I-Psychology

Ngemizuzwana engama-30, impilo yakho izoshintsha?

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Ama-Freebies amahhala, izinzuzo ezitholakala kalula ngenxa yenhlanganisela yenhlanhla yezimo. Kumahhala - kutholwe njengesipho, mahhala.

Ifilosofi ye-Freeloader: "Ngizohlengwa yizwe elinomusa kimi."

Freebie futhi mhlawumbe - izinto zisondele. Ama-Freeloaders angabantu abafuna ushizi wamahhala kanye nenhlanhla ezimweni eziphumelelayo lapho kungekho ndlala nezinkinga ezinkulu. Uma umuntu enethemba lokusindiswa esimweni esiyinkinga, esinzima, akakhulumi nge-propensity ye-freebies, kodwa mayelana nenhlanhla.

Imibuzo yokuhlonza isilayishi samahhala

Izimpendulo YEBO:

  • Uyakholelwa enhlanhleni?
  • Ingabe udlala ilotho?
  • Uthemba ukuthi uzoba nenhlanhla?
  • Uyakholelwa ukuthi zikhona izindlela empilweni ongafinyelela kuzo impumelelo ngaphandle kokuzikhandla?

Ungavali izindawo zesilayishi samahhala:

  • “Ngaphandle kokubeletha awukwazi ukubamba kokubili izinhlanzi kanye nomsebenzi”
  • "Ushizi wamahhala uyenzeka kuphela ezicupheni zamagundane"
  • "Uma uthanda ukugibela - thanda ukuthwala izihlibhi"

I-Freebie ne-parasite

I-parasite uhlobo lwe-freeloader, lapho indawo "yezwe" ithathwa ngomunye umuntu noma inhlangano. I-parasite ikubona kungenzeka futhi iyakuthanda ukuphila ngezindleko zabanye.

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