QAPHELA omama nobaba! Ngoba nje wena "ezinkulu", abancane bakho bayakukholelwa ... futhi ulalele izwi lakho ! Futhi njengoba singahlali sinabo ubuciko nendlela yokukhuluma nabo, ukushelela kuvame. Imisho esiyidedela ngaphansi kwethonya lentukuthelo noma ukukhathala ngezinye izikhathi ibuhlungu ngaphezu kokushaywa ezinqeni: uma usupholile, uyakhohlwa noma uzisole ngalokho osanda kukusho, kuyilapho u-Pitchoun, yena, ingozi yokuyikhumbula isikhathi eside.
Ukukholelwa ukuthi abancane, abangenandaba kangako, ngokubukeka, abaqondi ingxenye yesine yalokho okushiwoyo, kuyiphutha elikhulu: izifinyezo ezimbalwa zamagama, ukuphinyiswa kwezwi lakho, i-pout yakho ephikisayo zonke izimpawu eziphawulekayo ngokushesha. Futhi iyiphi ingozi, uma unganakile, ithinte ukuzethemba kwakhe, ukumcasula ekuzweleni kwakhe nasothandweni analo ngawe.
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“Phela engikwenzele kona” noma okuhlukile kwayo okwaziwayo "Kungani ulimele mama?" “ zenziwa njalo ekhaya noma enkulisa, phambi kochwepheshe, abangalokothi bahluleke ukulungisa isimo, bakhumbuze abazali ukuthi ingane yabo inokuhlangenwe nakho kwayo okufanele ikwenze nokuphila kwayo, ngaphandle kokuzimela kwabo.
Futhi okufanele kugwenywe, imisho yohlobo “Kuyo yonke le nkinga engizinike yona, awuyithandi i-gratin yami”, “Uyangigulisa” noma inkulumo ebucayi nakakhulu, “Izongibulala leya ngane!” “ okukodwa nje kudala usizi nomuzwa wecala osinda kakhulu kumtwana wakho, okumenza azizwe enecala ngokwedlulele, okumenza abe necala ekuhluphekeni kwabanye ...
Phakathi kweminyaka engu-0 nengu-3 ubudala, ingane ithatha lokho esimtshela yona ngokoqobo futhi ikholelwa ngempela ukuthi iyasigulisa, ukuthi iyasibulala. Uzizwa enecala ngempela ngalokho akwenzayo kubazali bakhe futhi uma, ngeshwa, lokhu kuba ngokoqobo, imiphumela engokwengqondo ingase ibonakale iyinhlekelele esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ngisho nasesikhathini eside esizayo.
Isimo sengqondo esifanele : uma, isibonelo, u-Félicie enomhobholo. Esikhundleni sokuthi amtshele “Uqinisekile ukuthi ufuna ukulithola elinye ikhekhe?” “ ngakho-ke kumenza azizwe enecala ngokusikisela ukuthi kuzomenza akhuluphale, kungcono ukumchazela ukuthi usanda kudla ukudla okunomsoco futhi okunomsoco futhi asikisele ukuthi agcine ucezu lwekhekhe ukuze ajabulele itiye lantambama. . Ungamnqabeli ukwaneliseka ngokudla ikhekhe, kodwa ukulihambisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzomsiza ukuthi alwe kangcono nesifiso sakhe.