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Imigqa esemqoka yezinguquko zekhefu labazali, ukulwa nokucwaswa ngokobulili, isimo semindeni enomzali oyedwa… uNgqongqoshe Wamalungelo Abantu Besifazane uphendula imibuzo yethu.
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Ukuguqulwa kwekhefu labazali
Njengoba uMongameli weRiphabhulikhi ekhumbula izolo ngobusuku bethu obukhulu “umhla ziyisi-8 kuNdasa unyaka wonke”, kuyadingeka ukucacisa kangcono isikhathi sempilo yabesifazane nokuqinisekisa ukuthi abasajeziswa lapho bebuya ekhefini labazali. Sisebenzela ithrekhi ekhombise ukubaluleka kwayo, ikakhulukazi eJalimane, ehlanganisa ukunikeza ubaba ingxenye yaleli khefu. (Izinyanga eziyisi-6 esikhathini esifinyelela eminyakeni emi-3). Elinye iphuzu elibalulekile: ukuqeqeshwa komama ngalesi sikhathi sokuthatha umhlalaphansi empilweni, ukuze bathole indlela eya emsebenzini kalula. Ngiye ngakwenza futhi inkonzo yami ize kuqala.
Ukusekela omama abangabodwa ngezikhathi zobunzima
Uqinisile ukuveza ukuthi imindeni enomzali oyedwa, u-80% wayo okungabesifazane abangabodwa, iyizisulu zokuqala zale nkinga. Okokuqala, inkinga yezinkokhelo zokusekela. Eqinisweni, lezi zimpesheni zimelela cishe ingxenye yesihlanu yeholo lemikhaya empofu kakhulu enomzali oyedwa futhi ingxenye enkulu kakhulu yalezi zimpesheni ayikhokhelwa namuhla. Ngakho-ke, kufanele silwe nalezi zikweletu ezingakhokhiwe. Isikhwama Semali Yesibonelelo Somndeni singaqala ukunxeshezelwa kwabakweletayo, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi kufanele siqhubekele phambili. Ngithanda ukuqinisa izindlela zokubulala ezinikezwe ama-CAF maqondana nomuntu okweletayo kanye nokwenza ngcono ukubambisana kwamazwe ngamazwe, ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi umzali phesheya uyaqhubeka nokufeza izibopho zakhe. izibopho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisekela ukubuyekezwa kuka-25% weFamily Support Allowance, ekhokhelwa abazali abangabodwa abangayitholi impesheni.
Ibhalansi yokuphila komsebenzi kwabesifazane
Ngeke ngikufihlele ukuthi ukujova impilo yongqongqoshe nomama akulula nsuku zonke. Izikhathi engizichitha nezingane zami ziyigugu, ngizijabulela nakakhulu. Ngisebenza kakhulu ekukhulumeni ngempilo yomama, udaba olungahlukaniseki nokuguqulwa kwekhefu labazali esisanda kulibalula.
Izimpi zobufazi kusukela izolo kuze kube namuhla
Ziningi izimpi ezilwiwayo ezilwela amalungelo abesifazane. Ngemva kwempi, abesifazane balwela amalungelo afanayo nabesilisa: kwakuwukuthola ilungelo lokuvota, ilungelo lokuvula i-akhawunti ngaphandle kwemvume yomngane womshado noma ukusebenzisa igunya eligcwele labazali. … Yilokhu engikubiza ngesizukulwane sokuqala samalungelo abantu besifazane. Ngemva kwalokho, isizukulwane sesibili samalungelo abantu besifazane sabanikeza amalungelo athile ahlobene nesimo sabo njengabesifazane: ukuchithwa komzimba mahhala, ukuvikelwa ekuhlukunyezweni, udlame lobulili… Lawa malungelo afakwe emthethweni. Naphezu kwakho konke, siphawula ukuthi ukungalingani kusaqhubeka. Ngakho-ke, namuhla sisebenzela isizukulwane sesi-3 samalungelo abantu besifazane, okufanele sisiholele emphakathini onokulingana kwangempela.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngifuna ukulwa nokucwasa ngokobulili kusukela enkulisa, hhayi ukungabaza ukuhlukana kwezinto eziphilayo phakathi komfana nentombazane kodwa ukusebenzela ukwakhiwa kwemibono esiyithola kusukela esemncane futhi enomthelela. esimeme emva kwalokho. Kungakho nginqume ukusungula uhlelo olubizwa nge-“ABCD de equality”, oluhloselwe bonke abafundi kusukela esigabeni esikhulu senkulisa kuya ku-CM2 nothisha babo futhi oluhlose ukuhlukanisa imibono etholiwe mayelana nezimfanelo ezicatshangwayo zamantombazane nabafana. , emisebenzini etholakalayo kubo njll. Njengoba ithuthukiswa, leli thuluzi lezemfundo lizohlolwa ekuqaleni konyaka wesikole ka-2013 ezikhungweni zemfundo ephakeme ezinhlanu futhi liyoba isihloko sohlelo lokuhlola oluyobe selusetshenziswa kuzo zonke izikole.