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Ukubeletha ohlangothini lwengane
Ngenhlanhla, isikhathi sesidlule isikhathi lapho umbungu wawubhekwa njengeqoqo lamaseli ngaphandle kwesithakazelo. Abacwaningi babheka kakhulu impilo yangaphambi kokubeletha futhi nsuku zonke bathola amakhono amangalisayo izingane ezithuthukiswayo esibelethweni. Umbungu uyisidalwa esizwelayo, esinezinzwa nempilo yokunyakazisa isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Kodwa uma manje sesazi okuningi ngokukhulelwa, ukuzalwa kusafihla izimfihlakalo eziningi. Yini ingane eyibonayo ngesikhathi sokubeletha?Ingabe bukhona ubuhlungu be-fetus kulesi sikhathi esikhethekile ? Futhi uma kunjalo, kuzwakala kanjani? Okokugcina, ingabe lokhu kuzwa kubanjwe ngekhanda futhi kungaba nemiphumela enganeni? Cishe inyanga yesi-5 yokukhulelwa lapho ama-sensory receptors avela esikhumbeni sombungu. Kodwa-ke, ingabe iyakwazi ukusabela ekushukumiseni kwangaphandle noma kwangaphakathi njengokuthinta, ukuhlukahluka kwezinga lokushisa noma ngisho nokukhanya? Cha, kuzomele alinde amasonto ambalwa. Kuze kube yi-trimester yesithathu lapho imigudu yokuqhuba engadlulisela ulwazi ebuchosheni iyasebenza. Kulesi sigaba, ngakho-ke ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, umntwana uyakwazi ukuzwa ubuhlungu.
Umntwana ulala ngesikhathi sokubeletha
Ekupheleni kokukhulelwa, ingane isilungele ukuphuma. Ngaphansi komphumela wokufinyela, kancane kancane yehlela ku-pelvis eyenza uhlobo oluthile lomhubhe. Yenza ukunyakaza okuhlukahlukene, iguqule umumo wayo izikhathi eziningana ukuze izungeze izithiyo kuyilapho ngesikhathi esifanayo intamo ikhula. Umlingo wokuzalwa uyasebenza. Nakuba umuntu engase acabange ukuthi uphathwa kabi yilokhu kufinyela okunobudlova, nokho ulele. Ukuqapha izinga lokushaya kwenhliziyo ngesikhathi sokubeletha kuqinisekisa lokho umntwana uyozela ngesikhathi sokubeletha futhi akavuki kuze kube umzuzu wokuxoshwa. Nokho, okunye ukufinyela okunamandla kakhulu, ikakhulukazi lapho kushukunyiswe njengengxenye yesiqhumane, kungamvusa. Uma elele, kungenxa yokuthi uzolile, ukuthi akabuzwa ubuhlungu ... Noma ukuthi ukusuka kwelinye izwe ukuya kwelinye kuwuvivinyo olunzima kangangokuthi uncamela ukungaphaphami. Ithiyori eyahlanganyelwa abanye ochwepheshe bokuzalwa njengoMyriam Szejer, udokotela wengqondo yezingane kanye nochwepheshe bengqondo yabakhulelwe: “Singacabanga ukuthi ukukhishwa kwama-hormone kuholela ohlotsheni lwe-analgesia engokomzimba enganeni. Endaweni ethile, umbungu ulala ukuze usekele kangcono ukuzalwa ”. Kodwa-ke, ngisho nalapho isozela, ingane isabela ekubelethweni ngezinhlobonhlobo ezihlukahlukene zenhliziyo. Lapho ikhanda lakhe licindezela okhalweni, inhliziyo yakhe iyancipha. Ngokuphambene, lapho ukufinyela kusonteka umzimba wakhe, ukushaya kwenhliziyo yakhe kuyagijima. “Ukushukunyiswa kwengane kubangela ukusabela, kodwa konke lokhu akusitsheli lutho ngobuhlungu,” kusho uBenoît Le Goëdec, umbelethisi. Ngokuphathelene nokuhlupheka kwe-fetus, lokhu futhi akukhona ukubonakaliswa kobuhlungu kanjalo. Ihambisana ne-oksijeni empofu yengane futhi ibonakala ngezigqi zenhliziyo ezingavamile.
Umthelela wokuzalwa: akufanele indiva
Ikhanda lakhe licwebile, umbelethisi ukhipha ihlombe elilodwa alandelise elinye. Umzimba wonke wengane uyalandela ngaphandle kobunzima. Ingane yakho isanda kuzalwa. Ngokokuqala ngqa empilweni yakhe, uyaphefumula, akhiphe isililo esikhulu, uthole ubuso bakhe. Umntwana uzizwa kanjani lapho efika emhlabeni wethu? ” Usana olusanda kuzalwa luqala ukumangala ngenxa yamakhaza, luwu-37,8 degrees emzimbeni wowesifazane futhi alikutholi lokho kushisa ezindlini zokubelethela, ingasaphathwa eyokuhlinza. kugcizelela uMyriam Szejer. Abuye agqanyiswe kukhanya ngoba akakaze abhekane nakho. Umphumela wokumangala uyandiswa uma kwenzeka ukuhlinzwa. “Bonke omakhenikha bomsebenzi womntwana akwenzekanga, walandwa yize ubengakawuniki uphawu lokuthi usemi ngomumo. Kumele kumdide kakhulu,” kuqhuba uchwepheshe. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuzalwa akuhambi njengoba bekuhleliwe. Ukubeletha kudonsa, ingane inenkinga yokwehla, kufanele ikhishwe kusetshenziswa ithuluzi. Kulolu hlobo lwesimo, “i-analgesic ngokuvamile inikezwa ukuze ikhulule ingane, kuphawula uBenoît Le Goëdec. Ubufakazi bokuthi njengoba esesemhlabeni wethu, sibheka ukuthi kube nobuhlungu. “
Ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo kwengane?
Ngaphandle kobuhlungu bomzimba, kukhona ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo. Lapho umntwana ezalwa ngaphansi kwezimo ezinzima (ukopha, ukuhlinzwa kokuhlinzwa okuphuthumayo, ukubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi), umama angadlulisela ukucindezeleka kwakhe enganeni engazi ngesikhathi sokubeletha nangezinsuku ezilandelayo. ” Lezi zingane zizithola sezibanjwe wusizi lomama, kuchaza uMyriam Szejer. Balala ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuze bangamphazamisi noma bayayaluza, abaduduzeki. Okuxakayo ukuthi kuyindlela yabo yokuqinisekisa umama, bamgcine ephila. “
Qinisekisa ukuqhubeka ekwamukelweni komntwana osanda kuzalwa
Akukho okuwujuqu. Nengane esanda kuzalwa nayo inala mandla okumelana nezimo okusho ukuthi uma igoqelwe kunina, ibuye ibe nokuzethemba futhi ivuleleka ngokuthula emhlabeni oyizungezile. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziye zagcizelela ukubaluleka kokwamukela usana futhi amaqembu ezokwelapha manje asekubheke ngokukhethekile. Ongoti bezibeletho banesithakazelo kakhulu ezimweni zokubeletha ukuze bachaze izifo ezihlukahlukene zezingane ezincane kanye nabantu abadala. ” Yizimo zokuzalwa ezingaba buhlungu, hhayi ukuzalwa ngokwako. Kusho uBenoît Le Goëdec. Ukukhanya okukhanyayo, ukuyaluza, ukukhohlisa, ukuhlukaniswa kukamama nengane. "Uma konke kuhamba kahle, kufanele sikhuthaze umcimbi wemvelo, noma ngabe kusezikhundleni zokubeletha noma endaweni yokwamukela ingane." Kwazi bani, mhlawumbe ingane ngeke iwukhumbule umzamo omkhulu eyawuthatha ukuze izalwe, uma yamukelwa endaweni epholile. « Okubalulekile wukuqinisekisa ukuqhubeka nezwe asanda kulishiya. », Kuqinisekisa uMyriam Szejer. I-psychoanalyst ikhumbula ukubaluleka kwamagama okubhekiswe kumntwana osanda kuzalwa, ikakhulukazi uma ukuzalwa kwakunzima. “Kubalulekile ukutshela ingane ukuthi kwenzekeni, kungani kudingeke ukuba ihlukaniswe nomama wayo, kungani lokhu kutatazela ekamelweni lokubelethela …” Iqinisekisiwe, ingane ithola ukuthi ikuphi bese iqala ukuphila okunokuthula .