Ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi kwabesifazane, noma ukuphazamiseka kwezocansi kwabesifazane, kuchazwa yi-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, i-DSM, esetshenziswa emazweni ngamazwe. I-DSM ivuselelwa njalo ngokuya ngokuthuthuka kolwazi. Inguqulo yamanje ithi DSM5.

Ukungasebenzi kahle kocansi kwabesifazane kuchazwa lapho ngokuthi:

• Ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-orgasmic kwabesifazane
• Ukungasebenzi okuhlobene nentshisekelo yocansi nokuvusa inkanuko yocansi
• Ubuhlungu be-genito-pelvic / kanye nokungasebenzi kahle kokungena

Izinhlobo eziyinhloko zokungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi kwabesifazane

Ubunzima bokufinyelela i-orgasm noma ukuntuleka kwe-orgasm 

Ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-orgasmic kwabesifazane. Kuhambisana noshintsho olubalulekile ezingeni le-orgasm: ukwehla kwamandla e-orgasm, ukwandiswa kwesikhathi esidingekayo ukuze uthole i-orgasm, ukuncipha kwemvamisa ye-orgasm, noma ukungabikho kwe-orgasm.

Sikhuluma ngokungasebenzi kahle kwe-orgasmic yabesifazane uma kuqhubeka isikhathi esingaphezu kwezinyanga eziyi-6 futhi kungahlobene nenkinga yezempilo, yengqondo noma yobudlelwano futhi uma kubangela umuzwa wokucindezeleka. Qaphela ukuthi abesifazane abathola i-orgasm ngokukhuthazwa kwe-clitoris, kodwa ayikho i-orgasm ngesikhathi sokungena ababhekwa njengokungasebenzi kahle kocansi kwabesifazane yi-DSM5.

Ukuncipha kwesifiso noma ukungabi khona ngokuphelele kwesifiso kwabesifazane

Lokhu kungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi kwabesifazane kuchazwa njengokuyekwa okuphelele noma ukwehla okukhulu kwentshisekelo yocansi noma ukuvuswa inkanuko yocansi. Okungenani izindlela ezi-3 phakathi kwalezi ezilandelayo kumele zihlangatshezwe ukuze kube khona ukungasebenzi kahle:

• Ukungabi nentshisekelo ekwenzeni ucansi (ukuntuleka kwesifiso socansi),
• Ukwehla okuphawulekayo kwesithakazelo socansi (ukuncipha kwesifiso socansi),
• Ukungabikho kwemicabango yocansi,
• Ukungabikho kwemicabango yocansi noma evusa inkanuko,
• Ukwenqaba kowesifazane ukuya ocansini nomlingani wakhe,
• Ukungabikho komuzwa wobumnandi ngesikhathi socansi.

Ukuze kube ngempela ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi okuhlobene nentshisekelo yocansi kanye nokuvusa inkanuko, lezi zimpawu kumele zihlale isikhathi esingaphezu kwezinyanga eziyi-6 futhi zidale ukucindezeleka kowesifazane. . Akufanele futhi zihlobane nokugula noma ukusetshenziswa kwezinto ezinobuthi (izidakamizwa). Le nkinga ingase ibe yakamuva (izinyanga ezingu-6 noma ngaphezulu) noma ihlale noma iqhubeke futhi ibe khona phakade. Kungaba lula, kumaphakathi noma kube nzima.

Ubuhlungu ngesikhathi sokungena kanye nobuhlungu be-gyneco-pelvic

Sikhuluma ngalesi sifo lapho owesifazane ezwa izinyanga ezingu-6 noma ngaphezulu ubunzima obuphindaphindiwe ngesikhathi sokungena obuzibonakalisa ngale ndlela elandelayo:

• Ukwesaba okukhulu noma ukukhathazeka ngaphambi, ngesikhathi, noma ngemva kocansi olungena emlonyeni.
• Ubuhlungu ku-pelvis encane noma endaweni ye-vulvovaginal ngesikhathi sokungena ocansini lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane noma lapho uzama ukuya ocansini olungena ngaphakathi.
• Ukuqina okumakiwe noma ukufinyela kwemisipha ye-pelvic noma engezansi kwesisu lapho uzama ukungena esithweni sangasese.

Ukuze singene kulolu hlaka, asibafaki abantu besifazane abanokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okungezona ezocansi, isibonelo isimo se ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokuhlukumezeka (owesifazane ongasakwazi ukuya ocansini elandela umuntu oqaphile akangeni kulolu hlaka), ukucindezeleka ngokobudlelwane (udlame lwasekhaya), noma okunye ukucindezeleka okukhulu noma izifo ezingathinta ubulili.

Lokhu kungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi kungaba okuthambile, okulingene noma kube nzima futhi kuhlale njalo noma kube isikhathi esiguquguqukayo (kodwa njalo kube ngaphezu kwezinyanga eziyi-6 ukufaka incazelo esemthethweni).

Izikhathi eziningi, izimo kwesinye isikhathi zingahlangana. Ngokwesibonelo, a ukulahlekelwa isifiso kungabangela ubuhlungu ngesikhathi socansi, okungaba imbangela yokungakwazi ukufinyelela i-orgasm, noma ngisho ne-libido ephansi.

Izimo noma izimo ezidala ukungasebenzi ngokocansi

Phakathi kwalezi eziyinhloko:

Ukuntula ulwazi ngocansi. 

Nokuntuleka kokufunda njengombhangqwana. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ubulili buyimvelo nokuthi yonke into kufanele ihambe kahle ngokushesha. Akunjalo, ubulili bufundwa kancane kancane. Singaphawula futhi a imfundo eqinile ukwethule ucansi njengolunqatshelwe noma oluyingozi. Kusavame kakhulu nanamuhla.

Imininingwane engamanga ehlakazwe yizithombe zocansi.

Namuhla endaweni yonke, kungaphazamisa ukusungulwa kobulili obuzolile, kubangele ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka, ngisho nemikhuba engahambisani nentuthuko eqhubekayo yombhangqwana.

Ubunzima kulo mbhangqwana.

izinzuzo Izingxabano ukungaxazululeki nozakwethu kuvame ukuba nemiphumela ku isifiso ukuya ocansini nokudedela ukusondelana nomlingani wakhe (noma wakhe).

Ubungqingili beLatent noma engaziwa

Lokhu kungaba nemiphumela ebudlelwaneni bocansi.

Ukucindezeleka, ukudangala, ukukhathazeka.

Ukungezwani kwemizwa okudalwa ukuxakeka (lokhu kuhlanganisa ukufuna ukujabulisa nokwanelisa umlingani wakho), ukucindezeleka, L 'ukukhathazeka or umkhombe ngokuvamile kunciphisa isifiso socansi kanye nokudedela.

Ukuthinta, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi noma ukudlwengulwa

Abesifazane abake bahlukunyezwa ngokocansi esikhathini esedlule bavame ukubika ukuzwa ubuhlungu ngesikhathi socansi.

Izinkinga zempilo ezithinta izitho zangasese noma ezihlobene.

Abesifazane abane- i-vaginitis, lo pheshana urinary ukutheleleka, isifo esithathelwana ngocansi noma i-vestibulitis (ukuvuvukala kolwelwesi lwamafinyila eduze komnyango wesitho sangasese sowesifazane) ubuhlungu besitho sangasese sowesifazane ngesikhathi socansi ngenxa yokungakhululeki nokoma kolwelwesi lwamafinyila okudalwa yilezi zimo.

Abesifazane abanei-endometriosis bavame ukuba nobuhlungu ngesikhathi socansi. Ukungezwani nezindwangu ezithile ezisetshenziswa uma kwenziwa izingubo zangaphansi, isidoda noma i-latex kumakhondomu nakho kungabangela ubuhlungu.

Lobu bunzima, ngisho nokwelashwa kungaholela ebunzimeni bocansi isikhathi eside kamuva. Ngempela, umzimba unenkumbulo futhi ungesaba ukuthintana ocansini uma uke wahlangana nodokotela okubuhlungu.

Izifo ezingamahlalakhona noma ukuthatha imithi.

Izifo ezimbi kakhulu noma ezingalapheki ezishintsha kakhulu amandla, isimo sengqondo nendlela yokuphila (isifo samathambo, umdlavuza, ubuhlungu obungapheli, njll.) kuvame ukuba nemiphumela entunukweni yocansi.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, eminye imithi inciphisa ukugeleza kwegazi ku-clitoris nasezithweni zangasese, okwenza kube nzima ukufinyelela i-orgasm. Kunjalo kwezinye izidakamizwa zomfutho wegazi ophezulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye izidakamizwa zinganciphisa ukugcotshwa kwe-mucosa yangasese kwabanye besifazane: amaphilisi okulawula ukuzalwa, ama-antihistamine nama-antidepressants. Amanye ama-antidepressants ayaziwa ukuthi anciphisa noma avimbele ukuqala kwe-orgasm (kokubili kwabesilisa nabesifazane).

Ukukhulelwa kanye nezimo zako ezihlukahlukene nakho kuguqula isifiso sobulili

Isifiso socansi kungase kwehle kwabesifazane abahlushwa isicanucanu, ukuhlanza nobuhlungu bebele, noma uma bekhathazekile ngokukhulelwa.

Kusukela ku-trimester yesibili, ukuvuswa ngokocansi kuvame ukuba phezulu ngoba ukujikeleza kwegazi kucushiwe endaweni yocansi, ukuze nje uqeqeshe futhi ukondle ingane. Lokhu kuvula kuholela ekwandeni kokuchelela kanye nokusebenza kabusha kwezitho zocansi. Ukwanda kwe libido kungahle kube nomphumela.

Ngokufika okuseduze kwengane kanye nezinguquko emzimbeni ezigcizelelwe, isakhi sofuzo (isisu esikhulu, ubunzima bokuthola indawo yocansi ekhululekile), singanciphisa isifiso sobulili. Isifiso socansi ngokwemvelo siyehla ngemva kokubeletha ngenxa yokuwohloka kwamahomoni. Lokhu kuholela ekuvinjweni okuphelele kwesifiso kwabesifazane abaningi okungenani izinyanga ezi-3 kuya kweziyisi-6 kanye nokoma okunzima kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngoba i-ukuzala kuyanwebeka imisipha ebambe iqhaza ku-orgasm, kuyalulekwa ukwenza amaseshini wokwakha umzimba we-perineal anqunywe udokotela ngemuva kokubeletha. Lokhu kusiza ukuthola ama-orgasm asebenza kangcono ngokushesha okukhulu.

Ukuncipha kwesifiso socansi ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini.

Ama-hormone estrogen kanye ne-testosterone - abesifazane baphinde bakhiqize i-testosterone, kodwa ngamanani amancane kunamadoda - kubonakala sengathi badlala indima ebalulekile isifiso sobulili. Inguquko eya menopause, kunciphisa ukukhiqizwa kwe-estrogen. Kwabanye besifazane, lokhu kubangela ukwehla kwe-libido futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, kancane kancane eminyakeni embalwa, kungaholela ekomeni kwangasese. Lokhu kungadala ukucasuka okungajabulisi ngesikhathi socansi futhi uyelulekwa ngokuqinile ukuthi ukhulume nodokotela wakho ngakho njengoba zikhona njengamanje izixazululo zokukulungisa.