I-Psychology

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Elena Perova siyaphawula: “Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseDenmark sidweba umfanekiso onemininingwane eminingi womuntu ambiza ngokuthi uzwela kakhulu. “Usengozini, ukhathazekile, unozwelo futhi uyazicabangela yena yedwa. USand uqobo ungowalesi sigaba. Ukuzwela okuphezulu kuvame ukubhekwa njengento engalungile, ngoba abantu abanjalo baphelelwa amandla kalula engqondweni. Kodwa-ke, futhi inezici eziningi ezinhle: ukucabangela, ikhono lokuzwa ubuhle ngobuqili, ingokomoya elithuthukisiwe, umthwalo wemfanelo.

Ukuze lezi zinzuzo zibonakale, umuntu ozwelayo, esikhundleni sokukhathazeka mayelana nokumelana nokucindezeleka okuphansi, akufanele angabaze ukumemezela kwabanye ngezici zakhe. Chaza ukuthi udinga ukuba yedwa, ashiye amaholide kusenesikhathi, futhi angaveli nhlobo, cela izivakashi ukuthi zigoduke ngehora lesishiyagalolunye ngqo. Ngamafuphi, lungisa umhlaba ozungezile ukuze ube nezici zakho futhi uphile impilo yakho. Okuwukuphela kombuzo ukuthi umuntu ngamunye ozwela kanjalo (ikakhulukazi umuntu oqalayo) angathola khona umlingani wempilo ephelele ozokwenza imisebenzi eyisicefe njengokuthenga ifenisha, ukuphelezela izingane emakilasini nasemihlanganweni yabazali nothisha.

USand uphawula ngokucasuka ukuthi abantu abazwela kakhulu babevame ukubizwa ngokuthi iziguli ezinovalo, kodwa yena ngokwakhe ukhuluma ngazo ngokwesaba okunjalo, njengokungathi utusa ukuphathwa ngaleyo ndlela. Umbono wencwadi ulula, kodwa awubalulekile kangako: sihlukile, izici zethu eziningi zizalwa futhi zingashintshwa kancane. Akusizi ngalutho kwabanye bethu ukuzama ukuzenza iqhawe elinomdlandla elibhala uhla lwezenzo eziyikhulu ekuseni bese luqeda ngesikhathi sesidlo sasemini. U-Ilse Sand usiza abantu abanjalo ukuba bazamukele futhi ubatshele indlela yokuzinakekela.”

Ukuhumusha kusuka ku-Danish ngu-Anastasia Naumova, u-Nikolai Fitsov. U-Alpina Umshicileli, i-158 p.

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