“Bengingamele ngiludle ucezu lokugcina lukaphaya!” “Angikholwa ukuthi sekuphele izinsuku ezintathu zilandelana ngidla amaswidi ebusuku!” “Ngingumama, ngakho-ke, kufanele nginakekele izingane, ngipheke, futhi ngisebenze, akunjalo?” Wonke umuntu unale micabango. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini esinayo inkhulumomphendvulwano yangaphakathi elimazayo: mayelana nokudla, ukuphathwa kwesikhathi, umsebenzi, umndeni, ubudlelwano, izibopho zethu noma enye into, le micabango emibi ayiholeli kunoma yini enhle. Icala liwumthwalo onzima kakhulu, lidinga amandla amaningi. Icala lisiphendulela esikhathini esedlule, lisincisha amandla esikhathini samanje futhi alisivumeli ukuthi sidlulele esikhathini esizayo. Siba abangenakuzisiza. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi icala libangelwa okuhlangenwe nakho kwesikhathi esidlule, izinkolelo zangaphakathi, isimo sangaphandle, noma konke lokhu okungenhla, umphumela uhlezi ufana—sibambeka endaweni. Nokho, kulula ukusho - susa icala, akulula kakhulu ukukwenza. Ngikunikeza ukuzijwayeza okukodwa okuncane. Isho ngokuzwakalayo umushwana olandelayo: Igama elithi “nje” liyigama elifanayo nalawo athi “Kufanele ngenze!” futhi “Akufanele! Manje qala ukubheka ukuthi uwasebenzisa kangaki amagama athi “kufanele” noma “akufanele” ukuchaza imizwa nezenzo zakho. Futhi lapho nje uzithola kulawa magama, esikhundleni sawo ufake igama elithi “lula.” Ngakho, uzoyeka ukuzehlulela, kodwa uzosho izenzo zakho. Zama le nqubo futhi uzwe umehluko. Imizwa yakho nemizwa yakho izoshintsha kanjani uma, esikhundleni sokuthi: “Bengingafanele ngiyidle yonke le dessert!”, uthi: “Ngidle wonke uphudingi, kuze kube sekudleni kokugcina, futhi ngiwuthande kakhulu! ” Igama elithi “kufanele” nelithi “akufanele” angamagama anobuqili futhi anamandla, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuwaqeda ekungazini, kodwa kufanelekile ukwenza ukuze angabi namandla phezu kwakho. Ukusho la magama (ngokuzwakalayo noma kuwe ngokwakho) kuwumkhuba omubi, futhi kungaba kuhle ukuqala ukufunda ukuwulandela. Lapho la mazwi evela engqondweni yakho (futhi lokhu sekwenzekile futhi kuzokwenzeka), ungazithethisi nangalokhu, ungazitsheli ukuthi: “Akufanele ngikhulume noma ngicabange ngale ndlela”, vele usho iqiniso lalokho okwenzekayo. kuwe, iqiniso lokuthi uyazishaya. Okwamanje, isenzo sakho noma ukungenzi lutho unikeziwe. Futhi yilokho! Futhi akukho cala! Uma uyeka ukuzehlulela, uzozwa amandla akho. Njenge-yoga, njengesifiso sokuphila ngokuqaphela, ukususa umuzwa wecala angeke kube umgomo, kuwumkhuba. Yebo, akulula, kodwa kukuvumela ukuthi ulahle amathani amaningana kadoti ekhanda lakho futhi wenze indawo yemizwa emihle. Bese kuba lula ngathi ukwamukela izici ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwethu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zikude kangakanani nokuphelela. Umthombo: zest.myvega.com Ukuhumusha: Lakshmi
2022-11-11