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Izingane zihlakazekile, zihlakazekile kunengane: ukuthi wenzeni
Kungani izingane zihlakazekile, zingenile futhi zihamba kancane? Ingane enganaki, "ukuhamba emafwini" iba yinkinga yangempela kubazali, futhi umphuphi ngokwakhe, ongakwazi ukubhekana nalesi sici yedwa, uhlupheka kakhulu. Ungazibeka kanjani izizathu zokuziphatha okungajwayelekile, ukuthi ungayithola kanjani indlela eya enganeni? Ake sikuthole.
Kungani izingane zingenayo ingqondo?
Ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, ukunakwa okusakazekile enganeni kubhekwa njengokujwayelekile. Lapho usemncane, ukukhetha okubonakalayo ezinganeni kusekhona. Ukubuka imvuthu kuyama entweni ngayinye ayithandayo. Amandla okugxila esihlokweni esisodwa imizuzu engaphezu kweshumi nanhlanu akhiwa kuphela eneminyaka eyisithupha.
Ngenkathi yokukhula nokuvuthwa kobuchopho, ukuphazamiseka okuncane emisebenzini yayo kwesinye isikhathi kuyenzeka, kepha ukubonakaliswa okunjalo akuyona neze inkinga yokuthuthuka.
Kufanele ubhekisise ingane yakho, amandla ayo, efihlwe ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle kokungalungi nokuziphatha
Inkinga yokushoda kokunakwa kwezingane yenzeka kuyo yonke ingane yeshumi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokungafani namantombazane, abafana banamathuba aphindwe kabili okuba sengozini. Kodwa-ke, akufanele wethuke futhi ugijimele ekhemisi ukuthola imithi ngoba nje ingane isilutha kakhulu kumathoyizi ayo awathandayo, ikhohlwa ijakhethi yayo esikoleni, noma ihlala ngasefasiteleni, iphupha ngokuhlola umhlaba omzungezile.
Kuthiwani uma ingane yakho ingekho emqondweni?
Uthando, ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa njalo kwezingane kuyindlela ephumelela kunazo zonke, enye indlela eqinisekisiwe yemithi engcono kakhulu. Izingane ezingenamqondo zivame ukukhohlwa okuthile. Into esemqoka ukuthi abazali babo bakhumbula konke!
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlaziya nokukhipha zonke izimo ezingezinhle ezingathinta kabi ingqondo yengane:
uma ingane iya enkulisa, kufanele uqiniseke ngokuhleleka kwansuku zonke kwesikhungo. Uma kunesidingo, thola inkulisa enesheduli eguquguqukayo;
Umsebenzi wesikole, lapho ingane ingenayo ingqondo futhi inganaki ngenxa yokusebenza ngokweqile, kuyasiza ukuyifaka esikhundleni sokufunda emakhaya. Indawo entofontofo izokuvumela ukuthi uguqule inqubo yezemfundo ibe yimisebenzi ethokozisayo enezakhi zemfundo;
Imisebenzi yezemidlalo inikeza amathuba amahle kakhulu wokukhishwa kwamandla amaningi. Enkundleni yebhola noma ejimini, ingane eye yaphazamiseka ngokusebenza ngokweqile inganikela ngamandla ayo angalawuleki.
Amakilasi ahlelekile nosizo lwezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane kuzosiza ukukhulisa ukugxila nokubekezela. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ukholelwe ukuthi ingane, ephazamisekile futhi enganaki izolo, iyakwazi ukufunda ukulawula imizwa yayo empilweni yansuku zonke.
UJean-Jacques Rousseau wayeqiniseka ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke ukudala amadoda ahlakaniphileyo ezinganeni uma abonayo bebulawa kubo. Zonke izingane zihlakazeke kakhulu, zisekela ingane yakho, uthando nokunakekelwa kuzosiza ukunqoba zonke izithiyo ezisendleleni yakhe.