhulu obaba bezingane nezingane kuze kufike eminyakeni engu-2-3 ubudala. Ngemuva kwakho konke, izingane azikwazi ukuchaza: “Kwenzenjani?” Ngakho-ke, izehlakalo ziyenzeka. Ngakho-ke, ukuzigwema:
1. Siqeqesha ubaba!
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zeluleka ukuthi zisebenze kancane kancane ukuze ubaba osanda kwenziwa ajwayele omncane. Ekuqaleni, themba ingane nobaba wakho ngenkathi ukhona. Mane ucele umyeni wakho ukuthi anakekele ingane, ngenkathi wena ngokwakho uqhubeka nebhizinisi lakho kwelinye igumbi noma ekhishini. Vumela ubaba aqale abe yedwa nengane okungenani imizuzu eyi-10-15, bese iba isikhashana. Lapho ubaba eqala ukubhekana nendodana noma indodakazi yakhe eyedwa ihora lonke, ungaqhubeka nebhizinisi!
Umlando Wempilo
“Ngesikhathi udadewethu ekhulelwe, saziqeqesha nomyeni wami nge-plush uWinnie the Pooh ukushintsha amanabukeni. Futhi manje - ubusuku bokuqala nengane ekhaya. Ingane yaqala yakhala, ubaba wasukuma washintsha inabukeni. Kodwa ukukhala akuzange kudambe. Kwakumele umama avuke. Embhedeni oseduze kwengane, uWinnie wayelele enabukeni emuva. "
2. Simnika imiyalelo ethile
Zama ukuchaza konke kubaba osemncane ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi yini okudingeka yenziwe, ngokwesibonelo, uma ingane ivuka; ukuthi uzomondla kanjani nokuthi yini. Uma kungcola - yini ongashintsha kuyo. Chaza ukuthi izingubo zikuphi, ukuthi amathoyizi akhona, luhlobo luni lomculo oluthanda ingane oluthandayo.
Umlando Wempilo
“Ngesikhathi indodakazi yami ineminyaka emine ubudala, ngangeniswa esibhedlela isonto lonke. Ubashiye nomyeni wakhe, enikeza imiyalelo eningiliziwe. Wangicela ukuthi ngigqoke izingubo ezihlanzekile nsuku zonke! Ubaba "akayitholanga" ingubo yendodakazi yakhe ekhabethe. Ngakho-ke, nsuku zonke ngangigeza futhi ngi-ayine le eyayiphezu kwakhe. Ngakho-ke waya enkulisa ngengubo efanayo isonto lonke. "
3. Asigxeki!
Akungabazeki ukuthi wazi konke kangcono! Kepha zama ukukuqukatha ukugxekwa kukaPapa. Yebo, ekuqaleni uzoba yinkimbinkimbi nengane. Nawe, awuzange ufunde ngokushesha ukusonga, ukuphakela, ukugeza. Chaza ngesineke ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze nokuthi ilandelane kanjani. Mklomelise ngemizamo yakhe. Uma ingane ikhala, nikeza uyihlo ithuba lokuyithulisa. Uma ubaba omncane ecabanga ukuthi usevele wazi konke - ungadluli ngokweqile!
Umlando Wempilo “Indodakazi yami yayineminyaka emibili. Kakade ulunyulwe kumanabukeni. Ngesikhathi ngihamba, ngakhombisa ubaba wami ukuthi ayephi amaphenti endodakazi yami. Lapho ngibuya emahoreni ambalwa kamuva, ngathola indodakazi yami igqoke iphenti lezintambo. "Bancane kakhulu, bengicabanga ukuthi nguyena."
4. Sihlala sixhumana naye njalo
Ukushiya ikhaya, qinisekisa umyeni wakho ukuthi angakushayela noma kunini futhi abuze okuthile ngomntwana. Lokhu kuzomnika ukuzethemba ukuthi angakwazi ukubhekana nakho. Uma ungakwazi ukuphendula, shiya inombolo yocingo kamama wakho noma yomngani onezingane kumyeni wakho.
Umlando Wempilo
“Ngishiye umyeni wami enendodana enezinyanga ezintathu ubudala isigamu sosuku. Indodana bekufanele ilale kuvulandi amahora amabili okuqala. KwakungoMashi. Ubaba wethu obhekele ezempilo uphume abaleke aye kuvulandi njalo ngemizuzu eyi-2 abheke ukuthi ingane iphapheme yini. Futhi-ke kokunye “kokuhlolwa” umnyango kuvulandi uvalwe wavalwa kusukela kokungakapheli. Baby ngengubo. Ubaba egqoke isikhindi sangaphansi. Uqale ukumemeza omakhelwane ukuthi abize unkosikazi wakhe. Umakhelwane ongakwesokudla ubheke ngaphandle waboleka ifoni. Ngemuva kwesigamu sehora, ngaphuthuma ngafika, ngayihlenga le "eqandayo". Ingane ilele elinye ihora. "
5. Khumbula ukuthi ingane eyondlekile iyingane eyanelisekile.
Ngaphambi kokuhamba, zama ukondla ingane yakho futhi uqiniseke ukuthi isebenza kahle. Uma ingane ijabule, khona-ke ubaba kungenzeka abe nokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle futhi azethembe ngokwengeziwe emakhonweni akhe. Futhi ngokuzayo lapho evuma ngokwengeziwe ukuhlala nengane futhi, mhlawumbe, naye uzokwazi ukondla nokushintsha izingubo zakhe.
Umlando Wempilo
“Umama uthathe uhambo lwebhizinisi izinsuku ezintathu. Ngitshiyele ubaba imali yokudla. Ngosuku lokuqala ngqa, ngijabule ubaba wasebenzisa yonke imali kubhola nge-perforator. Izinsuku ezisele, indodakazi nobaba wami badle isobho lemifino kusuka ku-zucchini. "
6. Sihlela ezokungcebeleka
Cabanga kusengaphambili ngokuthi ubaba nengane bazokwenzani ngenkathi ungekho. Lungisa amathoyizi, izincwadi, beka izingubo ezengeziwe endaweni evelele, shiya ukudla.
Umlando Wempilo
“Bashiye indodakazi yami kuyise, yena waqala wadlala ngonodoli futhi bamupha amanzi ngenkomishi kadoli. Ubaba wayejabule kakhulu waze wabuya umama wabuza: "Sthandwa sami, ucabanga ukuthi uLisa uwatholaphi amanzi?" Okuwukuphela “komthombo” ingane eneminyaka emibili engafinyelela kuwo yindlu yangasese. "
7. Ukuzola
Lapho ushiya ingane yakho nobaba wakho, zama ukungakhombisi injabulo yakho. Uma uzolile futhi unethemba, imizwa yakho izodluliselwa kumyeni wakho nasenganeni. Lapho ubuyela ekhaya, ungakhohlwa ukuncoma oshade naye, noma ngabe indlu inokudideka okuncane, futhi ingane ngathi ayondli kahle kuwe. Uzwa ukuthi wenza kahle, ubaba uzoyeka ukugudlisela ingane yakhe.
Umlando Wempilo
“ULeroux oneminyaka emibili wasala nobaba wakhe. Banikezwe i-CU: bafudumeze iphalishi ngesidlo sasemini, ubilise iqanda ngesidlo sasemini. Kusihlwa - umdwebo kawoyela: isitofu sigcwele ubisi. Isinki ligcwele izitsha: amapuleti, amasoso, amabhodwe, amapani… Ebheka epanini elingamalitha amahlanu, umama wami uyabuza: “Wawenzani kule?” Ubaba uyaphendula: “Iqanda lalibilisiwe.”
8. Chaza ukuthi ukukhala kuyindlela yokuxhumana
Chaza ubaba wakho ukuthi angesabi ingane ekhalayo. Kuze kube unyaka nohhafu kuyindlela esemqoka yokuxhumana nomhlaba. Ngoba ingane ayikwazi ukukhuluma okwamanje. Cishe bonke omama bangakwazi ukubona ukuthi ufunani ngokukhala ingane. Mhlawumbe ulambile noma udinga ukushintsha inabukeni. Obaba bangafunda nalokhu. Imvamisa cela umyeni wakho ukuthi anqume ukuthi ingane idingani. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ubaba uzoqala ukuhlukanisa wonke amathoni wokukhala kwengane hhayi okubi kakhulu kunawe. Kepha lokhu kuza nesipiliyoni kuphela. Hlela “ukuqeqeshwa” kukababa (bheka iphuzu lokuqala).
Umlando Wempilo
“Indodana encane, uLuka, yayinezinyanga eziyi-11 ubudala. Wahlala nobaba wakhe usuku lonke. Kusihlwa umyeni wami uyangibiza: “Ungilandela usuku lonke futhi uyabhonga! Mhlawumbe okuthile kubuhlungu? ”“ Sthandwa sami, umphakeleni ukudla kwasemini? ” “O! Kwakumele ondliwe! "