"Umthetho kuma-Foundlings" - le yindlela umqondo ohlanya wamasekela osuvele uqanjwe ngayo.
Ukunakekela izingane, hhayi ngenye indlela ... Isekela le-State Duma u-Valentina Petrenko, kubonakala sengathi, layithathela inhliziyo kakhulu indaba yomfana ogama lakhe lingu-BOCh rVF 260602 (Into yebhayoloji yomuntu yomndeni wakwaVoronin-Frolov, owazalwa ngoJuni 26, 2002). Kuvela ukuthi ingane ibihlala ngaphandle kwemibhalo iminyaka engu-10 - benqaba ukuyibhalisa ngalelo gama emahhovisi okubhalisa aseMoscow.
U-Valentina Aleksandrovna wanquma ukubhala umthetho wokwenqabela abazali ukubiza izingane zabo izinombolo, izifinyezo, ngisho nangaphezulu ngosizo lwamagama avela enhlamba. Kungabonakala kuyinto enhle ukuvikela ingane emicabangweni echichimayo yonina noyise. Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kokuqagela okungokomzwelo mayelana namagama aphula isiphetho sezingane, imfashini eyodwa encane yomthethosivivinywa omusha ayizange inakwe:
“Ezimweni lapho abazali bengakumemezeli ukuzalwa komntwana esikhathini esinqunyiwe (umthetho unikeza isikhathi esingangenyanga. – Qaphela Usuku Lowesifazane), ukuzalwa komntwana kubhaliswa ngendlela ebekwe yiSigaba 19 soMthethosisekelo. Umthetho Wombuso "Ezenzweni Zesimo Somphakathi".
Sivula lesi sihloko bese sifunda isihloko esithi: “Ukubhaliswa kukahulumeni kokuzalwa kwengane (ephonswe).”
Ngamanye amazwi, uma ngenyanga ungakanqumi igama lomntanakho noma ngenxa yesinye isizathu ungafikanga ehhovisi lokubhalisa futhi ungasitholanga isitifiketi sokuzalwa, uqashelwa njengomuntu otholakele. Noma ungumama ongayedwana. Noma ngabe akekho ozoshiya ingane kodwa ukudonsa ingane nawe kuwubuwula. Akunandaba ukuthi kungani - into esemqoka ukuthi awufikanga ehhovisi lokubhalisa ngenyanga. Manje, ngokomthetho, ingane yakho iyintandane abazali bayo abaziwa.
Kusukela kulo mzuzu kuqhubeke, iziphathimandla zezenhlalakahle zizojoyina umdlalo futhi zinakekele ingane yakho njengentandane. Okusho ukuthi baqhamuke negama nesibongo sakhe, bakhiphe isitifiketi sokuzalwa sale data. Abazali abaveli kuyo. Ningabantu abangaziwa phambi komthetho. Ngakho amazwi akhe athi. Futhi uma, isibonelo, izinsuku ezingu-33 ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane, usahamba ukuyibhalisa, ngeke ube abazali, cha. Nizoba “abatholi bezingane”.
Futhi uma kunjalo, awunawo amalungelo kukho. Futhi iziphathimandla zezenhlalakahle zizoba nalo lonke ilungelo lokuyisa ingane ekhaya lezintandane! Ungangikholwa? Ibhili yokuqala ingafundwa .
Yebo, ukuze uqhathanise, ake sikukhumbuze: manje uzohlawuliswa ngokufika sekwephuzile ukubhaliswa. Kusukela kweyodwa nengxenye kuya kuma-ruble ayizinkulungwane ezimbili nengxenye. Uma umthetho uthathwa, wena, ungazi, ngaphandle kwesixwayiso, uyoba yize enganeni yakho. Ngokomthetho.
- Isimo "sokuthola" sisho ukuthi ingane ayinakho "ukunakekelwa komzali", okungukuthi, unawe ngokungemthetho! Iziphathimandla ezigadayo zibambe iqhaza ekuvikeleni izingane ezinjalo, - kusho u-Olga Baranets, umvikeli womphakathi wokuvikela umndeni eSt. Petersburg kanye nesifunda saseLeningrad. Wasusa umsindo, eqaphela leli phuzu “elingabalulekile” lomthethosivivinywa. Waqala ukuhlasela i-State Duma ngezikhalo kanye nezingcingo, efuna ukuba kuchitshiyelwe lesi sichibiyelo esisha.
Yiqiniso, ukususwa kwengane emndenini kuyisinyathelo esidlulele, okungelula neze ukuthi ubani asithathe. Noma kunjalo, kufanele ube isilwane ngempela ukuthatha usana kunina. Ngaphandle uma umndeni uphansi ngokuphelele, yiqiniso, lapho umama ekhohliwe ngokubhaliswa kwengane ngezindaba "ezibalulekile". Kodwa uNkulunkulu uyazi ukuthi mingaki imibuthano yesihogo esisemthethweni okufanele udlule kuyo ukuze ufakazele ukuthi ingane ngeyakho. Owomdabu.
- Kungasiphi isisekelo isimo "sokuphonswa" singanikezwa uma umama ondla futhi enikeza ingane amanzi? - isishoshovu sezenhlalakahle sithukuthele. - Kuyoba nje izaba zokuthatha ingane kubazali abanothando futhi uyithumele "esikhungweni sokuvuselela". Ngeke bakwazi ukuhlenga ingane isuka kuphi, ngoba emaphepheni akhe amasha, azokhishwa yiziphathimandla ezigadayo, ngeke kuphume izwi ngomama nobaba. Okwamanje, abazali bazomangalela izinhlaka zikahulumeni, isiphetho sosana sizonqunywa ezinye izinhlangano ezithanda izingane ngoxhaso lwangaphandle ...
NgoMashi 7, umthethosivivinywa waphasiswa ekufundweni kokuqala. Yize kungewona wonke amaLungu ePhalamende agunyaze umbono wezisekelo, mancane amathemba okuthi isiphakamiso esiwubuhlanya sizohlala kuphela kungobo yomlando yezikweletu. Okungenani u-Valentina Petrenko wathembisa ukuthi ngokufunda kwesibili uzokwenza izilungiso ezidingekayo kuleli phuzu. Sizothola ukuthi yiziphi maduze nje.
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Ucabanga ukuthi umthetho udinga ukuqinisa ngale ndlela?
Ngempela, uhlobo oluthile lokuhlanya. Awazi ukuthi kungani indoda iphuzile.
Inyanga yanele ukubhalisa ingane. Kodwa izinyathelo zisenzima kakhulu.
Lena iyona ndlela kuphela yokufundisa abantu abangaziphathi kahle. Uma ungakabhalisi, kusho ukuthi awukudingi.
Mhlawumbe, sonke asiqondanga. Amasekela awakwazi ukumane anikeze izinyathelo ezinjalo ezinzima.
Ngizoshiya inguqulo yami kumazwana.