Okuqukethwe
Ukushintshela ebuntwaneni
Isimemo sokuqala sokuchitha ubusuku nesoka noma intombi kuwumkhuba wangempela wokudlula ebuntwaneni. Lapho ingane yakho ihamba ngempelasonto noma iholidi nomkhaya (nogogo nomkhulu, ubabekazi, unkulunkulukazi, njll.) izithola isendaweni lapho, ngokomfanekiso, umama esekhona. Ngezinkomba ezinikezayo, imithetho eyidluliselayo, yandisa ukhokho womndeni. Unomngane wakho, ingane yakho ibhekana nemikhuba emisha okufanele iyithobele. Kuthiwani uma edinga ukukhanya ukuze alale noma enqaba ukudla ubhontshisi oluhlaza? Namuhla kusihlwa emzini wesoka lakhe kungase kumsize asuse izinto zakhe ezincane.
Ukufundisa ingane yakho mayelana nokwehluka nokuhlukahluka
Ngemuva kwenjabulo yakhe cishe kufihla ukukhathazeka okuncane. Ubusha, umehluko… kuyacebisa, kodwa futhi kuyethusa kancane. Mlungiselele ukubhekana nakho ngokumfundisa ukuhlukahluka (akukho modeli eyodwa kodwa izindlela ezimbalwa) nokubekezelelana (wonke umuntu wenza izinto ngendlela abona kufanele futhi kufanele zamukelwe). Uma wazi ukuthi abazali abammemile banemikhuba yemfundo noma yenkolo ehlukile kweyakho, mazise. Exwayiswa, ngeke asamangele futhi angakhululeki phambi kwezivakashi zakhe. Uma ezochitha ubusuku nomndeni omi kahle kancane, noma ngokuphambene nalokho ocebile, ngokuqinisekile uzoba nemibuzo ngawe ngale ndaba. Ithuba lokuvula amehlo akhe kukho konke lokhu kwehluka, phakathi kwabantu nezizinda. Ukuqwashisa okuzomkhuthaza ukuthi akhule.
Umbono obucayi wendodakazi yakho ngendlela yayo yokuphila
« KwaClara, sivunyelwe ukuphuza i-soda etafuleni futhi akudingekile ukuthi sigqoke ama-slippers ethu. Bese kuthi njalo ngoMgqibelo ekuseni eya ekilasini lakhe lomdanso “. Uma ubuya kulokhu kubaleka okuncane, maningi amathuba okuthi ingane yakho iqale ukubheka ngokucophelela indlela yakhe yokuphila kanye nemfundo yakho imbala. Kukuwe ukuthi ukhumbule imithetho kanye nezizathu zokuthi kungani uyiphoqa. ” Nathi asiyiphuzi i-soda ngenkathi sidla ngoba imnandi kakhulu futhi icindezela isifiso sokudla. Njengoba umhlabathi ushelela futhi angifuni ukuthi uzilimaze, ngincamela ukuthi uhlale ugqokile iziliphu zakho. Kodwa mhlawumbe umqondo wokwenza umsebenzi awumubi kangako? Kukuwe futhi ukuthi ucabangele ukuphawula kwakhe futhi mhlawumbe uzibuze.
Amathiphu ethu empelasonto yokuqala yendodakazi yakho emzini wentombi
Yenza lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala kube isiqalo sangempela sokuzimela. Okokuqala, vumela ingane yakho ikhethe ukuthi iziphi izinto efuna ukuhamba nazo. Uma engacabangi ngakho, mbuze ukuthi uyafuna yini ukuza nengubo yakhe yokulala, ukukhanya kwakhe ebusuku … Amathoyizi ambalwa ajwayelekile azomvumela ukuthi asukume futhi azizwe ekhululekile uma enomsingathi wakhe. Ngemva kokumehlisa, ungaqhubeki unomphela, ukuhlukana kungaba nzima futhi angase azizwe enamahloni ngokuba khona kwakho. Iyodwa, izothatha amamaki ayo ngokushesha okukhulu. Ukuze umqinisekise, mkhumbuze ukuthi ukhululekile ukukufonela uma ethanda, kodwa akudingekile ukuba umshayele. Kodwa-ke, ungashayela abazali ngosuku olulandelayo ukuze uthole izindaba futhi uqinisekise, isibonelo, isikhathi ozobuya ngaso ukuzoyithatha.